Restraining order? - Page 2

sweetsammi · Jul 28th, 2008, 07:18 AM

Hugs..Huni If i were u i would definatelly do something, because his behaviour is totally unacceptable. If he has hurt you in the past, whos to say he wont do it again? And worse still your babies? It not healthy for you having to deal with this kind of stress and worry whilst pregnant luv and certainly not healthy for you little girl to witness. What an arsehole-to put it politly. If he is throwing them kind of threats at u and in front of ur daughter too you need to take some serious action..maybe start my getting some legal advice and go from there. Truely feel for you and your babies hun, good luck and i am so sorry you are having to go through this. Stay strong.xx

krissi · Jul 28th, 2008, 08:51 AM

Hey hun sorry to hear this happened to you. I was a domestic abuse worker for 5 years in the UK so will just pass on what i know from my experiences here.

You definately need to go to the police and report what happened, it is also worth keeping a diary to keep track of any texts or messages you get.

The restraining order... not sure how it works out there but here its very unlikely that a judge would enforce a restraining order with the power of arrest for an isolated incident (unless you discuss with a family law solicitor other episodes of abuse).

Don't live in fear, he is an arse for treating you like this and i am sure you do not want him to be a part of your lives so stay the hell away from him its his loss and like i say get some support from your health visitor/ midwife/ local domestic abuse centre xxx

Jul 28th, 2008, 07:18 AM	#11
sweetsammi Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Leicester- UK Posts: 1,100	Hugs..Huni If i were u i would definatelly do something, because his behaviour is totally unacceptable. If he has hurt you in the past, whos to say he wont do it again? And worse still your babies? It not healthy for you having to deal with this kind of stress and worry whilst pregnant luv and certainly not healthy for you little girl to witness. What an arsehole-to put it politly. If he is throwing them kind of threats at u and in front of ur daughter too you need to take some serious action..maybe start my getting some legal advice and go from there. Truely feel for you and your babies hun, good luck and i am so sorry you are having to go through this. Stay strong.xx

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Jul 28th, 2008, 08:51 AM	#12
krissi Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: West Sussex Posts: 4,294	Hey hun sorry to hear this happened to you. I was a domestic abuse worker for 5 years in the UK so will just pass on what i know from my experiences here. You definately need to go to the police and report what happened, it is also worth keeping a diary to keep track of any texts or messages you get. The restraining order... not sure how it works out there but here its very unlikely that a judge would enforce a restraining order with the power of arrest for an isolated incident (unless you discuss with a family law solicitor other episodes of abuse). Don't live in fear, he is an arse for treating you like this and i am sure you do not want him to be a part of your lives so stay the hell away from him its his loss and like i say get some support from your health visitor/ midwife/ local domestic abuse centre xxx

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