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OliveBay · Feb 16th, 2012, 10:29 AM

Great news Helen, I'm so glad it went well. I presume you'll still get the usual 12-13 week scan as well, or was this one instead of that?

We need an update from jojo now. Such a busy day for scans!

Hellylou · Feb 16th, 2012, 11:37 AM

No, that's it now til 20 weeks, all being well, which is fine by me. I was invited to come back at 12 weeks for NT measurement scan, but I refused that - I have turned down all screening. I don't want any more scans than are necessary, and I wouldn't have amnio anyway, so if I came back as high risk from those tests I wouldn't take it any further. I just want as little poking and prodding as possible this time around. I don't know if that really had anything to do with anything last time but it will make me feel better just leaving things alone now. I'm happy that so far little bubs is looking fine, and will be getting the 16 week check with midwife and have consultant appt in 4 weeks.

Bride2b · Feb 16th, 2012, 11:53 AM

Thats great news Helen, I cant believe your 10 + 4 already! Where does time go? Do you know what they will do for you at your consultants? I mean additional care to keep a closer eye this time? xx So pleased all is well. I find it so amazing how these little rainbows keep having dates that correspond with their angel brothers and sisters. As your little rainbow is due the day after Thomas, Jo has her scan today on Lilys birthday. Its really strange how this all works out xx

Bride2b · Feb 16th, 2012, 11:54 AM

Jo how did you get on? xx Are you team pink or blue? xx

Kelly9 · Feb 16th, 2012, 13:02 PM

Jo hope all is well.

Helen great news on the scan.

My body is tricking me or making me wait, my temp went back down today after two days of very positive opks. I'll do another one today and if it's not positive I'll expect another temp rise tomorrow so looks like I will O today or O'd sometime in the early hours of this morning. At least I hope. My belly is very tender again today, it seems to come and go, one minute I feel fine then the next it hurts to push on it and I worry about infection. I have a scan tomorrow to check my uterus and the fistula so hopefully they'll say no signs of infection and everything is well. Now I just need my body to ovulate!

OliveBay · Feb 17th, 2012, 03:23 AM

Fiona, i know you're probably still watching this thread and section of the forum, even if you don't feel like posting here at the moment. I just want to know how your scan went. I hope all is well. Please don't stay away - there are probably lots of ladies on here who care and want to know that your little rainbow is ok x

jojo23 · Feb 17th, 2012, 03:23 AM

hi girls sorry didnt get on yesterday for an update was a very busy day lol!! so everything went perfect! little bubs is doing great and was moving around so much it took the poor lady doing the scan 2 or 3 goes getting measurements hehe... and im on team BLUE

a little boy

im so happy that its kinda scary lol. i held my breath the whole way through the scan and then when it was all finished i cried my eyes out lol but i was just so relieved. he shoved his little boy parts right up to the screen on show for the world haha thank you all so much for your thoughts girls its helped me more than you will all know!!

we couldnt get out to Lilys grave yesterday as it was pouring rain all day and its quite a long walk up so we're going today but i know she wont mind! she definitely gave me a helping hand yesterday!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

OliveBay · Feb 17th, 2012, 03:25 AM

Kelly, I hope you get some reassurance at your scan today. Hope your body gets back to normal soon x

Bride2b · Feb 17th, 2012, 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by jojo23

hi girls sorry didnt get on yesterday for an update was a very busy day lol!! so everything went perfect! little bubs is doing great and was moving around so much it took the poor lady doing the scan 2 or 3 goes getting measurements hehe... and im on team BLUE

a little boy

im so happy that its kinda scary lol. i held my breath the whole way through the scan and then when it was all finished i cried my eyes out lol but i was just so relieved. he shoved his little boy parts right up to the screen on show for the world haha thank you all so much for your thoughts girls its helped me more than you will all know!!

we couldnt get out to Lilys grave yesterday as it was pouring rain all day and its quite a long walk up so we're going today but i know she wont mind! she definitely gave me a helping hand yesterday!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Congrats hun,so pleased it went well & your little man was being all wriggly! It's excellent news xxx

Good luck today Kelly xx

OliveBay · Feb 17th, 2012, 03:39 AM

Yay jo, must have just posted at the same time as you. Then I spent ages writing a reply on my phone but pressed a wrong button and the whole flipping thing disappeared

Have turned the computer on now as typing on my phone just drives me mad!

I'm so pleased the scan went well for you. Sounds like you've got a really cheeky little boy in there!

Did you find out the gender when you were pregnat last time? We didn't and I'm intending to do the same this time, although I'm so impatient I'm not sure I can wait. Plus, I'm worried that I might not bond as well with this baby during pregnancy because of being worried about something going wrong, and I wonder whether finding out the gender will help me bond more. I do have a hunch that this one willl be another boy, which I would totally love, but in a way I think it would be easier if it was a girl, then I'll know for sure that this baby is not a replacement for my first little man. Does that make any sense?!

Anyway, thanks for the update and I hope everything

continues to go well for you

Feb 16th, 2012, 10:29 AM	#3301
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Great news Helen, I'm so glad it went well. I presume you'll still get the usual 12-13 week scan as well, or was this one instead of that? We need an update from jojo now. Such a busy day for scans!

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Feb 16th, 2012, 11:37 AM	#3302
Hellylou AutoSignup (SAAB) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Wirral, UK Posts: 1,030	No, that's it now til 20 weeks, all being well, which is fine by me. I was invited to come back at 12 weeks for NT measurement scan, but I refused that - I have turned down all screening. I don't want any more scans than are necessary, and I wouldn't have amnio anyway, so if I came back as high risk from those tests I wouldn't take it any further. I just want as little poking and prodding as possible this time around. I don't know if that really had anything to do with anything last time but it will make me feel better just leaving things alone now. I'm happy that so far little bubs is looking fine, and will be getting the 16 week check with midwife and have consultant appt in 4 weeks.

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Feb 16th, 2012, 11:53 AM	#3303
Bride2b Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 1,717	Thats great news Helen, I cant believe your 10 + 4 already! Where does time go? Do you know what they will do for you at your consultants? I mean additional care to keep a closer eye this time? xx So pleased all is well. I find it so amazing how these little rainbows keep having dates that correspond with their angel brothers and sisters. As your little rainbow is due the day after Thomas, Jo has her scan today on Lilys birthday. Its really strange how this all works out xx

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Feb 16th, 2012, 11:54 AM	#3304
Bride2b Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 1,717	Jo how did you get on? xx Are you team pink or blue? xx

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Feb 16th, 2012, 13:02 PM	#3305
Kelly9 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 29,107	Jo hope all is well. Helen great news on the scan. My body is tricking me or making me wait, my temp went back down today after two days of very positive opks. I'll do another one today and if it's not positive I'll expect another temp rise tomorrow so looks like I will O today or O'd sometime in the early hours of this morning. At least I hope. My belly is very tender again today, it seems to come and go, one minute I feel fine then the next it hurts to push on it and I worry about infection. I have a scan tomorrow to check my uterus and the fistula so hopefully they'll say no signs of infection and everything is well. Now I just need my body to ovulate!

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Feb 17th, 2012, 03:23 AM	#3306
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Fiona, i know you're probably still watching this thread and section of the forum, even if you don't feel like posting here at the moment. I just want to know how your scan went. I hope all is well. Please don't stay away - there are probably lots of ladies on here who care and want to know that your little rainbow is ok x

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Feb 17th, 2012, 03:23 AM	#3307
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	hi girls sorry didnt get on yesterday for an update was a very busy day lol!! so everything went perfect! little bubs is doing great and was moving around so much it took the poor lady doing the scan 2 or 3 goes getting measurements hehe... and im on team BLUE a little boy im so happy that its kinda scary lol. i held my breath the whole way through the scan and then when it was all finished i cried my eyes out lol but i was just so relieved. he shoved his little boy parts right up to the screen on show for the world haha thank you all so much for your thoughts girls its helped me more than you will all know!! we couldnt get out to Lilys grave yesterday as it was pouring rain all day and its quite a long walk up so we're going today but i know she wont mind! she definitely gave me a helping hand yesterday!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Feb 17th, 2012, 03:25 AM	#3308
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Kelly, I hope you get some reassurance at your scan today. Hope your body gets back to normal soon x

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Feb 17th, 2012, 03:39 AM	#3310
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Yay jo, must have just posted at the same time as you. Then I spent ages writing a reply on my phone but pressed a wrong button and the whole flipping thing disappeared Have turned the computer on now as typing on my phone just drives me mad! I'm so pleased the scan went well for you. Sounds like you've got a really cheeky little boy in there! Did you find out the gender when you were pregnat last time? We didn't and I'm intending to do the same this time, although I'm so impatient I'm not sure I can wait. Plus, I'm worried that I might not bond as well with this baby during pregnancy because of being worried about something going wrong, and I wonder whether finding out the gender will help me bond more. I do have a hunch that this one willl be another boy, which I would totally love, but in a way I think it would be easier if it was a girl, then I'll know for sure that this baby is not a replacement for my first little man. Does that make any sense?! Anyway, thanks for the update and I hope everything continues to go well for you

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