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Old Jun 7th, 2018, 01:56 AM   1
Nixnax
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Ltttc


Hi ladies,

Well I have to be honest, I never thought Iíd be posting in this forum but here I am.

Iím 34 and DH is 32. Weíve been TTC for a year now with zero results. My poor DH suffers from delayed ejaculation. He has never been able to climax since weíve been together (he can do it through masterbation though).

Before TTC it never bothered me, less mess etc. When I came off BCP I was nieve and thought, this can happen, if thereís a reason for him to do it, it may help him. But it hasnít.

We are now starting to think of other routes we can take. Heís been to the docs and they have suggested counselling, but he doesnít really want to do that (plus Iíve heard itís not all that successful). We are thinking of going down the self insemination route. Does this really work? Does anyone have any secess stories?

We are not going to get pregnant naturally, Iíve come to terms with that. But DH is really struggling with it.

Does anyone else have this issue and advice to give. Iím open to anything at this stage.

Thanks for reading my loooong post



 
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Old Jun 9th, 2018, 02:52 AM   2
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i don't have any advice but I didn't want to read and run. I hope the insemination works for you - hey you've got nothing to lose! Good luck and I hopeyou get your little one soon.



 
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Old Jun 12th, 2018, 03:09 AM   3
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Thank you. Thatís what Iím thinking, what ave we got to lose. We can try it for a year and see where we end up. We donít want to go down the invasive route just yet



 
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Old Jun 12th, 2018, 03:17 AM   4
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Thank you. Thatís what Iím thinking, what ave we got to lose. We can try it for a year and see where we end up. We donít want to go down the invasive route just yet



 
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Someone I know fell pregnant the first month of trying using a softcup - her DH masturbated into it, and then she put it in herself under the cervix and then madturbated to orgasm which apparently helped ‘suck up’ the sperm (she may also have done shoulder-stands etc but not sure). She had a healthy happy baby nine months later! Good luck x



 
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