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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 15:39 PM   1
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Cant stop crying :(




Usually I am okay at work but today I just cant stop crying

All my Friends are Having thier Healthy Babies I am the only one who Lost My Baby girl

I dont know where else to go or who to talk to



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 15:44 PM   2
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oh i'm so, so sorry you are feeling low today. but remember you are not alone there are sadly so many people here who understand how you are feeling. I know what you mean, it seems like everyone else's pregnancy seems to go fine. of course, I would never wish anyone else to go through this, but i do keep asking, why me? I still can't bear to be around newborns and pregnant people.

hugs to you, if you ever need to talk i am here xxx



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 15:54 PM   3
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I know...I cant function at work I dont know why I am like this I am fine most of the time but today I cant stop crying



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 16:33 PM   4
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Hi Sweetie

Thinking of you and sending you prayers of comfort ...

We completely understand how you are feeling and thinking, unfortunately we are all stuck on this rollercoaster ride... I still have issues being around preg women and newborns... Still get those thoughts, "why me??" ... Just know you are NOT alone, EVER ....

How are you doing on your TTC process??

Fingers crossed that all is going great babe!!!




 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 16:51 PM   5
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I get like this also, nobody understand us I know When you feel like that just take a deep breath and cry if you need to, I mean just go with it till it passes. I just let it flow and I don't fight it anymore and I feel like that works best, you are not alone, just come here and start threads and we can all talk, believe me I feel just as you/ This feeling just comes and goes, it is horroble..
Thinking Of You XOXOXO



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 17:16 PM   6
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Aw hun, I'm sorry you are having a bad one, I had a mini meltdown week this week too. I think for me, a lot of it is bottling it all up to get through work, then it all finds a way out in spectacular style later. Do you think this could apply to you? Do you have to really keep your emotions in check at work? I work p/t in a restaurant, alone so I really can't melt down there and work so hard to keep myself straight I'm exhausted after every shift, even if it's not been busy. Let yourself cry when you can, it's awful but it's healing too. xxx



 
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I usually dont cry at work because I am on the phone and they can hear it in my voice I also have coworkers surrounded all around me and none of them understand except one she lost twins so she knows how I feel but she works in the morning and I never get to see her...I talk to my Boyfriend about How I am Feeling he says our Baby was to precious for this ugly world but I Miss her and wish she was here with us



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 18:01 PM   8
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I'm so sorry you are having a bad day. I've had a few myself this past week. I finally got out of the house and babies EVERYWHERE....It was really hard to keep it together. Nobody around me knows the internal struggle.

I'm praying for you.



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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 18:59 PM   9
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thank you!! I am sorry you ladies are here & no one can understand how i feel except for you all because unfortunately you all been there i pray for my rainbow baby soon i know maya would love a baby bro or sis to look over



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2011, 20:23 PM   10
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that's what I'm doing right now crying is so unfair I don't have my baby n all my friends and cousins are having their babies soon :'(..i just cant stop crying..im staying away from them not ready to see them yet..i ask myself will I ever be ???? This is so hard
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Usually I am okay at work but today I just cant stop crying

All my Friends are Having thier Healthy Babies I am the only one who Lost My Baby girl

I dont know where else to go or who to talk to



 
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