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Old Dec 2nd, 2017, 12:11 PM   1971
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Took another test today used up the final FRER took it this afternoon, no hold and had drank plenty of water before hand and the test couldn't get any darker Im so made up xx



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Old Dec 2nd, 2017, 12:12 PM   1972
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I dont know if they will Krissie Ive never been in this boat before I'll know more come Tuesday x



 
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Old Dec 2nd, 2017, 23:41 PM   1973
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What a beautiful line, Angela! I will be praying that everything goes smoothly and that baby is developing nicely. I'm so happy for you. You've been waiting so long and patiently. You deserve this.

I'm doing okay. I've been busy with teaching and my graduate program, which is good. I am just struggling with what to do next. I feel like I'm stuck at this awkward stage in my life where I want to go to the next stage (parenting) but I can't get there. Also, it's been tough on my husband. I feel like we have had so many arguments in the past year, and it all goes back to the baby stuff. I just don't know what to do. I want to pursue treatment, but there are things holding us back. It just sucks.



 
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Old Dec 3rd, 2017, 05:04 AM   1974
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Me and DH had a rough time after the last failed attempt in Jan the years of TTC had talen it's toll and we were at breaking point in a bad way. I think the best thing we both did was fake some time out from it all and get to know eachother again. We grew close again and had a long discussion about going back befire we did we talked about our fears of feeling worthless through it all and like failures and our worry that it wouldn't work again and it would cause a rift between us. I think this time that we went back we were closer in it together, we didn't put any pressure on eachother and there was no stress I think thats why it worked. Im 34 yrs old DH is 35 yrs old I turn 35 next yr so you have plenty of time.

Maybe take some time out and focus on each other again take as long as you need and then come back to it when your ready it might do the trick xx we took 9 months out of our TTC journey and I think it did us a world of good xx

My DH was the same as yours back then I felt like I was on my own in it all by the end of it now he's fully on the same page as me xx



 
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Old Dec 3rd, 2017, 06:03 AM   1975
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Oh wow hun huge congratulations! You must be so excited! Praying this is your rainbow baby.. xx so happy for you! You deserve this!


I feel really crampy today and when I wiped there was a pink tinge on the tissue.. odd as I'm only on CD 23 in wondering if it's a slow build up before af! Doesn't normally come til least CD 32.



 
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Old Dec 3rd, 2017, 06:47 AM   1976
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Thats good if your cycles got shorter hun I generally spot red for atleast 3-4 days before AF comes maybe its that xx



 
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Old Dec 4th, 2017, 23:30 PM   1977
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Thank you for those words, Angela! I am so glad to know that I am not alone. It has really taken a toll on our marriage. I'm sure it's very frustrating for my husband, especially since it's not something that is wrong with him physically. I feel like through this we will become closer, but there have been a couple of times that I literally am not sure that our marriage will survive because of the frustration and animosity at times. He just seemed so unhappy. I feel that it all goes back to the infertility, though, and sadness.

On a more positive note, hubby was really upset about everything a few nights ago and I told him that we could pursue treatment again. I told him there is no reason for us to continue waiting and that if we are just waiting to have thousands of dispensable dollars, it isn't going to happen. I told him that I was ready to go back to the doctor, and that it had been a year and a half. He told me that when he gets his bonus this month he wants me to schedule an appointment. So, assuming he doesn't change his mind, I'll hopefully have an appointment in January! I am really excited about the prospect of moving forward. I assume if we move forward that we will be doing injections. Our insurance doesn't cover IUI so I'm hoping that just the injections and times intercourse will do the trick.

How are you feeling Angela? Do you have an appointment tomorrow?



 
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Old Dec 5th, 2017, 07:15 AM   1978
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Brandi I really hope the onjections work keep us posted how everything goes and your right there is never a good time to go back on my transfer wknd I had my brother visiting for the wknd with his wife and 2 children, I also had my nieces 13th birthday and promised my twin I would help her with the party and I also had to pick up my grandma and take her home after the wknd. It was hard making sure I was careful didnt over strain myself and also keeping it quiet from everyone.

Well my latest test below I had to take it as contact hospital today and gave them the news I have my first scan on 28th Dec at 12pm, Ive also informed my Drs surgery and my midwife has alrwady been in touch she seems nice from speaking to her on the phone

How is everybody else doing xx



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Old Dec 5th, 2017, 10:31 AM   1979
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Congrats Angela!! I can't wait to hear how your ultrasound goes. That will be a good gestation to see a lovely little bean in there.



 
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Brandi- It sounds like you have a lot going on right now. I hope that you guys can move forward with treatment in the new year. I am pretty sure I got pregnant at the worst possible time with my DS, but in the end it did work out well.



 
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