Omg I'm so mad

Dream.dream · Dec 12th, 2012, 16:36 PM

So my sons dad has visits supervise at my moms house. It's across town so when I take him it takes an hour and a half to get there .

Saturday he called when we got there and said he didn't have money for gas . Did the same thing today Lat minute which is teally irritating . Well just found out why he can't afford to come

Spent all his money on an engagement Ring . He's neglected his child support worse and has been ditching his visits since he started dating her and this just pushed me over the edge . Seriously priorities ! Your kids more important hen your new girlfriend

Dezireey · Dec 12th, 2012, 17:43 PM

What a tool. Dont let it get to you, he's not worth it. Most of the loser FOB's seem to put everything before their kids, especially themselves.

Dream.dream · Dec 12th, 2012, 19:20 PM

Just irritating. I could make his life so much harder but I don't . I wish he would either step up an be a good dad or bugger off and let someone else be .

I just don't get what kind of girl would be with a guy who neglects his kid so much

Dezireey · Dec 13th, 2012, 05:39 AM

Absent FOBs, who neglect their kids and behave appalingly towards their pregnant ex ( taking into consideration she never did anything wrong, apart from getting pregnant) never usually tell the truth to the next woman. We have all heard men giving sob stories about how they have kid/s and the mean and nasty ex-woman wont let him see them and SHE left him and ignores him yet makes him pay child support etc etc. These idiots are NEVER in a million years going to tell the truth to a new girlfriend. They are either going to say as little as possible, embellish the truth or lie through their teeth. My ex FOB, if he ever starts dating again, I can guarantee what he will do is not even tell her he has a kid. Spineless gits, the lot of them. I feel sorry for their new girlfriends, they have no idea what selfish men they are falling for.

Ceejay123 · Dec 14th, 2012, 12:15 PM

Awwh I'm sorry honey x

gracexxx · Dec 16th, 2012, 14:28 PM

What a tosser! Like dezireey said don't let him get to you, he doesnt even deserve your son in his life, children are special and should mean the world to their parents.
I found out my fob left me for some other girl, and has never had anything to do with LO I spent too much time thinking about him and far too many wasted tears, for a complete twat who decided to leave his pregnant gf and have nothing to do with his own baby for just some other girl!! I'm happy hes out of our lives now useless waste of space!

ZombieQueen · Dec 23rd, 2012, 00:36 AM

I'm so sorry.. Some men are so stupid I just.. I don't have words... Urghh..

And I totally agree on the wondering what girl would want to be with a deadbeat dad... Like I can see these men lying out their asses, but seriously? If you don't visibly see the guy fighting to be in his child's life, then he's probably a pos dad.. Js.. Some women are pathetic.

exoticsiren · Jan 15th, 2013, 16:21 PM

What an asshole. Guys are liars an selfish. The ones ive been w anyways lol. Hes the one missing out on his child.

Ceejay123 · Jan 15th, 2013, 16:36 PM

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Originally Posted by ZombieQueen

I'm so sorry.. Some men are so stupid I just.. I don't have words... Urghh..

And I totally agree on the wondering what girl would want to be with a deadbeat dad... Like I can see these men lying out their asses, but seriously? If you don't visibly see the guy fighting to be in his child's life, then he's probably a pos dad.. Js.. Some women are pathetic.

Completely agree with this. I don't understand how you can be with a guy that gives up on his kids :/ wouldn't it make you paranoid? My cousins just done it, and now she's having a baby with him.

daneuse27 · Jan 15th, 2013, 16:46 PM

Thats terrible.

I dont get it either. If I were the new girlfriend, it would be important for me to see that he has a civil relationship with his ex, and most importantly is a good dad to his kids. Neglecting his kids would be a major turn off to me; shows hes selfish, irresponsible, immature and has a lack of regard for human life. Not exactly qualities I look for in a man!

Dec 12th, 2012, 16:36 PM	#1
Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,274	Omg I'm so mad So my sons dad has visits supervise at my moms house. It's across town so when I take him it takes an hour and a half to get there . Saturday he called when we got there and said he didn't have money for gas . Did the same thing today Lat minute which is teally irritating . Well just found out why he can't afford to come Spent all his money on an engagement Ring . He's neglected his child support worse and has been ditching his visits since he started dating her and this just pushed me over the edge . Seriously priorities ! Your kids more important hen your new girlfriend

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Dec 12th, 2012, 17:43 PM	#2
Dezireey Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Devon, UK Posts: 945	What a tool. Dont let it get to you, he's not worth it. Most of the loser FOB's seem to put everything before their kids, especially themselves.

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Dec 12th, 2012, 19:20 PM	#3
Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,274	Just irritating. I could make his life so much harder but I don't . I wish he would either step up an be a good dad or bugger off and let someone else be . I just don't get what kind of girl would be with a guy who neglects his kid so much

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Dec 13th, 2012, 05:39 AM	#4
Dezireey Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Devon, UK Posts: 945	Absent FOBs, who neglect their kids and behave appalingly towards their pregnant ex ( taking into consideration she never did anything wrong, apart from getting pregnant) never usually tell the truth to the next woman. We have all heard men giving sob stories about how they have kid/s and the mean and nasty ex-woman wont let him see them and SHE left him and ignores him yet makes him pay child support etc etc. These idiots are NEVER in a million years going to tell the truth to a new girlfriend. They are either going to say as little as possible, embellish the truth or lie through their teeth. My ex FOB, if he ever starts dating again, I can guarantee what he will do is not even tell her he has a kid. Spineless gits, the lot of them. I feel sorry for their new girlfriends, they have no idea what selfish men they are falling for.

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Dec 14th, 2012, 12:15 PM	#5
Ceejay123 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Nottingham, Uk Posts: 4,674	Awwh I'm sorry honey x

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Dec 16th, 2012, 14:28 PM	#6
gracexxx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 63	What a tosser! Like dezireey said don't let him get to you, he doesnt even deserve your son in his life, children are special and should mean the world to their parents. I found out my fob left me for some other girl, and has never had anything to do with LO I spent too much time thinking about him and far too many wasted tears, for a complete twat who decided to leave his pregnant gf and have nothing to do with his own baby for just some other girl!! I'm happy hes out of our lives now useless waste of space!

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Dec 23rd, 2012, 00:36 AM	#7
ZombieQueen Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Kauai, Hawaii Posts: 2,298	I'm so sorry.. Some men are so stupid I just.. I don't have words... Urghh.. And I totally agree on the wondering what girl would want to be with a deadbeat dad... Like I can see these men lying out their asses, but seriously? If you don't visibly see the guy fighting to be in his child's life, then he's probably a pos dad.. Js.. Some women are pathetic.

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Jan 15th, 2013, 16:21 PM	#8
exoticsiren Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: hawaii Posts: 1,279	What an asshole. Guys are liars an selfish. The ones ive been w anyways lol. Hes the one missing out on his child.

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daneuse27 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 1,284	Thats terrible. I dont get it either. If I were the new girlfriend, it would be important for me to see that he has a civil relationship with his ex, and most importantly is a good dad to his kids. Neglecting his kids would be a major turn off to me; shows hes selfish, irresponsible, immature and has a lack of regard for human life. Not exactly qualities I look for in a man!

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