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Old Jul 12th, 2017, 09:40 AM   901
Norelisa
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Belle, please stay here though`?!! Even when I'm not on clomid I feel welcome in this group)


I know my hubby wants a baby too, its only his family trying to blame me.. First they thought I was the problem, now they mean it must be psychological as we haven't gotten pregnant yet. Hubby talks about having a baby a lot, we talk about how we want to raise kids, he do whatever he can to make sure we are in the same country when I o.. ( 95% success rate on that, haha).. They are just really insensitive ... sigh.. I am looking forward to getting my own place.. And a few kitties.. I will get two sweethearts named Mook and Chok Dee from Paws. (If anyone is curious you can check their Facebook, I think both profiles are there.. )



 
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Old Jul 12th, 2017, 13:55 PM   902
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Yes, Belle please don't leave! I am not a clomid buddy anymore either! I just feel like I belong more here than anyone else though. You guys get it. The testing board is not very fun for those of us who've been at it awhile.



 
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Old Jul 12th, 2017, 18:57 PM   903
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I'll be sticking around I agree, the testing boards are pretty painful most of the time. You can't join in on the fun when chances are there is no point in getting excited!

Nore I'm sorry your in laws are so insensitive! Also loving your plan for those kitties they sound adorable



 
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Old Jul 13th, 2017, 09:56 AM   904
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Hey guys, can I get some chart help? I use Ava to chart now, but she says I O'ed on Tuesday 7/11, which doesn't jive with the positive OPK I got on Thursday 7/6. Not sure if it is possible to O that late?

So just in case, I basically pretended that both 7/8 and 7/11 were O days, just to make sure I had my bases covered. But now I just want to make sure I have really O'ed. I put my Ava temps into Fertility Friend with the positive OPK, and this is what the chart looks like. What do you guys think? Have I already O'ed (ie, can I relax now, lol), and which day do you think it really was?



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Old Jul 14th, 2017, 11:20 AM   905
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Hey guys, can I get some chart help? I use Ava to chart now, but she says I O'ed on Tuesday 7/11, which doesn't jive with the positive OPK I got on Thursday 7/6. Not sure if it is possible to O that late?

So just in case, I basically pretended that both 7/8 and 7/11 were O days, just to make sure I had my bases covered. But now I just want to make sure I have really O'ed. I put my Ava temps into Fertility Friend with the positive OPK, and this is what the chart looks like. What do you guys think? Have I already O'ed (ie, can I relax now, lol), and which day do you think it really was?
I would say either 7th or 8th of June.. have you tried different modes of FF? (research, opk, advanced ..)

I'm on CD 10 today but wouldn't be surprised if AF shows earlier than expected.. In the past 9 months or so AF has showed 14 days after ovulation.. Some spotting the last few days, nothing new there.. When I'm back later in August I will search for a job ASAP, if I get a job I will get into the system instantly if I understood correctly.. still annoyed at mother in law though... sigh...

14th of July, celebrating in the middle of nowhere.. haha



 
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Old Jul 16th, 2017, 09:37 AM   906
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The TTC road can be a long and arduous one on many fronts! Family and in-laws being part of the equation! My family has learned to pretty much not ask unless I bring it up. They all know how much I want to have children! Freaking sucks that we have to pay out the $#%!

Nore - those are the situations that my old therapist would tell me to just say "Thanks for your concern" with a big smile. lol. It's really not their business!

Belle - This is my last cycle on clomid too but now we are all experienced users and can offer sage advice to newcomers. May their journeys be shorter than ours!

As for this TTC business...Positive opk over 48 hours ago but no temp spike yet. Hate that! I guess we can squeeze another BD in! We are at my lake house and trying to relax...we have both been pretty freakin stressed between infertility, job loss, and his unstable parasitic ex. Being here definitely helps! Glad my Clomid crazies have died down...that was intense!

We have our IVF consult with the doc this week and will get DH's recent SA results and our blood test results (DH had 2-3 vials taken and I had probably 15 vials of blood taken in the last month)! I got a few of the results back already...not a carrier of fragile x, cystic fibrosis or one other genetic disorder (I forget which). No clotting disorder. Thyroid good, no detected auto-immune issues. Taking 1 baby aspirin per day per my obgyn's recommendation after my first cp and my own research...seems to help some women even if a known clotting disorder is not detected.



 
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Old Jul 17th, 2017, 06:07 AM   907
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Still no temp rise 72 hours after my +opk. So frustrating! Had EWCM 5 days ago and nipples have been sore since 3 days ago and my +opk. I've been inconsistent with taking my temp at the same time ...anytime between 7-9am, whenever I wake up. But it was only 96.9 this morning at 7am and has hovered there for 3 days which is a pre-o temp for me.



 
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Old Jul 17th, 2017, 08:01 AM   908
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So sorry Ask. I still haven't figured out my OPK situation. Seems like it takes me a while after a pos OPK too. Very frustrating I know.

Well, got my early testing out of my system. 9 dpo, BFN, not surprised. It's funny, one early test is all it takes to make me not want to test again for a while, lol. Going to wait until 14 DPO now.

Having some possible symptoms, but with so many tease cycles I don't even think they are worth mentioning. I am really trying not to get my hopes up.



 
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Old Jul 18th, 2017, 11:21 AM   909
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I guess I finally found out the cause of my infertility. I have abnormal chromosomes. 10% of my blood cells tested showed a missing X chromosome (45X instead of 46XX) known as mosaic monosomy x or mosaic Turner's syndrome. My doctor thinks this is the cause of my recurrent early miscarriages. I have no outward symptoms other than infertility. Part of me is relieved to have an answer but the other part is terrified that we will have to undergo multiple IVF cycles just to find one normal embryo. DH has a small chromosomal issue too but she didn't think that was the cause of our difficulties, but after doing my own research it seems that his chromosomal inversion can lead to infertility and repeat pregnancy loss in some people. With our combined abnormalities it's no wonder we can't maintain a pregnancy. We are meeting with a geneticist next before beginning IVF with PGD and going bankrupt.



 
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Old Jul 18th, 2017, 22:43 PM   910
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I FINALLY ovulated on 100mg Clomid~!!! CD26.




 
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