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Old Jul 10th, 2015, 14:42 PM   1
Peanutt
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The death of my son is scheduled for Thursday



I'm 18 weeks, will be 19 weeks and will be getting a D&E (please don't judge). He has full Trisomy 18. They can't find a stomach or a bladder. He has a bad heart arrhythmia. His brain isn't properly developed. The list of problems goes on and on. I've been spotting and so my doctor feels my body has recognized something is very wrong and he won't make it to term.
We've named him Nathan. He would have been my first. We've been TTC for over two years. He was going to be my rainbow baby after a miscarriage I had last year.

My precious little boy and I can't do anything to fix him.



 
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Old Jul 10th, 2015, 14:45 PM   2
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So sorry for you loss. X



 
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Old Jul 10th, 2015, 15:42 PM   3
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I'm so sorry



 
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Old Jul 10th, 2015, 21:37 PM   4
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I am so so sorry. Remember - he will come back to you, I promise. His little soul will return, maybe not as a boy, (or maybe!) but he will be back.

Sending much love.



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2015, 04:44 AM   5
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I am so sorry for your loss x



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2015, 08:14 AM   6
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I am so so sorry. Remember - he will come back to you, I promise. His little soul will return, maybe not as a boy, (or maybe!) but he will be back.

Sending much love.

I hope so. He's tried so hard to overcome his T18 but some obstacles are too much for such little feet.
It's a small amount of comfort I take in knowing his grandma is in heaven and will be there for him when the time comes.

Still hard.



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2015, 17:29 PM   7
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I'm so so sorry x x x x x



 
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Old Jul 12th, 2015, 03:40 AM   8
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Nobody could ever judge you, ever.. I am so sorry I know exactly what your going through..It is just a horrible thing to go through..I wish you all the best..Love & Peace XXOOXOX



 
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Old Jul 12th, 2015, 06:18 AM   9
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I'm so sorry hun



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Old Jul 12th, 2015, 09:29 AM   10
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I am so sorry you are going through this, sending hugs and love xxxx



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