Cycle day 3 and 1st time clomid user! - Page 6

Jenna_KA · Mar 17th, 2012, 13:43 PM

&& Congrats Piya FX for a big healthy sticky eggie!

piya · Mar 17th, 2012, 13:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Jenna_KA

Uh oh, I'm so sorry

My OH and I got in a stupid argument last night too but I think I was just cranky and we were fine after an hour. Although, I was crying for no reason...it really wasn't any crying matter, it was over grocery shopping.. but I think it was the meds. You two will be okay though. Ttc can bring a lot of frustration in to a relationship. Try and remind him of the goal, and remember you love each other and this will pass

Keep your head up doll. Stress isn't good for baby making. Save it for the bedroom :P

yeah.. these hormones/ medicines blocks our brain and made us irritable..
destress by music... it does wonder everytime with us

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Beautifullei2 · Mar 17th, 2012, 14:06 PM

Thank you I needed to hear that!! It does indeed bring a ton of stress, I had went to dinner with gfs ( one is pregnant) & all they did was talk about her pregnancy so when I got home I tried talking to DH about how I felt & it seemed like he didn't care. Of course we argued and he gave me the impression that he didnt want one anymore & that I was in it alone due to me pressuring him :/ in the end he slept on the couch & I cried myself to sleep. I guess he doent see it as I'm pressured to but I guess it will eventually pass!!

Jenna_KA · Mar 17th, 2012, 14:20 PM

Wow that's a rough night

I really feel for you. I really don't think he.meant that though. Having a baby isn't really something you can be pressured in to. It was a conscious decission and a big decission to make. And when you do get your BFP he wont be saying that. He'll be just as happy as you. And I know how frustrating it is to see other pregnant friends. I have like 20 right now and honestly I try and avoid them. Its perfectly okay to do that too. I found an article online once that had tips on staying happy when trying to conceive but I cant find it. But I remember it saying don't be afraid to say no to baby showers and hanging out with.pregnant friends. It also said on the months you don't conceive try to enjoy things you cant do while pregnant. Like a glass of wine or a jacuzzi. Both which will help spark your relationship too

I hope this helps Lol

Beautifullei2 · Mar 17th, 2012, 14:32 PM

I really hope he didnt mean it, i think I'm more hurt than anything.. I had been & still do try & avoid anyone who is pregnant for the simple fact that i do wish it was.me!! I'm happy for them but i just can't be around them cause it hurts to much!! In the end I just want to be happy & hope I get my BFP soon!!

Jenna_KA · Mar 17th, 2012, 19:33 PM

You'll get yours, don't stress! It WILL happen. Have you two talked about it since last night yet??

Beautifullei2 · Mar 17th, 2012, 22:20 PM

We finally did after an emotional day & he apologized!! I'm stubborn & it being such a sensative subject made it hard

Jenna_KA · Mar 18th, 2012, 00:52 AM

I don't blame you, I'm glad you two worked it out. Now you can get back to business :] It's hard to keep it a positive thing though I know.

piya · Mar 18th, 2012, 01:59 AM

hey beautifullei2-- do not think of moments passed unhappily.. try to forget n forgive urself n others.. enjoy the love making of ttc!! too hard even i know. but we have to learn to enjoy...
sending lots of sticky babydust for u..

Jenna_KA · Mar 18th, 2012, 12:35 PM

I take my last clomid pill today FINALLY. Goddd, I feel like this cycle is going by soooo slooowwwww. It's killing me! Lol. I'm trying to stay busy and not think about it, but every chance I get I'm coming back here to look at success stories or googling things to see how many people i can find that get pregnant on their first cycle of clomid. I need a damn time machine :[

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Beautifullei2 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,519	Thank you I needed to hear that!! It does indeed bring a ton of stress, I had went to dinner with gfs ( one is pregnant) & all they did was talk about her pregnancy so when I got home I tried talking to DH about how I felt & it seemed like he didn't care. Of course we argued and he gave me the impression that he didnt want one anymore & that I was in it alone due to me pressuring him :/ in the end he slept on the couch & I cried myself to sleep. I guess he doent see it as I'm pressured to but I guess it will eventually pass!!

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Mar 17th, 2012, 14:20 PM	#54
Jenna_KA Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,692	Wow that's a rough night I really feel for you. I really don't think he.meant that though. Having a baby isn't really something you can be pressured in to. It was a conscious decission and a big decission to make. And when you do get your BFP he wont be saying that. He'll be just as happy as you. And I know how frustrating it is to see other pregnant friends. I have like 20 right now and honestly I try and avoid them. Its perfectly okay to do that too. I found an article online once that had tips on staying happy when trying to conceive but I cant find it. But I remember it saying don't be afraid to say no to baby showers and hanging out with.pregnant friends. It also said on the months you don't conceive try to enjoy things you cant do while pregnant. Like a glass of wine or a jacuzzi. Both which will help spark your relationship too I hope this helps Lol

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Mar 17th, 2012, 14:32 PM	#55
Beautifullei2 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,519	I really hope he didnt mean it, i think I'm more hurt than anything.. I had been & still do try & avoid anyone who is pregnant for the simple fact that i do wish it was.me!! I'm happy for them but i just can't be around them cause it hurts to much!! In the end I just want to be happy & hope I get my BFP soon!!

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Mar 17th, 2012, 19:33 PM	#56
Jenna_KA Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,692	You'll get yours, don't stress! It WILL happen. Have you two talked about it since last night yet??

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Mar 17th, 2012, 22:20 PM	#57
Beautifullei2 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 2,519	We finally did after an emotional day & he apologized!! I'm stubborn & it being such a sensative subject made it hard

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Mar 18th, 2012, 00:52 AM	#58
Jenna_KA Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,692	I don't blame you, I'm glad you two worked it out. Now you can get back to business :] It's hard to keep it a positive thing though I know.

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Mar 18th, 2012, 01:59 AM	#59
piya Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,776	hey beautifullei2-- do not think of moments passed unhappily.. try to forget n forgive urself n others.. enjoy the love making of ttc!! too hard even i know. but we have to learn to enjoy... sending lots of sticky babydust for u..

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Mar 18th, 2012, 12:35 PM	#60
Jenna_KA Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,692	I take my last clomid pill today FINALLY. Goddd, I feel like this cycle is going by soooo slooowwwww. It's killing me! Lol. I'm trying to stay busy and not think about it, but every chance I get I'm coming back here to look at success stories or googling things to see how many people i can find that get pregnant on their first cycle of clomid. I need a damn time machine :[

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