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Old Mar 2nd, 2012, 05:19 AM   21
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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx



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Old Mar 2nd, 2012, 06:39 AM   22
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Is this a new 'life after loss' thread just brand new?
I wouldn't say that, I would think it is more of a getting to know you and your story more...I would never stop posting on 'life after loss' it is home to many of us..XOXOOXOXOOXO

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Hi girls,

Feeling a bit down again today after feeling so much better.

DH and i had a long chat again yesterday and we are still no further along. He still thinks we need longer to think about things. He has said a definate no to TTC next month.

Last week when i saw the Doctor, she has referred us to a specialist, who will talk about our medical history and maybe do a few tests to see whether we would have any further problems.

How will he know? I know he is an expert, but no-one knows for sure do they? DH want s to see him first before we make any decisions. We have already been told by 2 docs that it is highly to be genetic as we already have 3 kids!

I am so worried this guy will shake his head and say that`s highly unlikely we will be able to have another, I will be sooo devasted, but maybe it`s better to be told before we try, than to lose another.

DH has said if he were to say 30-40% chance of problem, he would then say no to TTC, but those figures are still on our side.

just more time being wasted and my eggs are getting oder day by day! This i think is what is worrying me most, the longer we leave it the older I`m getting.

We should get an appointment in the next couple of weeks, but i said to DH what if it`s 2-3 months, I said i can`t wait that long and he said we would then have to make the decision ourselves.

Sorry to babble on, but this is doing my head in now, just not knowing what is going on!

Hope everyone else is ok.

Andrea, how are you?
I am ok my love
Listen the doctor will run basic tests and find nothing wrong with you, trust me. It is routine, what happened to you was just a bad thing and it wont happen again and the doc wont find anything. He may tell you and your husband your risk factors for your age, but that is probably it. So don't get nervous and expect to hear bad news, cause you wont. Then maybe after that your husband will give it a go again. It will be ok, Lisa..
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Thank you Andrea, I really hope that this will be the outcome.



 
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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.



 
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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.
So true hun, it really does just give you that mind set for the day....what would maybe brighten your spirits....Coffee with friends? Retail therapy? a good clean around the house? xx



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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.
So true hun, it really does just give you that mind set for the day....what would maybe brighten your spirits....Coffee with friends? Retail therapy? a good clean around the house? xx
Hubby coming home and saying - "ok,let`s do it" !!!!!!!!!!



 
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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.
So true hun, it really does just give you that mind set for the day....what would maybe brighten your spirits....Coffee with friends? Retail therapy? a good clean around the house? xx
Hubby coming home and saying - "ok,let`s do it" !!!!!!!!!!
Depends what you mean by 'do it'? either way fingers crossed! lol xx



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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.
So true hun, it really does just give you that mind set for the day....what would maybe brighten your spirits....Coffee with friends? Retail therapy? a good clean around the house? xx
Hubby coming home and saying - "ok,let`s do it" !!!!!!!!!!
Depends what you mean by 'do it'? either way fingers crossed! lol xx
I`m not sure whether I meant do it as in ok we will or do it as in DTD!!!

My youngest has brightened my day today. He was a little bit off colour last week, but the last couple of days he is back to himself and is making me smile with his antics!!!



 
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Old Mar 2nd, 2012, 11:29 AM   28
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Hi Krippy, of course you can join As you know, I am also waiting for my results after a blood test came back positive for anti-nuceur antibodies??
How are you andrea? Hope you're well
Kiki, Hi! I haven't seen the life after loss thread, this is a more 'meet and greet', a coffee morning, if you will?
Hi DueSep, i'm sure we will all have our rainbows one day
Dancareoi, i'm in a very similar situation with the waiting around for Olivia's Pm results and my results, cannot do a thing untill we know!
I hope that your day gets better, I hate being sad all day xx
Hi Tayla, I hate days like this. you start off feeling sad and just leaves you with a heavy sort of feeling all day.
So true hun, it really does just give you that mind set for the day....what would maybe brighten your spirits....Coffee with friends? Retail therapy? a good clean around the house? xx
Hubby coming home and saying - "ok,let`s do it" !!!!!!!!!!
Depends what you mean by 'do it'? either way fingers crossed! lol xx
I`m not sure whether I meant do it as in ok we will or do it as in DTD!!!

My youngest has brightened my day today. He was a little bit off colour last week, but the last couple of days he is back to himself and is making me smile with his antics!!!
Well, hopefully you 'do' both! haha. I'm off now till monday, only come on at work most of the time! I'm glad ur youngest has made you smile, i'm hapy that ur happy!!! Lots of love xxx



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How are we all? I had a bad evening yesterday, memory box out spread over bed and being looked through. Am feeling ok today though xx



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Hi all,

I've been reading this thread since it started but never really felt like talking about it until now.

I have been really good in bottling my emotions and push them wayyyy back into my mind so I could go on with daily stuff. Of course I have my moments and days like today... all because the appointment with the doctor on Wednesday to finally get my results from placenta & bloodworks. I sort of already know I have incompetent cervix (70% sure) but I fear reality. I am very nervous to hear the results from the consultant.

Also I ovulated last week so now I am in the TWW limbo. I have been having scary thoughts like what if my 2nd child falls out of me again? I want to be a mother really badly but I am not too sure if I want to be pregnant, if you know what I mean... Sometimes I wish we can just adopt...




 
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