May 2010 Clomid Round 2 Buddies - Page 53

Isi Buttercup · Jun 10th, 2010, 03:11 AM

I'm so sorry you're going through this, Yomo. And I'm also mad your boss betrayed your trust like that. I don't live in the UK so I don't know how the legal system works, but I think you can get some redress from this. As long as they can not physically prove that your work has suffered, they do not have any basis for this discrimination. Good luck dear. I pray you're able to get justice on this!

MrsJA · Jun 10th, 2010, 04:03 AM

Evening girls,

Yomo, that is terrible!! It's hard to believe that sort of thing can still happen in this day and age. I think you should lodge a grievance! I'm thinking of you, and hope that you get a resolution on this.

Daisii, it's nice to see you and I'm glad that you and the bean are well and happy!

Zee zee, welcome to the thread! I remember the clomid mood swings well. Hang in there, hopefully it will all be worth it in the end.

Palmer, fingers crossed the witch stays away for you love.

Thanks to all for your votes of confidence about me and my many eggs! One more scan at 8am tomorrow, then hopefully I will know when I can get the little treasures out. They are starting to hurt!!

lots of love and babydust xxx

ttcbaby117 · Jun 10th, 2010, 09:06 AM

MrsJA- wow that sounds great...16!!!! I have a good feeling about this for you....

caz - yeah hun that is how I felt also...clomid makes everything else hurt. I recently found out it is because it could make endo flare up more....which of course makes me think even more that I have it.

Yomo - I am so with you....a chore is an understatement. I really hope those people at your work get what they deserve for treating you this way!

zee - welcome hun...I can understand the mood swings...crazy what hormones can do huh!

afm I had a slight temp drop this morning so I am thinking it is heading downwards....we will see what tomorrow brings.

lola13 · Jun 10th, 2010, 09:44 AM

Jess - I'm not familiar with the IVF process so excuse my question if it should be obvious...will they be able to set some of your 16 aside for a subsequent IVF? I imagine they'll only use a few this time. Does that mean you don't have to go through this stimulation & collection process again?

Yomo - I would be in my HR department pronto. If they don't have cause, I can't imagine how they'll get away with it.

I am patiently waiting to ovulate and still enjoying a low pressure cycle. I wish I ovulated a little earlier in my cycle to cut down on the waiting game. Does anyone know if ovulating around CD18 means there could be some issue? I'm trying not to be unexplained!

zeezee · Jun 10th, 2010, 09:46 AM

omigod - 3 nights of clomid and it seriously feels like my ovaries are going to burst! Is this normal??

caz & bob · Jun 10th, 2010, 10:00 AM

i haven't got endo hun my fs checked everything when i has a lap hun how is everyone today xxx

PalmerWife · Jun 10th, 2010, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by zeezee

omigod - 3 nights of clomid and it seriously feels like my ovaries are going to burst! Is this normal??

Your ovaries are stimulated, so I little tenderness is ok. But clomid can also cause overstimulation (i and another lady on here experienced that a month ago) if you are worried, call your doc.

yomo · Jun 10th, 2010, 13:54 PM

Thanks everyone for you lovely words as well as your advice. We don't have a HR department which is really difficult. I have seeked advice and they have told me as many of you said I have to raise a grievence. I had an informal chat with my boss today, I asked her to for the reasons why I have been demoted and also asked why I had not been given any warnings. She came out and said that if I appeal it then basically I shall be put through the disaplinary procedure and sacked! I really don't know what to do! I am scared that I am going to end up without a job which normally wouldn't be an issue but my husband was made reduncant 3 weeks ago.

On the plus side I got a positive opk lastnight! I was soooo bloated and very tender around my cervix alot more than last month. My heart was not in it but I still managed to get one in and I used loads of preseed.

How is everyone else? Xx

caz & bob · Jun 10th, 2010, 14:18 PM

for your + opk hun xxxxx

ttcbaby117 · Jun 10th, 2010, 14:36 PM

yomo - yeah for the positive OPK...but I cant believe this idiots!!!!

Caz -well that is good, I really hope I dont have it either, I go and get it checked on June 21.

Does anyone know what the sensitivity is on a normall ept test?

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Isi Buttercup Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Lagos Posts: 4,339	I'm so sorry you're going through this, Yomo. And I'm also mad your boss betrayed your trust like that. I don't live in the UK so I don't know how the legal system works, but I think you can get some redress from this. As long as they can not physically prove that your work has suffered, they do not have any basis for this discrimination. Good luck dear. I pray you're able to get justice on this!

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Jun 10th, 2010, 04:03 AM	#522
MrsJA Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 623	Evening girls, Yomo, that is terrible!! It's hard to believe that sort of thing can still happen in this day and age. I think you should lodge a grievance! I'm thinking of you, and hope that you get a resolution on this. Daisii, it's nice to see you and I'm glad that you and the bean are well and happy! Zee zee, welcome to the thread! I remember the clomid mood swings well. Hang in there, hopefully it will all be worth it in the end. Palmer, fingers crossed the witch stays away for you love. Thanks to all for your votes of confidence about me and my many eggs! One more scan at 8am tomorrow, then hopefully I will know when I can get the little treasures out. They are starting to hurt!! lots of love and babydust xxx

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Jun 10th, 2010, 09:06 AM	#523
ttcbaby117 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 6,459	MrsJA- wow that sounds great...16!!!! I have a good feeling about this for you.... caz - yeah hun that is how I felt also...clomid makes everything else hurt. I recently found out it is because it could make endo flare up more....which of course makes me think even more that I have it. Yomo - I am so with you....a chore is an understatement. I really hope those people at your work get what they deserve for treating you this way! zee - welcome hun...I can understand the mood swings...crazy what hormones can do huh! afm I had a slight temp drop this morning so I am thinking it is heading downwards....we will see what tomorrow brings.

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Jun 10th, 2010, 09:44 AM	#524
lola13 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Midwest Posts: 441	Jess - I'm not familiar with the IVF process so excuse my question if it should be obvious...will they be able to set some of your 16 aside for a subsequent IVF? I imagine they'll only use a few this time. Does that mean you don't have to go through this stimulation & collection process again? Yomo - I would be in my HR department pronto. If they don't have cause, I can't imagine how they'll get away with it. I am patiently waiting to ovulate and still enjoying a low pressure cycle. I wish I ovulated a little earlier in my cycle to cut down on the waiting game. Does anyone know if ovulating around CD18 means there could be some issue? I'm trying not to be unexplained!

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Jun 10th, 2010, 09:46 AM	#525
zeezee Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: USA Posts: 496	omigod - 3 nights of clomid and it seriously feels like my ovaries are going to burst! Is this normal??

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Jun 10th, 2010, 10:00 AM	#526
caz & bob Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: st helens merseyside x Posts: 9,385	i haven't got endo hun my fs checked everything when i has a lap hun how is everyone today xxx

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Jun 10th, 2010, 13:54 PM	#528
yomo Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Nottinghamshire Posts: 1,727	Thanks everyone for you lovely words as well as your advice. We don't have a HR department which is really difficult. I have seeked advice and they have told me as many of you said I have to raise a grievence. I had an informal chat with my boss today, I asked her to for the reasons why I have been demoted and also asked why I had not been given any warnings. She came out and said that if I appeal it then basically I shall be put through the disaplinary procedure and sacked! I really don't know what to do! I am scared that I am going to end up without a job which normally wouldn't be an issue but my husband was made reduncant 3 weeks ago. On the plus side I got a positive opk lastnight! I was soooo bloated and very tender around my cervix alot more than last month. My heart was not in it but I still managed to get one in and I used loads of preseed. How is everyone else? Xx

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Jun 10th, 2010, 14:18 PM	#529
caz & bob Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: st helens merseyside x Posts: 9,385	for your + opk hun xxxxx

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Jun 10th, 2010, 14:36 PM	#530
ttcbaby117 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 6,459	yomo - yeah for the positive OPK...but I cant believe this idiots!!!! Caz -well that is good, I really hope I dont have it either, I go and get it checked on June 21. Does anyone know what the sensitivity is on a normall ept test?

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