Awww I am sorry Crystal I kind of overstepped the other day in the HPT gallery, it was some girls first post that was talking about all the unprotected sex she had had with her boyfriend who had just dumped her and now her period was late and could she be pregnant. And I said something not really nasty but not really nice and people just jumped on me. You have you let it go right past you, everyone has something to say when their behind a computer screen
I saw that Grace!! Thank you so much! Usually I have a thick skin but today I'm weakened. It means a lot that you defended the post. I have had people say they see something and it was nothing and I was heartbroken.
But yeah, I find it hard sometimes to fit in here. I havent had any "incidents" yet, but it seems liek all the groups are formed and if I write in a thread more often than not I get ignored, lol, hasnt happened in this one though.
Anyway, I came to give an update. I went home at lunch time and found some spotting on my underwear, literaly like 2 drops. Then I swiped and it was pink...so lets see if it gets heavier and red by tonight so I could start clomid tomoro . If it doesnt then I'll hopefully be able to start the day after tomorrow.
So Crystal, why do you have to wait a month to start Clomid? I have to wait cuz I had an early m/c (I hate calling it a chemical for some reason) this month, So he wants me to wait until my next proper AF before I start, and he wants to make sure my levels are down to zero.
I had an ectopic/miscarriage in December. There was tissue left behind that kept my levels raised, but they couldn't actually see it do I had to get methotrexate injections. Two rounds. Last one was 12/31. You have to wait three months for it to leave your system as it stops cells from multiplying. So it would cause birth defects if I started sooner.
I tend to stick to this forum thread - I feel comfortable here and have found a really fantastic group of friends to share my journey with. I do find it difficult in some other threads as people can be very judgemental but we certainly are not here.
I hope for you Molly ur stay here is short x and I mean that in the best possible way x
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