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Old Jun 13th, 2015, 01:13 AM   11
Bushmumma
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Oh darling, I'm so terribly sorry.... All the sorrys in the world will not ease the pain you feel.
I lost my son in the same way, although I didn't endure the lengthy Labour.

I held him and smiled he too was tiny but perfect Harrion passed from a cord accident.


Give yourself the time to scream, cry ,yell, weep and talk - talking is so important having someone to listen is invaluable.

I rang my mum and she told my to wrap the teddy they have me in place of my son to take home, in the blanket that Harrion was wrapped in - cradling the teddy as though my son was in there and smell the scent of him and she hummed and sing to me then I burst out in tears crying at my mum over the phone for hours that all I want us my baby boy back!!

Why did he need to leave me mum?

She was amazing and after y hours of tears I had slows down, calmed down and these days I sometimes hold that teddy in his blanket and smile knowing that he is ok and I miss him.

This was on Dec 17 last year it does get better.

If you would like to chat, cry, scream I'll happily share my number with you via pm.

Hold on there huni ok xx



 
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Old Jun 15th, 2015, 20:40 PM   12
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*gentle hug* there are no words... Thinking of you



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