Feeling lonely and scared :( - Page 2

Andypanda6570 · Jan 21st, 2012, 18:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jojo23

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Originally Posted by Andypanda6570

JO, you will be ok i promise. I can't say I know how you feel, but I do know I am going to feel the same if I ever get my BFP. You are not alone and I wish I could run next door and be with you, but I am here in New York. Trust me if I was your neighbor you would be laughing and saying Andrea your a little COO COO

Friends will never understand your pain or fear they can sympathize but never understand. Only people that have went through this truly know how you feel.
Try to relax, i just know everything will be ok .One day when i get my BFP you will probably be posting to me and trying to ease my mind

Just know i am here anytime, try to take a deep breath and think good thoughts, I promise you will be ok..
XOXOXO Love you XOXOXO

LOL thanks andrea love you too hun!!!! these hormones have me gone crazy! im so grateful for all your support xxxxxxxxxxx

Always here for you..XOXO

jojo23 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 05:02 AM

awe girls i just cant pull myself out of this little dip at all.. ive spent all night crying my eyes out with worry! im so convinced something isnt right, feel like such a fool. i cant ring the doc until tomorrow to make an appointment but i know they are gonna just say the same thing to me that im worrying for nothing! surely id be feeling LO move areound by now and have a harder bump!

i just need someone to shake sense into me!! please say a lil prayer that everything is ok and im just being a crazy woman xxxxxxxxxx

Andypanda6570 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 05:46 AM

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Originally Posted by jojo23

awe girls i just cant pull myself out of this little dip at all.. ive spent all night crying my eyes out with worry! im so convinced something isnt right, feel like such a fool. i cant ring the doc until tomorrow to make an appointment but i know they are gonna just say the same thing to me that im worrying for nothing! surely id be feeling LO move areound by now and have a harder bump!

i just need someone to shake sense into me!! please say a lil prayer that everything is ok and im just being a crazy woman xxxxxxxxxx

You are not crazy, Jo. So much has happened and your mind ( Brain ) is protecting you from trauma. It is perfectly normal , believe me. We are all born with this. The brain has certain mechanisms to cope with trauma and fright and happiness. It will be ok I know it will and I know me saying this isn't going to ease your mind, cause I know I would feel the same as you. Just call the doc tomorrow and tell him your concerns and that you want to make sure things are ok, tell him what you are feeling and not feeling and see what they say.

When I lost Ava at 20 weeks I did not feel movement either, every woman is different, Jo. Some women feel movement at 16 weeks some later, so don't panic. Ava was alive at 19 weeks her heartbeat was 174 and I didn't feel movement, that didn't mean there was something wrong. My third son I didn't feel movement till 24 weeks and he was totally normal.
Try to relax and keep calm and I will be thinking of you and praying.
Everything will be ok.. OXOXOXO Love you girly//XOOX

mhazzab · Jan 22nd, 2012, 06:12 AM

I'm so sorry you are feeling so blue right now. It's so hard isn't it? I'm a week behind you i think, and if it makes you feel better my belly isn't hard either and I have put on almost no weight, although I do have a bump (not quite sure how that works!!)
I had an anterior placenta last time so didn't feel much movement maybe if you had it last time you might have it again?
Have you thought about getting your own Doppler, for peace of mind? I know they are not for everyone, but I think we need reassurance sometimes. My midwife doesn't advise them as they can freak you out if you can't find heartbeat but I've never failed to find it within a minute. I'd been feeling a lot of movement this week then hardly anything the last couple of days and had a freak out yesterday too.
Unfortunately I think we have to accept that the next few months will be so hard and scary but we will get each other through it.
Oh I sent you a FB request by the way not sure if you have your sorted yet.
Always here for you whenever you want to talk or scream or cry. Xxx

jojo23 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 06:39 AM

thanks girls xxxxx

jojo23 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 08:28 AM

GIRLS!!!! i think i just felt kicks.... i was sitting down and all of a sudden felt these 3 or 4 little thuds to my left side just near my belly button. then it stopped for a minute and then i felt it again... it made me go oooh whats that!? ive never felt anything like it before and its the same area ive been thinking i feel something the rare time i do... what do you reckon??? xxxxxx

mhazzab · Jan 22nd, 2012, 08:50 AM

OMG wowee!!! that sounds like baby to me...when I first felt them with the twins, I thought, what on earth was that...it took about two weeks of me feeling them more often to realise it really was kicks. If it's a feeling that you have never felt before and is in your stomach I'd say it's little baby saying hi mummy! so happy for you, I think you really needed it this weekend!
xxx

jojo23 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 09:19 AM

thanks so much mhairi.. definitely needed reassurance from LO... im so excited cause i know its nothing ive felt before and when it happened i was like ooooh jeez what was that lol! just made my day lol and now im wondering what kind of a looney i am for worrying like this...

love you all so much girls xxxxx

i got your friend request mhairi just accepted there and wow ur a stunner..had a nosey through your pics lol! xxx

mhazzab · Jan 22nd, 2012, 10:55 AM

I'm just so happy for you! It's a wonderful feeling. Don't be thinking you are a looney I think we have every right to get scared.

Heehee thank for the compliment re the photos was gonna say the same about you! I love putting faces and proper names to everyone I have been speaking to in here!
Xxxx

jojo23 · Jan 22nd, 2012, 11:20 AM

yeah same here i feel like i know ye all so much better when i can think of a face lol!! its funny how you picture people and then you see them and its totally different lol...think this forum should get an award for bringing us all together

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jan 22nd, 2012, 05:02 AM	#12
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	awe girls i just cant pull myself out of this little dip at all.. ive spent all night crying my eyes out with worry! im so convinced something isnt right, feel like such a fool. i cant ring the doc until tomorrow to make an appointment but i know they are gonna just say the same thing to me that im worrying for nothing! surely id be feeling LO move areound by now and have a harder bump! i just need someone to shake sense into me!! please say a lil prayer that everything is ok and im just being a crazy woman xxxxxxxxxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 06:12 AM	#14
mhazzab Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,013	I'm so sorry you are feeling so blue right now. It's so hard isn't it? I'm a week behind you i think, and if it makes you feel better my belly isn't hard either and I have put on almost no weight, although I do have a bump (not quite sure how that works!!) I had an anterior placenta last time so didn't feel much movement maybe if you had it last time you might have it again? Have you thought about getting your own Doppler, for peace of mind? I know they are not for everyone, but I think we need reassurance sometimes. My midwife doesn't advise them as they can freak you out if you can't find heartbeat but I've never failed to find it within a minute. I'd been feeling a lot of movement this week then hardly anything the last couple of days and had a freak out yesterday too. Unfortunately I think we have to accept that the next few months will be so hard and scary but we will get each other through it. Oh I sent you a FB request by the way not sure if you have your sorted yet. Always here for you whenever you want to talk or scream or cry. Xxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 06:39 AM	#15
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	thanks girls xxxxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 08:28 AM	#16
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	GIRLS!!!! i think i just felt kicks.... i was sitting down and all of a sudden felt these 3 or 4 little thuds to my left side just near my belly button. then it stopped for a minute and then i felt it again... it made me go oooh whats that!? ive never felt anything like it before and its the same area ive been thinking i feel something the rare time i do... what do you reckon??? xxxxxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 08:50 AM	#17
mhazzab Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,013	OMG wowee!!! that sounds like baby to me...when I first felt them with the twins, I thought, what on earth was that...it took about two weeks of me feeling them more often to realise it really was kicks. If it's a feeling that you have never felt before and is in your stomach I'd say it's little baby saying hi mummy! so happy for you, I think you really needed it this weekend! xxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 09:19 AM	#18
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	thanks so much mhairi.. definitely needed reassurance from LO... im so excited cause i know its nothing ive felt before and when it happened i was like ooooh jeez what was that lol! just made my day lol and now im wondering what kind of a looney i am for worrying like this... love you all so much girls xxxxx i got your friend request mhairi just accepted there and wow ur a stunner..had a nosey through your pics lol! xxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 10:55 AM	#19
mhazzab Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,013	I'm just so happy for you! It's a wonderful feeling. Don't be thinking you are a looney I think we have every right to get scared. Heehee thank for the compliment re the photos was gonna say the same about you! I love putting faces and proper names to everyone I have been speaking to in here! Xxxx

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Jan 22nd, 2012, 11:20 AM	#20
jojo23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: ireland Posts: 1,627	yeah same here i feel like i know ye all so much better when i can think of a face lol!! its funny how you picture people and then you see them and its totally different lol...think this forum should get an award for bringing us all together xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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