Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

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Thread open!

Only question I have is are vents for those who are LTTC #1 acceptable? Meaning if someone were to vent about others pregnancy would it be safe without getting jumped on?

Wanna say thank you for re-opening these vent threads. Lets hope for a brighter future this time and for venting to not be taken personally this time

Hoorah! I've been busting to rant for weeks

After finally getting the thumbs up from the hospital to be referred to the Fertility Clinic for IVF on the NHS... nothing happened.

Rang the hospital who said the clinic would be in touch with an appointment.

Waited a bit longer and rang the clinic who said thay hadnt recieved a referral from the docs.

Rang the docs who said they didnt know they were supposed to do anything.

After a very long and convulted email converstation with the clinic, 5 weeks from initial go-ahead, finally got told to ring on 1st day of next AF, which as I had just finished AF means 19th October.

AGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

Calming down now as the paperwork, with about a 1000 questions has arrived and things are starting to happen. Why is everything so complicated. I just want a bloomin baby.

Rant over.
Many thanks

thanks soo much for reminding me i have been ttc for a year. thanks alot.

I knew you were preggo when I saw you tonight - I just KNEW it. Afterwards my husband spilled your secret beans to me in the car. I am happy for you and I wish you and your little bean all the best and health in the world... But, did I HAVE to find out on the night I am going to get my period, after a long cycle (60 days and counting) and I am STILL not preggo? I wish the news would have waited a week.

Dear DH, getting moppy at a show that was showing a mother with her newborn was not an attack towards you hurting your neck. The emotions are always there with or without being able to BD on O. Don't take it so personally.

OH, in future tell me when your working! instead of leaving it until half 2 in the afternoon to tell me your working at 9 tonight. and don't claim that i seen the text when your boss text you because i never, don't just presume i read your texts to find stuff out! you do need to tell me.

lol

Why do I need to be notified daily of how many weeks, days you are via a Facebook app?! Daily!!!!

Also, NHS, wait for an appointment, wait for a letter, wait for another appointment. Wait wait wait. Yay! /sarcasm