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Old May 3rd, 2013, 11:52 AM   1
GSAJC825
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Still in pain after 9 months


It's been 9 months since my miscarriage with my daughter and someday's and I don't know how I make it through even with a newborn in the house, the pain is unbearable. I love and miss my little Scarlet Every body tells me that it is okay to feel this way but I can't stand it, I lost my daughter because of my then boyfriends abuse, he is the reason i lost Scarlet and yet i can't forgive myself... I wish things were different



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Old May 3rd, 2013, 12:25 PM   2
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Hi,
Im sorry for your loss. It is very sad. Ive lost my daughter too but my situation is different as it was medical reasons. Has your ex boyfriend gone to jail over this?
Im very sorry u are hurting xxx



 
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Old May 3rd, 2013, 15:23 PM   3
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Hi,
Im sorry for your loss. It is very sad. Ive lost my daughter too but my situation is different as it was medical reasons. Has your ex boyfriend gone to jail over this?
Im very sorry u are hurting xxx
No, Derek never went to jail because I never reported this. I am sorry for your loss. Losing a child is always painful xxHugsxx



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Old May 3rd, 2013, 16:05 PM   4
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Dont blame yourself. Maybe the reason u feel u cant forgive yourself is because u havent reported it. Maybe u should consider reporting it. Obviously i dont know the details but he needs to be punished for his actions. Im sorry for what u have been through. Xxx



 
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Old May 4th, 2013, 08:04 AM   5
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss .. XOXOXOOX



 
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Old May 6th, 2013, 18:41 PM   6
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I understand abuse hun and i understand how hard it is to report these things. it is hard to explain but there is so much shame and fear and threats you live with. you will get there in your own time sweetie



 
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Old May 7th, 2013, 01:05 AM   7
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First I'm so sorry for your guys' losses, but @GSAJC825 on your parenting journal you said you have a 2-month old son.. how could you have a 2-month old baby if you had a m/c 9 months ago? I don't think its fair for you to make up stories and prey on these women like you are.



 
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Old May 8th, 2013, 04:27 AM   8
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First I'm so sorry for your guys' losses, but @GSAJC825 on your parenting journal you said you have a 2-month old son.. how could you have a 2-month old baby if you had a m/c 9 months ago? I don't think its fair for you to make up stories and prey on these women like you are.
Maybe she made a mistake with the dates? I hope so, cause to think someone would lie is in my opinion really unforgivble. We are suffering in these loss forums and people who do this, lie , karma will come for them. Hope it is just a mistake



 
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Old May 9th, 2013, 08:48 AM   9
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I lost a baby 8 months ago at 19 weeks gestational age to turner syndrome....You lost a child you loved....the pain will never fully go away. It hasnt for me.....I still cry everyday....



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Old May 17th, 2013, 12:01 PM   10
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First I'm so sorry for your guys' losses, but @GSAJC825 on your parenting journal you said you have a 2-month old son.. how could you have a 2-month old baby if you had a m/c 9 months ago? I don't think its fair for you to make up stories and prey on these women like you are.
Maybe she made a mistake with the dates? I hope so, cause to think someone would lie is in my opinion really unforgivble. We are suffering in these loss forums and people who do this, lie , karma will come for them. Hope it is just a mistake
I hope so too, I've seen a few people on here who do that though its sad I'm sorry for everybody's losses, my thoughts are with you all



 
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