Who does you LO look like?

Dream.dream · Nov 20th, 2012, 14:17 PM

My son looks like me as hes gotten older but has his Spermn donors eyes. That part always get me its hard. But who does your LO look like? And does it ever big you to see features of your ex in them?

Jennifurball · Nov 20th, 2012, 15:04 PM

When she was first born she had his eyes, but they are turning brown and seem bigger thank god, more like mine. That was one thing that upset me, looking into her eyes and seeing him, but at the same time when dealing with a split, I guess it could be a bit of a comfort too in a way, I don't know, although everyone now says she looks like me.

Dezireey · Nov 20th, 2012, 15:39 PM

I think my boy looks more like me. But there are days when I look at him and he is FOB, especially his nose and deep set eyes. He keeps changing. I think it will really show when he is a grown man I suppose.

gracexxx · Nov 20th, 2012, 16:23 PM

All I see when I look at LO is me really, she has FOBs dark long eyelashes but that's it. Everyone says she looks like me, which is a relief really.

teal · Nov 21st, 2012, 02:10 AM

My son looks like me but there are times where I see my ex in him. To be honest it does bother me for certain reasons. I usually feel guilty though because it's not my son's fault he looks like him.

lizardbreath · Nov 21st, 2012, 07:35 AM

Jaymee is a splitting image of me. She used to look like her dad as a baby. But i see none of him in her. As for Katherine that is a different story she is her dad right down to the attitude she has his hair. His eyes nose. All of it. She's a mini daddy. It doesn't bug me in the least

happy&healthy · Nov 23rd, 2012, 03:12 AM

Other then being tall, my daughter looks nothing like me. She used to be the image of my ex, but as she gets older I think she looks like her own person. It doens't bug me. I have come to a place where I can be happy for past marriage because it produced my daughter.

Jade--x · Nov 23rd, 2012, 06:27 AM

I'm always told how you can tell they're mine they're my doubles. If I look at photos of me at their age and each other at the same age you can't tell any of us apart, other than my youngest is the only one with blue eyes (even FOB doesn't have blue eyes)..And to add to it we were all born the exact same birth weight

I was given a photobook for my 21st birthday with all pictures right from my birth through my life and it included pics of the boys and even I had to take a few minutes to tell us apart

People have looked at pics of both FOBs and my LO and can't find a single thing similar. The only people that try to see things the same are FOB. But even he's remarked saying OMG it was like looking at Jade then.

Natsku · Nov 24th, 2012, 08:12 AM

Maria looked exactly like FOB when she was born but now she looks much more like me, though she still has his mouth. I've never really thought about it bugging me or anything, the bit that does look like him til my OH said that he's so glad that she doesn't have FOB's eyes and I realise I am really glad too.

littlegenes · Nov 24th, 2012, 18:16 PM

Her dad which isn't easy

Nov 20th, 2012, 14:17 PM	#1
Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,304	Who does you LO look like? My son looks like me as hes gotten older but has his Spermn donors eyes. That part always get me its hard. But who does your LO look like? And does it ever big you to see features of your ex in them?

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Nov 20th, 2012, 15:04 PM	#2
Jennifurball Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: UK Posts: 4,199	When she was first born she had his eyes, but they are turning brown and seem bigger thank god, more like mine. That was one thing that upset me, looking into her eyes and seeing him, but at the same time when dealing with a split, I guess it could be a bit of a comfort too in a way, I don't know, although everyone now says she looks like me.

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Nov 20th, 2012, 15:39 PM	#3
Dezireey Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Devon, UK Posts: 953	I think my boy looks more like me. But there are days when I look at him and he is FOB, especially his nose and deep set eyes. He keeps changing. I think it will really show when he is a grown man I suppose.

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Nov 20th, 2012, 16:23 PM	#4
gracexxx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 63	All I see when I look at LO is me really, she has FOBs dark long eyelashes but that's it. Everyone says she looks like me, which is a relief really.

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Nov 21st, 2012, 02:10 AM	#5
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12,868	My son looks like me but there are times where I see my ex in him. To be honest it does bother me for certain reasons. I usually feel guilty though because it's not my son's fault he looks like him.

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Nov 21st, 2012, 07:35 AM	#6
lizardbreath Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Canada , Ontario Posts: 2,158	Jaymee is a splitting image of me. She used to look like her dad as a baby. But i see none of him in her. As for Katherine that is a different story she is her dad right down to the attitude she has his hair. His eyes nose. All of it. She's a mini daddy. It doesn't bug me in the least

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Nov 23rd, 2012, 03:12 AM	#7
happy&healthy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 809	Other then being tall, my daughter looks nothing like me. She used to be the image of my ex, but as she gets older I think she looks like her own person. It doens't bug me. I have come to a place where I can be happy for past marriage because it produced my daughter.

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Nov 23rd, 2012, 06:27 AM	#8
Jade--x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,910	I'm always told how you can tell they're mine they're my doubles. If I look at photos of me at their age and each other at the same age you can't tell any of us apart, other than my youngest is the only one with blue eyes (even FOB doesn't have blue eyes)..And to add to it we were all born the exact same birth weight I was given a photobook for my 21st birthday with all pictures right from my birth through my life and it included pics of the boys and even I had to take a few minutes to tell us apart People have looked at pics of both FOBs and my LO and can't find a single thing similar. The only people that try to see things the same are FOB. But even he's remarked saying OMG it was like looking at Jade then.

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Nov 24th, 2012, 08:12 AM	#9
Natsku Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Finland Posts: 13,311	Maria looked exactly like FOB when she was born but now she looks much more like me, though she still has his mouth. I've never really thought about it bugging me or anything, the bit that does look like him til my OH said that he's so glad that she doesn't have FOB's eyes and I realise I am really glad too.

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Nov 24th, 2012, 18:16 PM	#10
littlegenes Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Stratford Upon Avon Posts: 174	Her dad which isn't easy

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