This is going to sound ridiculous but i hated the evenings, couldn't read my books cos i couldn't concentrate on them, couldn't have friends round cos they all have partners and children, couldnt go out for obvious reason (Jack)......so what did i do?
Joined plentyoffish.com and made a profile that stated i was on for hang out only and i chat to fellas on there haha they all know im not on there to find a fella and some are on for hang out only too so works both ways......one took me out for my birthday and paid for bowling as a treat which i thought was lovely of him (absolutely nothing in it)......and i kicked his backside twice hahaha! Try it- don't make yourself out to be vulnerable though and be careful how much info you give out......EG talk as if the person on the other end of the convo has contact with your ex cos ya never know!
I love it though, adult conversation, no commitment but a bit of attention and in the long run you never know