Lap and Dye cancelled due to intercourse

mrs c f · Apr 11th, 2012, 04:57 AM

So upset yesterday as I was booked in for a Lap and Dye yesterday as prob like many of you I was terrified. I was up at 5.30 as the hospital is 45 minutes away and was a bag of nerves. I had my pre-op assement when they asked me detailab out my cycle. I told them I was day 14 and so she asked me have you had intercourse I said yes two days ago though CBFM had not indicated ovulation yet so I though this to be ok. She said we'll have to cabcle your operation until next month. I was gutted!!!!!!

In an earlier appoinment she had advised to be carefull as they couldn't perform the op if I was pregnant. Soo i thought that I was fine as I hadnt even ovulated yet. I was soo wrong and now i have to waite a month for the next.

I guesse I feel like venting as had the doctor said and explained things to me better I would have never have got in this situation.

Briss · Apr 11th, 2012, 13:56 PM

I am sorry to hear that, very disappointing. i am waiting for mine and was told not to have sex at all, they were so strict about it

charbaby · Apr 13th, 2012, 03:36 AM

Sorry to hear that mrs c, I am on a waiting list for this op myself, but my fertility specialist told me to not have unprotected sex 4 weeks before the op. x

mrs c f · Apr 16th, 2012, 05:07 AM

Wow mine never said that she just said be careful which we thought we were. Well only three weeks until the next and i can tell you for certain their will be no bedroom boogies once my cycle comes.

charbaby · Apr 16th, 2012, 08:51 AM

least you dont have to wait that long for yours, There is a 4 month waiting list in my area

I have around 8 more weeks to go x

MiasMum · Apr 18th, 2012, 05:26 AM

I never had any of this in Feb before I had mine done.
I took an appointment last minute that someone else had cancelled. Had pre-op assesment 2 days before the op and hospital did a pregnancy test (negative).
On the day of the op (3 days before my period due) I had to take another test - still negative. No-one mentioned no sex!!

mrs c f · Apr 20th, 2012, 09:25 AM

I think they were being over precausious (spelling wrong) with me as the their is no way the egg had even been released. Well only two and half weeks left to wait. Good luck with yours Charbaby. x

mazzie1984 · Apr 23rd, 2012, 18:43 PM

Here my fertility clinic only does the dye tests etc up to cycle day 9.

mrs c f · Apr 24th, 2012, 05:03 AM

That would make sense. x

Rainbowbeany · Apr 24th, 2012, 18:39 PM

So sorry for you going through that. It shouldn't have mattered if you did O yet...If it can help I was a ball of nerves and stress a month prior to my lap on march 30th and it went well and fast and if I would've know what I know now I def wouldn't have stressed so much. Take that time for you and who knows maybe this month will be your month and you won't even need the lap. Best of luck!!!!

Apr 11th, 2012, 04:57 AM	#1
mrs c f Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: cumbria Posts: 332	Lap and Dye cancelled due to intercourse So upset yesterday as I was booked in for a Lap and Dye yesterday as prob like many of you I was terrified. I was up at 5.30 as the hospital is 45 minutes away and was a bag of nerves. I had my pre-op assement when they asked me detailab out my cycle. I told them I was day 14 and so she asked me have you had intercourse I said yes two days ago though CBFM had not indicated ovulation yet so I though this to be ok. She said we'll have to cabcle your operation until next month. I was gutted!!!!!! In an earlier appoinment she had advised to be carefull as they couldn't perform the op if I was pregnant. Soo i thought that I was fine as I hadnt even ovulated yet. I was soo wrong and now i have to waite a month for the next. I guesse I feel like venting as had the doctor said and explained things to me better I would have never have got in this situation.

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Apr 11th, 2012, 13:56 PM	#2
Briss Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: London Posts: 1,875	I am sorry to hear that, very disappointing. i am waiting for mine and was told not to have sex at all, they were so strict about it

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Apr 13th, 2012, 03:36 AM	#3
charbaby Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: England Posts: 3,501	Sorry to hear that mrs c, I am on a waiting list for this op myself, but my fertility specialist told me to not have unprotected sex 4 weeks before the op. x

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Apr 16th, 2012, 05:07 AM	#4
mrs c f Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: cumbria Posts: 332	Wow mine never said that she just said be careful which we thought we were. Well only three weeks until the next and i can tell you for certain their will be no bedroom boogies once my cycle comes.

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Apr 16th, 2012, 08:51 AM	#5
charbaby Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: England Posts: 3,501	least you dont have to wait that long for yours, There is a 4 month waiting list in my area I have around 8 more weeks to go x

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Apr 18th, 2012, 05:26 AM	#6
MiasMum Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: SW UK Posts: 309	I never had any of this in Feb before I had mine done. I took an appointment last minute that someone else had cancelled. Had pre-op assesment 2 days before the op and hospital did a pregnancy test (negative). On the day of the op (3 days before my period due) I had to take another test - still negative. No-one mentioned no sex!!

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Apr 20th, 2012, 09:25 AM	#7
mrs c f Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: cumbria Posts: 332	I think they were being over precausious (spelling wrong) with me as the their is no way the egg had even been released. Well only two and half weeks left to wait. Good luck with yours Charbaby. x

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Apr 23rd, 2012, 18:43 PM	#8
mazzie1984 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 726	Here my fertility clinic only does the dye tests etc up to cycle day 9.

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Apr 24th, 2012, 05:03 AM	#9
mrs c f Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: cumbria Posts: 332	That would make sense. x

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Apr 24th, 2012, 18:39 PM	#10
Rainbowbeany Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 240	So sorry for you going through that. It shouldn't have mattered if you did O yet...If it can help I was a ball of nerves and stress a month prior to my lap on march 30th and it went well and fast and if I would've know what I know now I def wouldn't have stressed so much. Take that time for you and who knows maybe this month will be your month and you won't even need the lap. Best of luck!!!!

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