Losing our angel was the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life, and yes, you're right, it's going to hurt for a long time. But it does get easier. I still think about him everyday, and it hurts everyday that he isn't here with me. I'm not going to say you'll get over it, because you won't, I won't, not now, and not ever. But you will learn to live with it.
I think we can all understand the want or need to have another baby. I would have done anything to be pregnant again right away, in fact the first time I got my period, I was literally floored, reduced to a sobbing heap on the bathroom floor. I'm pretty sure everything you're feeling is normal.
It's ok to feel the way you do, you're dealing with something no parent should ever have to.
I understand the guilt you feel for wanting another baby, and it will always be a catch-22 bittersweet joy when another one comes. This is normal.
I know your pain and I empathize with you. The pain will fade in time, trite but true. Madison will always live in a special place in your heart and eventually there won't be as much hurt on a day to day basis. It's been 2 years for me and I find anniversaries the hardest to get through.
Everyone is here for you. Spill out all you need to on this site if you have to. I did and it helped me stay sane.
Message me if you ever need someone who has been in your position.
You are an AMAZING person, a very very strong and beautiful woman. Madsion is resting with the angels now and yes you will miss her everday, why shouldnt you?! But you shouldnt feel any guilt ive told u this u couldnt of done any more for that beuatiful little girl hun !!! Yes her Dad is a twat (know u in person and can confirm u should NOT go back there, I think id have to slap u babe haha) well u know were I am if u need me and if u feel it right to have a baby do it for you, why should you worry about what other people are saying or critisising you. You need to do things for YOU now!! Take some time and think about yourself! Love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hunni. already spoken to you but thought i'd pop here and see how you are. Its a natural reaction to want to be pregnant again, nobody should judge or criticise you. I really feel for you hunni and feel free to pm me here or messgae me on facebook or even text. my number is on my fb profile xxx big babes xxx
Think everything you are going through and thinking is natural
It's not the same and cannot be compared, but i had 3 m/c between my 2nd and 3rd babies and each time to urge to try again immediately was overwhelming. Not exactly to replace the babies but to replace the feeling i was missing something and to prove i 'could' do it.
It also helped me move on and deal with life by having something to plan/look forward to. But we are all diferent. A friend who m/c over a year ago still cannot face trying again. xx
It's still early days and there are still lots of emotions to go through until it begins to feel better. Just dont bottle it up, and you mightfind some 'friends' think you are better because you are trying to go out and take yr mind off it, so they may need to be reminded of the gravity of the situation xx
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