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Old Oct 30th, 2012, 05:22 AM   41
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I *wish* I had this thread when I was LTTTC!

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Mum i know you love me and really i love you but please stop telling me to be more positive and it will happen give it time. Well, its been 15 months, countless blood, semen tests, a lap and dye that revealed i only have one tube and one ovary. But yeah mum, i'm super positive
My mum was exactly the same and it drove me crazy. Now I finally am pregnant she keeps telling me not to buy too many baby things 'just in case'. Thanks for the positive thinking when I actually need it Mum!



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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 01:30 AM   42
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Feel like giving up on trying or lack of trying more to the point. Hubby always to tired. We had discussed said this morning that we would :sex tonight. Getting ovulation pains so thought we were in for a chance this month. But no he practically feel asleep before his he ad hit the pillow. No amount of encouragement helped. Cried myself to sleep all seems impossible. Think things are worse as made Appointment at private clinic today to discuss options but what's the point. NHS test shown I,m ok hubby has low sperm count. Keep saying that IVF is no walk in the park. Where do I go from here. Currently waiting on a referral to breast clinic as well just found out wait could be another 6 weeks not the original 4 I have waited already



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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 01:30 AM   43
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5 fecking years today we've been TTC. Not an anniversary I'll be celebrating.



 
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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 12:12 PM   44
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5 fecking years today we've been TTC. Not an anniversary I'll be celebrating.
Hope it happens for you soon. x



 
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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 12:29 PM   45
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5 fecking years today we've been TTC. Not an anniversary I'll be celebrating.
I am so sorry hun! Big hugs to you!!!




 
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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 13:04 PM   46
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Feel like giving up on trying or lack of trying more to the point. Hubby always to tired. We had discussed said this morning that we would :sex tonight. Getting ovulation pains so thought we were in for a chance this month. But no he practically feel asleep before his he ad hit the pillow. No amount of encouragement helped. Cried myself to sleep all seems impossible. Think things are worse as made Appointment at private clinic today to discuss options but what's the point. NHS test shown I,m ok hubby has low sperm count. Keep saying that IVF is no walk in the park. Where do I go from here. Currently waiting on a referral to breast clinic as well just found out wait could be another 6 weeks not the original 4 I have waited already
I know the feeling. DH noticed my positive OPK this month before I checked the test. He said we were going to DTD, but he fell asleep. Still haven't done it almost a week later!



 
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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 16:24 PM   47
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Think I need to talk things through with him... could be a long night.... we have been trying for on and off for over 5 years and no joy... it is soul distroying.... just found out the new guy at work who starts next month is the 'partner' of a friend at works friend. She was telling me that they have a baby together, which was 'unplanned' oh if it was that simple!



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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 17:19 PM   48
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Dear BFF Did you forget so soon that ive been TTC for 13yrs w my hubby? So glad u got pg the first mth married to ur husband..all you can do is mention well do you like this bedding or that picture..or you cant wait for baby shower and how I better make a trip to be there! What about me?!? Please dont send me another picture of baby furniture etc!! I cant take it..Did you really think I could handle ALL this????



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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 18:11 PM   49
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My goal was to get my bfp at this time last year. Still waiting. Its going on 2 years now. Since then I've watched over 15 friends/family celebrate their good fortune. In the last 6 months I've had back surgery & found out I now need knee surgery as well. I'm finally having success in ovulating after many, many months without & I can't do anything with it. Most days I know it's for the best, logically thinking. Logic doesn't make the tears taste any less bitter tho.

I didn't want to feel the way I did when your best friend found out he got his wife pregnant on their honeymoon, & I thought I made it clear that I didn't care to hear about their pregnancy - apparently tho, I wasn't clear - because on the day AF came, you asked me to send flowers to their hospital room to say congrats. That was 4 months ago now & I still feel awful for the pangs of jealousy that overtook my emotions & had me sobbing as I repeated the spelling of the baby's name to make sure I got it correct. You've since asked for forgiveness for being insensitive, & even tho I've told you I forgive you, every time AF comes I remember those feelings all over again.

To the friend on FB that "struggled" for 3 months to get pregnant, I feel your pain - x8. Could you please stop complaining about your awful morning sickness at 6 weeks? I'm trying to empathize, but I'm having a hard time seeing it as such a burden.

& lastly, on a positive note - to my best friend that has been TTC right along with me the entire time, thank you for being my friend, my sounding board & my strength, you don't know how much I really appreciate & love you.



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Old Nov 1st, 2012, 22:44 PM   50
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I'm starting to miss the feeling where sex was for pleasure, not a job.



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