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Old Jun 13th, 2015, 01:13 AM   11
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Oh darling, I'm so terribly sorry.... All the sorrys in the world will not ease the pain you feel.
I lost my son in the same way, although I didn't endure the lengthy Labour.

I held him and smiled he too was tiny but perfect Harrion passed from a cord accident.

Give yourself the time to scream, cry ,yell, weep and talk - talking is so important having someone to listen is invaluable.

I rang my mum and she told my to wrap the teddy they have me in place of my son to take home, in the blanket that Harrion was wrapped in - cradling the teddy as though my son was in there and smell the scent of him and she hummed and sing to me then I burst out in tears crying at my mum over the phone for hours that all I want us my baby boy back!!

Why did he need to leave me mum?

She was amazing and after y hours of tears I had slows down, calmed down and these days I sometimes hold that teddy in his blanket and smile knowing that he is ok and I miss him.

This was on Dec 17 last year it does get better.

If you would like to chat, cry, scream I'll happily share my number with you via pm.

Hold on there huni ok xx

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Old Jun 15th, 2015, 20:40 PM   12
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*gentle hug* there are no words... Thinking of you

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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 06:55 AM   13
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So sorry

I'm so sorry for your loss. Its been over 4 month since I lost my daughter. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. There are no words that can take the pain away or make it better, just know that you are not alone.

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Old Sep 21st, 2017, 18:45 PM   14
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I just want to reach out and give you a hug. We lost our son in a very similar way. We went in at a routine ultrasound and found out his heart stopped beating a few days before. We had no idea.
I was admitted into the L@D department and was given drugs to induce labour.
It was terrifying, shocking and utterly horrible. I got to hold him for a few minutes and tell him how much I loved him.
He was born last year Sept 24, and it took so long to start to feel normal again. Hell I still don't feel normal, I am living in a world of new normal.

I did find some great support online through a secret Facebook group. I found the strength to get back to work, to start trying again and am now about 15w pregnant. If you are interested in joining a grieving mother support group please message me and I will see if I can add you.

Again. I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words that will make this pain go away, nothing that I can offer except give yourself time to grieve. Grieve loss of life, the life you imagined and dreamed about. Cry, scream let it all out. Get help if you need it and know you are not alone.

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