The 'chit chat' thread

Originally Posted by Miss Mitch

Oh Shiza. Me and OH DTD for the first time last night, didn't use anything, then I came to reality with a huge thud after! CRAP!!!!!!!

It took 6 weeks for me to feel ready to DTD, somehow i just didn`t feel right before then! We did use something though!

Are you OV soon? Is there the chance of a rainbow?

Originally Posted by dancareoi

It took 6 weeks for me to feel ready to DTD, somehow i just didn`t feel right before then! We did use something though!

Are you OV soon? Is there the chance of a rainbow?

I don't know about ov, I only stopped bleeding for Olivia last week after my d+c!! I don't know where my body is! And I sooo want my rainbow, but my bloods came back positive for anti-nucleur antibodies and they think I have crest syndrome??? So now i'm panicking what if I do have something wrong with me that will attack every pregnancy??? I have had cm for past 2 days? sorry tmi xx

Hi Tayla, Mhairi, Andy and Lisa! Sorry for all of your losses!

I would love to join your group if you wouldn't mind! I am WTT until my thyroid is back in check. I was recently diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease (auto-immune causing hypothyroidism) so I am on hold for that rainbow. Would love to hang with you ladies

Originally Posted by Krippy

Hi Tayla, Mhairi, Andy and Lisa! Sorry for all of your losses!

I would love to join your group if you wouldn't mind! I am WTT until my thyroid is back in check. I was recently diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease (auto-immune causing hypothyroidism) so I am on hold for that rainbow. Would love to hang with you ladies

And we would love to hang out with you too...
I also have a thyroid problem I am on synthroid 112mg. It is in check and was ok before I lost Ava,, xooxoxoxox

Thanks Andy...I am on 50 mcg so far. Had blood tests on Tuesday...waiting to see where they are at to adjust dosage if need be.

Is this a new 'life after loss' thread just brand new?

I think that is a good way to describe it...Just starting a newbie group I am thinking! You are more than welcome I am sure!

Hey Ladies!!!!!

I'm Lexis 29 years old....we Lost Maya at 24 weeks my membranes ruptured at 23 weeks a week later I had her She was breeched and I was suppose to have a c-section but it didnt happen that way...while they were putting the epidural in I felt her coming out...the Doctor said that her little heart stopped before they could get her out...I dont know what really happen they put me to sleep I can only go off of what they tell me...We are talking about TTC this year I am really excited and will try NOT to stress about it....I pray all the time so GOD will know when it is time

Hi girls,

Feeling a bit down again today after feeling so much better.

DH and i had a long chat again yesterday and we are still no further along. He still thinks we need longer to think about things. He has said a definate no to TTC next month.

Last week when i saw the Doctor, she has referred us to a specialist, who will talk about our medical history and maybe do a few tests to see whether we would have any further problems.

How will he know? I know he is an expert, but no-one knows for sure do they? DH want s to see him first before we make any decisions. We have already been told by 2 docs that it is highly to be genetic as we already have 3 kids!

I am so worried this guy will shake his head and say that`s highly unlikely we will be able to have another, I will be sooo devasted, but maybe it`s better to be told before we try, than to lose another.

DH has said if he were to say 30-40% chance of problem, he would then say no to TTC, but those figures are still on our side.

just more time being wasted and my eggs are getting oder day by day! This i think is what is worrying me most, the longer we leave it the older I`m getting.

We should get an appointment in the next couple of weeks, but i said to DH what if it`s 2-3 months, I said i can`t wait that long and he said we would then have to make the decision ourselves.

Sorry to babble on, but this is doing my head in now, just not knowing what is going on!

Hope everyone else is ok.

Andrea, how are you?

Originally Posted by kiki04

Is this a new 'life after loss' thread just brand new?

I wouldn't say that, I would think it is more of a getting to know you and your story more...I would never stop posting on 'life after loss' it is home to many of us..XOXOOXOXOOXO

Originally Posted by dancareoi

Hi girls,

Feeling a bit down again today after feeling so much better.

DH and i had a long chat again yesterday and we are still no further along. He still thinks we need longer to think about things. He has said a definate no to TTC next month.

Last week when i saw the Doctor, she has referred us to a specialist, who will talk about our medical history and maybe do a few tests to see whether we would have any further problems.

How will he know? I know he is an expert, but no-one knows for sure do they? DH want s to see him first before we make any decisions. We have already been told by 2 docs that it is highly to be genetic as we already have 3 kids!

I am so worried this guy will shake his head and say that`s highly unlikely we will be able to have another, I will be sooo devasted, but maybe it`s better to be told before we try, than to lose another.

DH has said if he were to say 30-40% chance of problem, he would then say no to TTC, but those figures are still on our side.

just more time being wasted and my eggs are getting oder day by day! This i think is what is worrying me most, the longer we leave it the older I`m getting.

We should get an appointment in the next couple of weeks, but i said to DH what if it`s 2-3 months, I said i can`t wait that long and he said we would then have to make the decision ourselves.

Sorry to babble on, but this is doing my head in now, just not knowing what is going on!

Hope everyone else is ok.

Andrea, how are you?

I am ok my love
Listen the doctor will run basic tests and find nothing wrong with you, trust me. It is routine, what happened to you was just a bad thing and it wont happen again and the doc wont find anything. He may tell you and your husband your risk factors for your age, but that is probably it. So don't get nervous and expect to hear bad news, cause you wont. Then maybe after that your husband will give it a go again. It will be ok, Lisa..
XOXOOXOXO