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Old Jun 27th, 2012, 11:21 AM   11
Becktoria
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Hi dani
How has it been today? Did you put anything nice down the cemetery? I've been thinking about you today. I hope you have family you can rely on.
So sorry about your little boy too, what did you call him? I haven't been on the baby centre loss forum I will have to have a look. I really don't know how I would of coped without finding this website. I have a great family, but nobody truely knows how it feels until they have been through this horrific experience themselves. Have you decided when you are going to try again? I know we r both high risk pregnancies when we do and be monitored more but that still doesn't put my mind at ease, I hate the way other pregnant women are so innocent to pregnancy, they can breeze through it without having that terrible anxiety. At the minute I feel as though I'm never going to get there. I've been trying to be positive but when all you see is pregnant women wherever you look and things aren't going right for yourself it's so hard.
I hope you keep in touch we have both been through very similar things.
I could do with a little drink tonight but bloody can't coz of this shot! Xx



 
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Old Jun 28th, 2012, 05:20 AM   12
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Yesterday was a hard day there was tears!! My Lil angel was spoilt rotten, I got a number one made in flowers and also a birthday cake made with flowers too she had balloons Lil Teddy bears ornaments lots of lovely things.
I am trying again already this is my first month dice my loss I'm on cd9 not expecting anything to happen so soon but we will see!!!
I had a drink last night I opened a bottle of Mot to celebrate my Angels birthday!!
I Jst hope I have a plain sailing pregnancy next time!
Ill try and come on here to keep in touch but u should def try babycentre as well. It's a forum called trying to conceive after loss and it's really active pll always there
Ore or less to talk to who have gone thru things like us x



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2012, 06:46 AM   13
Becktoria
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Ahhh dani your little girl has been spoilt, you got her some lovely things. The birthday cake idea sounds like a lovely thing to do I think I might nick that idea off you for my daughter. I'm dreading the anniversary coming up I've been very emotional lately I can't even sleep again thinking of her. Defo going to join babycentre u sound like you've got great support on there, you will have to pm me your username and I will do vice versa to keep in touch. speak to you soon xxx



 
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Old Sep 16th, 2012, 20:06 PM   14
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I feel so mean but if i see a pregnant women want a certain gender i secretly gets these feelings in the pit of my stomach that i want it to be there other gender and that makes me feel so bad but idk i cant help it i mean i have no happyness of pregnancy yet they get unplanned pregnancys the exact gender they want and everything and idk like i said it makes me feel so crappy to be like that and i pray and pray for acceptance but the jealousy is still there anyways wishing you the best of luck hope you can get your tubes cleared up asap and get pregnant right after and have a beautiful healthy and happy pregnancy



 
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Old Sep 17th, 2012, 08:21 AM   15
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Hun while I can certainly understand your feelings of sadness seeing those pictures, and I truely can because I have had a loss myself, I cant help but think that she isnt the bitch she is being painted to be. I would never ask my friends to rob themselves from the utter blissful happiness and enjoyment in their pg, and be able to share with the world the exact same way we all did when we were pg.... before we lost our babies. I could understand had it been very fresh for you, but sadly enough to them they dont realise how long the pain goes on... that it lasts and lasts and lasts.... forever. It never goes away. To them... you lose, you grieve, you move forward. Not the case.... but they have never been in our shoes, nor would I ever wish it upon anyone. She is allowed to enjoy her pg. She is allowed to share it with the world. I think sometimes we see through burry fogy glasses as it clouds our visions because of our grief.... but all she did was tell her friends something that she is so incredibly happy about. You dont have to be in love with the fact that she did this, but I truely dont think that makes her a bitch.

I am sorry that you felt pain from this though but one day, in baby steps, in your own way and your own time..... this wont be so hard for you



 
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