Do u get lonely sometimes?

xxkayla89xx · Feb 2nd, 2013, 19:05 PM

Hi ladies, hope ur all doing well. So I'm a single parent to a gorgeous 14 week old baby girl who I love with all my heart, she keeps me occupied most of the day but when she goes to sleep at night I just feel so alone. It's like I miss adult conversation, do any of you ladies feel like this sometimes?

xx

Shezza84uk · Feb 2nd, 2013, 21:02 PM

I have my moments atm I seem to go to bed the same time as them or my mum and Aunty has endless things to tell me about their day on the phone xx

MorganEvans · Feb 3rd, 2013, 06:47 AM

Maybe try occupying your time by doing other things? Work on something or find a hobby?

moomin_troll · Feb 5th, 2013, 05:00 AM

We all get lonely sometimes

I love being alone and it still gets me.

daniandbaby · Feb 5th, 2013, 07:24 AM

yes!

karmapolice · Feb 5th, 2013, 11:00 AM

Of course I do, its 100% natural.

Try watching something you love on TV, catch up with friends/family and generally just occupy yourself

Dezireey · Feb 5th, 2013, 17:43 PM

Yeah, I get lonely from time to time but I have been much more lonely in the past when I was single with no baby, so its the lesser of two evils now LOL. My LO keeps me busy and like you, sometimes at night, when you manage to put your feet up for five mins, you think 'damn, I could do with a cuddle/conversation/kiss etc right now' and there is no-one there. It has got better for me though and I keep busy. Plenty of time when my boy has grown up a bit to meet men, can't be bothered at the moment.

PinkLady17 · Feb 7th, 2013, 20:08 PM

i miss cuddling and kissing ....and resting my head on someone's chest.

SophiasMummy · Feb 8th, 2013, 14:16 PM

Yes thats part of the reason i got a dog as i grew up with dogs and thought if i got a dog it would help me not feel so lonely and help me feels safer. To be honest he does both those things and more he really helps my stress levels when sophia gets too much sounds weird but i think i relied on my two dogs a lot growing up and they were my best friends so thats why my pup helps me now (he is also sophias best friend and is like a nanny dog that follows her everywhere). Its not for everyone though my friend got a pup because she saw that i managed to handle a puppy and 1-2 year old and now is having to find her another hone because she cant cope. To be honest the only thing i miss about having a bf now is someone to talk to and cuddle up too occasionally (i can be funny about my personal space)

gracexxx · Feb 11th, 2013, 10:23 AM

yes i get lonely, i moved out to my own place with LO about 3 months ago, and i just cant get used to being alone! strangely enough its not the evenings a find hard as im soo busy clearing up after LO, its the mornings, when i wake up in an empty bed and house, with just the baby to say good morning to! it is hard but i guess ill get used to it, and having my own space is lovely!

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xxkayla89xx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: united kingdom Posts: 84	Do u get lonely sometimes? Hi ladies, hope ur all doing well. So I'm a single parent to a gorgeous 14 week old baby girl who I love with all my heart, she keeps me occupied most of the day but when she goes to sleep at night I just feel so alone. It's like I miss adult conversation, do any of you ladies feel like this sometimes? xx

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Shezza84uk Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: In an enchanted land far, far away Posts: 1,794	I have my moments atm I seem to go to bed the same time as them or my mum and Aunty has endless things to tell me about their day on the phone xx

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MorganEvans Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 619	Maybe try occupying your time by doing other things? Work on something or find a hobby?

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moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 15,873	We all get lonely sometimes I love being alone and it still gets me.

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daniandbaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: London uk Posts: 1,108	yes!

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karmapolice Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Posts: 53	Of course I do, its 100% natural. Try watching something you love on TV, catch up with friends/family and generally just occupy yourself

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Dezireey Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Devon, UK Posts: 958	Yeah, I get lonely from time to time but I have been much more lonely in the past when I was single with no baby, so its the lesser of two evils now LOL. My LO keeps me busy and like you, sometimes at night, when you manage to put your feet up for five mins, you think 'damn, I could do with a cuddle/conversation/kiss etc right now' and there is no-one there. It has got better for me though and I keep busy. Plenty of time when my boy has grown up a bit to meet men, can't be bothered at the moment.

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PinkLady17 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 135	i miss cuddling and kissing ....and resting my head on someone's chest.

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SophiasMummy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2010 Location: devon Posts: 2,702	Yes thats part of the reason i got a dog as i grew up with dogs and thought if i got a dog it would help me not feel so lonely and help me feels safer. To be honest he does both those things and more he really helps my stress levels when sophia gets too much sounds weird but i think i relied on my two dogs a lot growing up and they were my best friends so thats why my pup helps me now (he is also sophias best friend and is like a nanny dog that follows her everywhere). Its not for everyone though my friend got a pup because she saw that i managed to handle a puppy and 1-2 year old and now is having to find her another hone because she cant cope. To be honest the only thing i miss about having a bf now is someone to talk to and cuddle up too occasionally (i can be funny about my personal space)

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Feb 11th, 2013, 10:23 AM	#10
gracexxx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 63	yes i get lonely, i moved out to my own place with LO about 3 months ago, and i just cant get used to being alone! strangely enough its not the evenings a find hard as im soo busy clearing up after LO, its the mornings, when i wake up in an empty bed and house, with just the baby to say good morning to! it is hard but i guess ill get used to it, and having my own space is lovely!

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