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Old Jan 17th, 2017, 20:41 PM   1
Babydust1234
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Ttc but it's taking forever!


Hi guys, tia for reading.

I am getting so impatient,
I have been with my partner for 3 years and have been trying for around 2. But calculating ovulation dates and stuff for around 8 months or so.

Now I understand that people have been ttc ALOT longer than me and my hat goes off to you guys for being so patient.

We have both been to the docs and both are healthy and no diagnose fertility problem/s...

(He is 33 and I'm 19..
I know there is a massive age gap but it's just a number plus we have been together for so long.
I have my own house , income and car etc...)

He is so desperate for a child.. as am I!!!

I know you guys won't like to hear this but with his ex gf 10 yrs ago, she had a baby... and he raised the son till about 6 months when she TOLD HIM IT WASNT HIS!!!
How discusting..

All we talk about is child this child that..
And before a Debby downer comes and says "you have you're whole life ahead of you don't be so stupid" I know what I am doing . I am an independent woman who is very eager to be a mother and has been for over 2 years!!

But back to the point anyway.. I would appreciate it so much if somebody else could relate with ttc.. I am so heartbroken . I don't want to be 70 doing the school run lol (if it even happens!!)

Good luck to all of you beautiful ladies out there ttc!
Thankyou for reading,

My first post on here! :-)



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Old Jan 18th, 2017, 10:37 AM   2
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Hi guys, tia for reading.

I am getting so impatient,
I have been with my partner for 3 years and have been trying for around 2. But calculating ovulation dates and stuff for around 8 months or so.

Now I understand that people have been ttc ALOT longer than me and my hat goes off to you guys for being so patient.

We have both been to the docs and both are healthy and no diagnose fertility problem/s...

(He is 33 and I'm 19..
I know there is a massive age gap but it's just a number plus we have been together for so long.
I have my own house , income and car etc...)

He is so desperate for a child.. as am I!!!

I know you guys won't like to hear this but with his ex gf 10 yrs ago, she had a baby... and he raised the son till about 6 months when she TOLD HIM IT WASNT HIS!!!
How discusting..

All we talk about is child this child that..
And before a Debby downer comes and says "you have you're whole life ahead of you don't be so stupid" I know what I am doing . I am an independent woman who is very eager to be a mother and has been for over 2 years!!

But back to the point anyway.. I would appreciate it so much if somebody else could relate with ttc.. I am so heartbroken . I don't want to be 70 doing the school run lol (if it even happens!!)

Good luck to all of you beautiful ladies out there ttc!
Thankyou for reading,

My first post on here! :-)

I am new here too!!! I'm sorry, for all of us, (rofl) when TTC without success. It is one thing to do something for 6 months, temporary, but it is another thing to be at it for year(s). I admire that you know what you want at 19.

Have you considered taking the next steps like an IUI or anything?

So I think it's good when people know what they want,



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Old Jan 18th, 2017, 15:12 PM   3
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Hi guys, tia for reading.

I am getting so impatient,
I have been with my partner for 3 years and have been trying for around 2. But calculating ovulation dates and stuff for around 8 months or so.

Now I understand that people have been ttc ALOT longer than me and my hat goes off to you guys for being so patient.

We have both been to the docs and both are healthy and no diagnose fertility problem/s...

(He is 33 and I'm 19..
I know there is a massive age gap but it's just a number plus we have been together for so long.
I have my own house , income and car etc...)

He is so desperate for a child.. as am I!!!

I know you guys won't like to hear this but with his ex gf 10 yrs ago, she had a baby... and he raised the son till about 6 months when she TOLD HIM IT WASNT HIS!!!
How discusting..

All we talk about is child this child that..
And before a Debby downer comes and says "you have you're whole life ahead of you don't be so stupid" I know what I am doing . I am an independent woman who is very eager to be a mother and has been for over 2 years!!

But back to the point anyway.. I would appreciate it so much if somebody else could relate with ttc.. I am so heartbroken . I don't want to be 70 doing the school run lol (if it even happens!!)

Good luck to all of you beautiful ladies out there ttc!
Thankyou for reading,

My first post on here! :-)

I am new here too!!! I'm sorry, for all of us, (rofl) when TTC without success. It is one thing to do something for 6 months, temporary, but it is another thing to be at it for year(s). I admire that you know what you want at 19.

Have you considered taking the next steps like an IUI or anything?

So I think it's good when people know what they want,
Hey thankyou for getting back to me! And yea. - people usually judge because of age but I just think I'm ready now and am so so broody!! Baby dust to you ttc if that's what you want. I spoke to a doctor .. and they said come back after 1 yr of trying. So I have been caluclating and using Otks but still no luck... hope things work out for you appreciaye the reply

So yeah, would like to do all of that stuff however the doctor advised to go back after a year of trying x



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Old Jan 19th, 2017, 13:44 PM   4
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Hi and welcome! I was ttc for almost two years without any explanation as to why it wasn't working out and I got pregnant on my second round of clomid. Definitely worth looking into some options! Good luck



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Hi and welcome! I was ttc for almost two years without any explanation as to why it wasn't working out and I got pregnant on my second round of clomid. Definitely worth looking into some options! Good luck
Hi, thankyou!! I will look into it after a year of trying xx



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Hi guys, tia for reading.

I am getting so impatient,
I have been with my partner for 3 years and have been trying for around 2. But calculating ovulation dates and stuff for around 8 months or so.

Now I understand that people have been ttc ALOT longer than me and my hat goes off to you guys for being so patient.

We have both been to the docs and both are healthy and no diagnose fertility problem/s...

(He is 33 and I'm 19..
I know there is a massive age gap but it's just a number plus we have been together for so long.
I have my own house , income and car etc...)

He is so desperate for a child.. as am I!!!

I know you guys won't like to hear this but with his ex gf 10 yrs ago, she had a baby... and he raised the son till about 6 months when she TOLD HIM IT WASNT HIS!!!
How discusting..

All we talk about is child this child that..
And before a Debby downer comes and says "you have you're whole life ahead of you don't be so stupid" I know what I am doing . I am an independent woman who is very eager to be a mother and has been for over 2 years!!

But back to the point anyway.. I would appreciate it so much if somebody else could relate with ttc.. I am so heartbroken . I don't want to be 70 doing the school run lol (if it even happens!!)

Good luck to all of you beautiful ladies out there ttc!
Thankyou for reading,

My first post on here! :-)

I am new here too!!! I'm sorry, for all of us, (rofl) when TTC without success. It is one thing to do something for 6 months, temporary, but it is another thing to be at it for year(s). I admire that you know what you want at 19.

Have you considered taking the next steps like an IUI or anything?

So I think it's good when people know what they want,
Hey thankyou for getting back to me! And yea. - people usually judge because of age but I just think I'm ready now and am so so broody!! Baby dust to you ttc if that's what you want. I spoke to a doctor .. and they said come back after 1 yr of trying. So I have been caluclating and using Otks but still no luck... hope things work out for you appreciaye the reply

So yeah, would like to do all of that stuff however the doctor advised to go back after a year of trying x


The bright side is you still have several months of trying yet, I remember that feeling like I wanted to do more to control the outcome but waiting to hit that 12 month mark to really get down to business. I hope you get preggo asap so you can avoid all fertility measures!!!!!!



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Hi guys, tia for reading.

I am getting so impatient,
I have been with my partner for 3 years and have been trying for around 2. But calculating ovulation dates and stuff for around 8 months or so.

Now I understand that people have been ttc ALOT longer than me and my hat goes off to you guys for being so patient.

We have both been to the docs and both are healthy and no diagnose fertility problem/s...

(He is 33 and I'm 19..
I know there is a massive age gap but it's just a number plus we have been together for so long.
I have my own house , income and car etc...)

He is so desperate for a child.. as am I!!!

I know you guys won't like to hear this but with his ex gf 10 yrs ago, she had a baby... and he raised the son till about 6 months when she TOLD HIM IT WASNT HIS!!!
How discusting..

All we talk about is child this child that..
And before a Debby downer comes and says "you have you're whole life ahead of you don't be so stupid" I know what I am doing . I am an independent woman who is very eager to be a mother and has been for over 2 years!!

But back to the point anyway.. I would appreciate it so much if somebody else could relate with ttc.. I am so heartbroken . I don't want to be 70 doing the school run lol (if it even happens!!)

Good luck to all of you beautiful ladies out there ttc!
Thankyou for reading,

My first post on here! :-)

I am new here too!!! I'm sorry, for all of us, (rofl) when TTC without success. It is one thing to do something for 6 months, temporary, but it is another thing to be at it for year(s). I admire that you know what you want at 19.

Have you considered taking the next steps like an IUI or anything?

So I think it's good when people know what they want,
Hey thankyou for getting back to me! And yea. - people usually judge because of age but I just think I'm ready now and am so so broody!! Baby dust to you ttc if that's what you want. I spoke to a doctor .. and they said come back after 1 yr of trying. So I have been caluclating and using Otks but still no luck... hope things work out for you appreciaye the reply

So yeah, would like to do all of that stuff however the doctor advised to go back after a year of trying x


The bright side is you still have several months of trying yet, I remember that feeling like I wanted to do more to control the outcome but waiting to hit that 12 month mark to really get down to business. I hope you get preggo asap so you can avoid all fertility measures!!!!!!
Thankyou, had mild cramping around 4/5 dpo .. and my vains in my breasts are bright blue and I can't stop going to the toilet not like a uti tho sorry for the tmi but every 10 15 mins I need the loo!! I'm due on is 2 days so will update you . Took a pgt today and no luck
But will keep U updated xxx some people just catch so easily it's not fair lol but happy for them too!



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