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Old Sep 1st, 2017, 12:48 PM   1
fxmummyduck
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Tentatively saying Hi


The secondary infertility board was looking pretty quiet so I hope it's ok to say hi in here.

I know I've not been trying as long as a lot of you ladies, but I'm onto our 15th cycle trying for baby #2 and it's killing me I can't give our ds a brother or sister.

This morning was spent choosing a fertility clinic, I never thought it would get this far 😢



 
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Old Sep 1st, 2017, 13:34 PM   2
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Hey lovely - you're more than welcome here (although I'm sorry you have to be). I think once things get past six months tge whole process gets more difficult and sad, so dont worry about how long you've been trying - we're all here to support each other.



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Old Sep 2nd, 2017, 16:37 PM   3
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Hey sorry you have to come and join us over here !
I'm dealing with secondary infertility too, would be nice to chat to someone who is going through the feeling of needing to give your child a sibling! I just feel guilty about it!



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Old Sep 4th, 2017, 20:39 PM   4
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Thank you red head and Lucy, sorry you're both in here too

Totally understand the guilt over a sibling, ds is so sweet with babies too. I hate that the age gap is bigger than I planned but trying to see it as a positive, that he's had more of my attention than if I'd had another already.



 
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Old Sep 7th, 2017, 08:58 AM   5
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So my Ob appointment is booked for next Tuesday. My dh is feeling positive but I'm not, I still feel sad it has even got this far.



 
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Old Sep 9th, 2017, 05:07 AM   6
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It is sad, and unfair. I hope your appointment goes well. Let us know how you get on x



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Old Sep 10th, 2017, 15:19 PM   7
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Thanks red_head, I'll update soon.



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2017, 16:22 PM   8
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Hope your appointment goes well! Xx



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Old Sep 14th, 2017, 14:36 PM   9
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Thanks, just waiting on results now, and also have a pelvic ultrasound scheduled for next Tuesday.



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2017, 18:58 PM   10
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All results so far are normal, blood work looks good. Ultrasound on Tuesday so we'll see what happens then.



 
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