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Old Sep 4th, 2013, 19:48 PM   51
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tommyg, I got pregnant with her without trying. It was an "accident"...
And yes you're right it makes this whole thing worse.
I just hope it means I'll be pregnant again one day.



 
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Old Sep 4th, 2013, 23:45 PM   52
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Hello and welcome Tommyg!

You are so similar to me! Conceived DS on month 5 of trying - the month we weren't meant to be trying (!) and now have been TTC #2 for 18 cycles. Only difference is my little boy is 3 1/2 now. Our problems seems to lie with MFI and right now feeling a little in limbo. DH is due to go for 2nd SA in the next couple of weeks so I guess we will find out one way or another what we have to do next.

Barbikins - I really hope that you get your BFP before the end of the year! In fact I hope everyone does.... month after month is so exhausting.

AFM - 12dpo, sore boobs and now been having back cramps tonight and just feeling that AF is getting ready to rear her ugly head. Of course by my predictions it'll start on Friday just as we leave to go camping for the weekend - lovely!!

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Old Sep 5th, 2013, 10:42 AM   53
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Hey Ladies

Can't believe it two of my favourite bnb buddies on this thread (Thanks for letting me know Issac ) !!!

I have read from start to finish but at work and have run out of time to reply so just popping a quick note to say Hi. I'll be back shortly to chat more

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Old Sep 5th, 2013, 11:20 AM   54
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I was just going to let you know about this thread as well Banana07! Glad you found it!



 
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Old Sep 5th, 2013, 13:00 PM   55
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Uurgghh..... totally having cramps today on left side and boobs barely sore anymore. Just a matter of hours before AF shows.....Looks like it's onto month 19 for us



 
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Old Sep 5th, 2013, 13:27 PM   56
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Im so sorry WhiteOrchid!!!
I'm on the 19th month too
I see the results of your morphology does that mean you need to use donor sperm?



 
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Old Sep 5th, 2013, 14:26 PM   57
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Im so sorry WhiteOrchid!!!
I'm on the 19th month too
I see the results of your morphology does that mean you need to use donor sperm?
Thanks Barbikins, I'm feeling so fed up today! Trying to just get on with things but it isn't easy - especially since this backache won't let up

No we won't use donor sperm. To be honest I'm a little in limbo. After we got the results of the first SA showing 0% normal morphology I was so taken aback I didn't know what to do or what that really meant. Especially because our Dr was confident that morphology could be improved by lifestyle changes (so he said anyway). My DH had a low grade infection in his mouth after root canal years ago and again Doc said if that was the case that could definitely have an impact. So DH got tooth operated on and treated immediately and then this was the first month since the 90 days following his treatment. I was really hoping we might get our BFP and it was all down to the tooth infection... I guess not Hubby has to go for his 2nd SA before the end of the month when we have another appt with our Dr. Finally at that point (after 19 cycles and almost 2 years of TTC we will need to start being more aggresive with what we want to do and how we are going to proceed.... So difficult and I'm confused. I guess we will know more at the end of this month. I'll let you know how we get on

Hope you are ok today. I know some days are definitely harder than others and day 1 (or the day right before when you know for sure you are out!) is definitely the worst!! Will be more cheery next time



 
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Im so sorry WhiteOrchid!!!
I'm on the 19th month too
I see the results of your morphology does that mean you need to use donor sperm?
Thanks Barbikins, I'm feeling so fed up today! Trying to just get on with things but it isn't easy - especially since this backache won't let up

No we won't use donor sperm. To be honest I'm a little in limbo. After we got the results of the first SA showing 0% normal morphology I was so taken aback I didn't know what to do or what that really meant. Especially because our Dr was confident that morphology could be improved by lifestyle changes (so he said anyway). My DH had a low grade infection in his mouth after root canal years ago and again Doc said if that was the case that could definitely have an impact. So DH got tooth operated on and treated immediately and then this was the first month since the 90 days following his treatment. I was really hoping we might get our BFP and it was all down to the tooth infection... I guess not Hubby has to go for his 2nd SA before the end of the month when we have another appt with our Dr. Finally at that point (after 19 cycles and almost 2 years of TTC we will need to start being more aggresive with what we want to do and how we are going to proceed.... So difficult and I'm confused. I guess we will know more at the end of this month. I'll let you know how we get on

Hope you are ok today. I know some days are definitely harder than others and day 1 (or the day right before when you know for sure you are out!) is definitely the worst!! Will be more cheery next time
It's possible that your only issue is DH's sperm. I am wondering if supplements will help him. Also you may want to try IUI because they weed out all the best sperm. Maybe IVF is your best bet?
I hear ya, it's not easy...it's a sucky road & when there are road blocks, it's so frustrating. Been there too.
You're right, I'm always crabby from 12dpo onward if I'm testing negative.
It's just not an easy road. Let's be here for one another

I've decided after this last cycle that I"m going to start living my life & looking at things in a positive light & trying to go with 'it'll happen when it will' & not test early & not obsess. I just cant anymore. I was so depressed last month & it's just not good for me. So I'm going to try to keep busy & not care as much.

Best thing is to get more test for DH's SA....& maybe consider IUI???



 
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Im sorry White, it's rotten when AF gets you. Good that you are seeing the Doc im sure their are options out their for you.

Barbikins have you looked at the options you have? Have they found any issues thay could be preventing pregnancy?

Im still trying to figure out what my body is doing / done. Im starting to think ovulation has been delayed by the cold as my blobs aren't making complaints but can that happen on femara?



 
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