Nightmares about my MC help please - Page 2

Kaylattc · Jan 18th, 2012, 15:14 PM

I am going in tomorrow for an u/s to see what is happening. They said on the phone I would be given medication to make this happen but I didn't want it but now I think I will hange my mind..

I understand maybe I will feel that way.. Well I do sometimes but I keep having nightmares and it's messing with me really bad..

I feel terrible and I just want my baby back.

OliveBay · Jan 18th, 2012, 15:22 PM

Hopefully tomorrow you can talk to some medical staff at your ultrasound and get some advice or support. This is such a hard thing to go through and it is totally natural to be feeling how you are right now. Please be gentle on yourself. Sending you lots of love and support

Kaylattc · Jan 19th, 2012, 14:21 PM

I wrote about what happened in the reoccurring Miscarrage thread..

I'm so upset.. I want this over. I feel like I'm stuck in my own nightmare...

OliveBay · Jan 19th, 2012, 14:46 PM

Hi Kayla, I just had a look at that thread. I'm so sorry you're still going through this. Be strong honey, you'll get through it

Kaylattc · Jan 19th, 2012, 15:02 PM

Thank you

Kaylattc · Jan 19th, 2012, 15:41 PM

Awe I'm so sorry. That so terrible.

Do you know why I still have fetal tissue but my urine test is negative? He did do one is the office he just asked me if I'm still testing positive at home. I told him no and all he did was do an ultrasound and said there is tissue and that I would have to wait until it passes which he sai can take up to a month and when I do pass tissue I should put it in the fride immediately for pathology... And that was it...

I'm so confused. Someone said I would be positive urine still if I had tissue in there and now in confused... I was crying the whole time and now I'm thinking I missed something at te doctors.....My doctor told me to come it in three weeks and e will do an u/s and blood test and see if all is well so that it will not affect my next pregnancy.

Do you know why my hcg levels would affect my next pregnancy?

Nikki_d72 · Jan 19th, 2012, 15:52 PM

I'm sorry I don't know, maybe you'd get more knowledgeable answers in the miscarriage part of the loss section? We are happy to support you emotionally but the ladies over there may have more good knowledge on the physical part of this? I'm so sorry you are going though this and am guessing you need some answers soon honey - it may be quicker for you to get them there? I hope it all becomes clear for you soon and the physical part at least is over quickly, I know waiting in limbo must be hellish for you.

xxx

Kaylattc · Jan 19th, 2012, 15:55 PM

I am talking to them. Thanks I was just updating on here..

Thank you.

Nikki_d72 · Jan 19th, 2012, 15:59 PM

Oh good, I just didn't want you hanging around for ages waiting on one of us who knows, I think there are a few on here who've gone through miscarriages but not many, thought you'd get a quicker response on there. Have you found anything out about the test and the tissue? It's so hard to concentrate on what the docs are telling you while you're in the midst of it all - I know my head was mush and it still is, really! i hope you get answers soon. xx

tummymummy · Jan 20th, 2012, 18:30 PM

Im so sorry your going through his hun. Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jan 18th, 2012, 15:14 PM	#11
Kaylattc Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 277	I am going in tomorrow for an u/s to see what is happening. They said on the phone I would be given medication to make this happen but I didn't want it but now I think I will hange my mind.. I understand maybe I will feel that way.. Well I do sometimes but I keep having nightmares and it's messing with me really bad.. I feel terrible and I just want my baby back.

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Jan 18th, 2012, 15:22 PM	#12
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Hopefully tomorrow you can talk to some medical staff at your ultrasound and get some advice or support. This is such a hard thing to go through and it is totally natural to be feeling how you are right now. Please be gentle on yourself. Sending you lots of love and support

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Jan 19th, 2012, 14:21 PM	#13
Kaylattc Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 277	I wrote about what happened in the reoccurring Miscarrage thread.. I'm so upset.. I want this over. I feel like I'm stuck in my own nightmare...

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Jan 19th, 2012, 14:46 PM	#14
OliveBay Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 327	Hi Kayla, I just had a look at that thread. I'm so sorry you're still going through this. Be strong honey, you'll get through it

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Jan 19th, 2012, 15:02 PM	#15
Kaylattc Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 277	Thank you

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Jan 19th, 2012, 15:41 PM	#16
Kaylattc Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 277	Awe I'm so sorry. That so terrible. Do you know why I still have fetal tissue but my urine test is negative? He did do one is the office he just asked me if I'm still testing positive at home. I told him no and all he did was do an ultrasound and said there is tissue and that I would have to wait until it passes which he sai can take up to a month and when I do pass tissue I should put it in the fride immediately for pathology... And that was it... I'm so confused. Someone said I would be positive urine still if I had tissue in there and now in confused... I was crying the whole time and now I'm thinking I missed something at te doctors.....My doctor told me to come it in three weeks and e will do an u/s and blood test and see if all is well so that it will not affect my next pregnancy. Do you know why my hcg levels would affect my next pregnancy?

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Jan 19th, 2012, 15:52 PM	#17
Nikki_d72 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Scottish, living in New Zealand Posts: 1,164	I'm sorry I don't know, maybe you'd get more knowledgeable answers in the miscarriage part of the loss section? We are happy to support you emotionally but the ladies over there may have more good knowledge on the physical part of this? I'm so sorry you are going though this and am guessing you need some answers soon honey - it may be quicker for you to get them there? I hope it all becomes clear for you soon and the physical part at least is over quickly, I know waiting in limbo must be hellish for you. xxx

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Jan 19th, 2012, 15:55 PM	#18
Kaylattc Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 277	I am talking to them. Thanks I was just updating on here.. Thank you.

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Jan 19th, 2012, 15:59 PM	#19
Nikki_d72 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Scottish, living in New Zealand Posts: 1,164	Oh good, I just didn't want you hanging around for ages waiting on one of us who knows, I think there are a few on here who've gone through miscarriages but not many, thought you'd get a quicker response on there. Have you found anything out about the test and the tissue? It's so hard to concentrate on what the docs are telling you while you're in the midst of it all - I know my head was mush and it still is, really! i hope you get answers soon. xx

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Jan 20th, 2012, 18:30 PM	#20
tummymummy Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: lancashire Posts: 1,434	Im so sorry your going through his hun. Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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