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Old Jul 8th, 2009, 23:30 PM   21
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Hello all! I am new to this forum and found this thread. I am so excited! We have been ttc for only a month, but only want God's will in timing. However, I can already sense how impatient I am going to be! It will be nice to be able to chit chat and pray with/for other believers in this area! Blessings to all of you!



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 10:44 AM   22
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Hello all! I am new to this forum and found this thread. I am so excited! We have been ttc for only a month, but only want God's will in timing. However, I can already sense how impatient I am going to be! It will be nice to be able to chit chat and pray with/for other believers in this area! Blessings to all of you!

Welcome and good luck TTC.



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 19:53 PM   23
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Hello all! I am new to this forum and found this thread. I am so excited! We have been ttc for only a month, but only want God's will in timing. However, I can already sense how impatient I am going to be! It will be nice to be able to chit chat and pray with/for other believers in this area! Blessings to all of you!
Welcome to BNB and blessings to you too. I hope you get your BFP very very soon



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 19:54 PM   24
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As a TTC veteran I think that TTC'ing is one of those things that can really try your patience because with other "requests" from god, you know that there is most of the time a waiting game involved. The waiting game that tests your faith and patience everyday. But from little girls, we are taught that

MAN + Woman+ INTIMACY = an automatic baby

For alot of women that can be so far from the truth and we have to realize that those things that other's take for granted is really a gift. How many times have we all heard people say, be grateful you have the use of all of your limbs, or be grateful you have your health because not everyone does. And yes if your like me you say, "Yes god thankyou" but still in some form you think that its a given and you somehow were more fortunate and you really dont GET the magnitude of your fortune???

I thank god for where he has brought me so far and I remember being single and ongodly lonely and saying "when I get married, I'll be happy with everything, cause that's all I really want"
How wrong was I. Now I love my husband to pieces and thank god for my life and my husband BUT I am still learning to accept that no matter where I am in life, there will always be things that I think will make my life better and easier and faith is needed in all things. I wanted to be married sooooo bad when I was single and I was soooo desperate that I was willing to marry the people that I knew weren't right for me. As it turns out everything happens when it happens for a reason and my husband and I are perfect for eachother and had I not met him, who knows who my partner in this thing called life would be . When we met, he was a bachelor who wasn't talking to his mom and hadn't gotten to see his son for fore than a month in the last few years. Since we have been together, he has been able to have his son (from previous marriage) for 7 months straight. His mom and him are on good terms and so much more and this is NOT because of me. But because of GOD.
He is everything and I mean everything that I am not. He's outspoken, very sociable, has an extreme sense of humor, assertive, he's just sooo many things. I know people say, don't say that you want to meet your other half because you are a whole person. That is true BUT what they mean is that your mate should bring the balance. We balance eachother out. When we are having a problem in an area, normally the other can offer sound advice because that is OUR area. I just know that GOD has a reason for everything and we as believers need to be content patiently awaiting. THAT IS SOOOO hard but I think that with prayer we can do it. Anyone else understand what I'm saying???

P.S. This post is mainly for my growth because my faith and patience was tested today. This was not directed at anyone but if it helped anyone than that is great!!!!



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 21:20 PM   25
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I can fully relate. I have been a christian my whole life, but found it more "fun" to walk the fence after I was 18. Life for me was hard and unfair due to the fact that my precious daddy was taken away from me and sent to heaven at that time. I decided to find the support I should have gotten from my dad from men. I was engaged, un-engaged, engaged again, un-engaged. I finally gave up! I told God to do whatever He wanted, I couldn't do it anymore, and I couldn't handle the pain. I just gave it all to Him. Within a month, I was reunited with a friend, who is now my husband. It was totally God, and I can't imagine where I would be without my hubby. I am so blessed!!!



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 21:30 PM   26
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I can fully relate. I have been a christian my whole life, but found it more "fun" to walk the fence after I was 18. Life for me was hard and unfair due to the fact that my precious daddy was taken away from me and sent to heaven at that time. I decided to find the support I should have gotten from my dad from men. I was engaged, un-engaged, engaged again, un-engaged. I finally gave up! I told God to do whatever He wanted, I couldn't do it anymore, and I couldn't handle the pain. I just gave it all to Him. Within a month, I was reunited with a friend, who is now my husband. It was totally God, and I can't imagine where I would be without my hubby. I am so blessed!!!
That was soooo ME......I was engaged, unengaged, tooo. Over and over again............it was horrible, till I decided to go celibate and it lasted for a year and a half. I was miserable with following the letter of the law and didnt focus enough on developing a relationship with god and I backslid.........Well 4 months after I messed up, I met my now husband and I love him to pieces...........Its crazy, how things work out.



 
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Old Jul 9th, 2009, 21:35 PM   27
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The funny thing is I didnt understand "WHY" i was so miserable while trying to do the right thing until recently when I watched a joyce meyer taping...........It all made sense



 
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IT is all about seasons in life.



 
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Old Jul 12th, 2009, 08:31 AM   29
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Old Jul 12th, 2009, 19:34 PM   30
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“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Hebrews 11:1.
my favorite verse of all time.



 
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