Miscarriage 20 wks 3days - I wants sure what part to put my thread on so I posted on both
Im new to this site. I lost our baby girl at the start of December the doctors believe it was due to a UTI infection that brought on early labour, but I've got to wait till the 18th of Jan to get this confirmed for sure. Everything was fine I had my 20 wk scan on the Tuesday but by the Friday evening i started to bleed and having contractions and gave birth to her 2 days later in hospital . We weren't trying for a baby so when we found out I was pregnant we were overjoyed she was so wanted. My husband and I want to conceive again as soon as possible but I have pcos and don't have regular periods I'm going to go to my docs to see if I can go on clomid as well as my metformin. I'm so upset about losing her I cry alot as I miss her so much I just feel so numb. Has anyone else had to experience similar? xx
I'm sorry for ur lose and I know it's hard.. It's been 2 weeks since I lost my 19 week 5 day baby boy max.. They say it gets easier .. I'm still waitin for it., my doctor says I have post pardom so maybe it's just me idk... We don't know y he passed away his heart stoped.. But there's a lot of people that u can talk to on here that can help a little ..
Thanku Hun i'm sorry for your loss I'm too still finding to hard and it's been 4 weeks now I can be ok on min and they next sobbing my heart out. I've only just gone back to work and finding that difficult I have to rush to the loo sometimes and have a little cry x I just can't help it the tears just come by themselves I just can't seem to stop them x I know this sounds silly but after I do cry I feel a bit better I don't know maybe this is my way of dealing with what's happened just of let it all out xx
Don't feel silly that it makes u feel a little better .. I belive u should do it if it helps.. I only really cried 2 times once when I found out and when I gave birth to him , I'm mostly just here.. Not much can make Me happy now a days but I have a 14 month old son that I have to take care of as well .. I don't normally cry im more of a quiet thinker I guess.. But I can't imagine going back to work .I'm sorry u have to go though this ..
So deeply sorry for your loss of Scarlett I lost my Ava Sofia at 22 weeks, I gave birth to her in my house and we buried her on 3*3*2011. I know all to well of this horrible pain and i am so sorry you are going through this. All I can really say is time really helps, it is almost 2 yrs, since I lost Ava and I have gotten better , but you never get over this, you just learn to live with it.
I am so sorry for your loss XOoooXO
So sorry about your precious baby girl Scarlett, I lost my son Zane 4 months ago and I still have really bad days...like today when I should be 34 weeks. I have been re-assured over and over that it does get better but so far it still hurts just as much as the day I lost him...I'm so sorry that this had to happen to you and I hope in the coming months you have the support and find the peace that you need.
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