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Old Sep 17th, 2009, 18:01 PM   11
Dipar_Butt3
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How are you managing doing it alone? With God, and my mother.


How did you decide that doing it alone was the right choice? Because i feel since my kids are here. Somebody has to love them and be in their lives. And i choose to do that.


IF you'd have had a termination would the father still be with you? No..Because he was a player..He love more women and sex then anything else. And besides i'm pro-life. Termination is not a option.



Did you think that by having a baby and been a single parent might ruin your own quality of life? E.g., been a single parent or not been able to go on exotic holidays anymore or not having the perfect house/family.

No..Because you can still have fun with your kid/kids..You don't have to go to expensive place or holidays to have fun. And besides when you get use to taking care of your child/children..You forget about the time you can go out and stuff alone, like before.



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Old Sep 17th, 2009, 19:39 PM   12
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This is the boat I'm in, just flip it around...

She has left me and wants to be with someone else after 5 weeks apart, she's 20 weeks and I'm devastated.



 
Old Sep 18th, 2009, 06:23 AM   13
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This is a v old post, like a year old



 
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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 09:14 AM   14
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Doesn't mean people can't reply..



 
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Old Sep 18th, 2009, 10:53 AM   15
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i know, wasnt meaning that. Just meant the people who originally started it might not read that its been read again, if u get me, coz the reply is to them..



 
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Old Sep 21st, 2009, 04:33 AM   16
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I think that maybe if I'd have had a termination FOB would still be with me. Hes got scared about being out of control. He knows Termination not an option. So hes just walked and made sure I suffer along the way. I think honestly that part of his plan was to cause as much stress as possible so that I Miscarry again - like he did last time!
But thank God this has not happened. But I have moved away to hide from him and I'd like us to start a life afresh. I have no family support and therefore am scared stiff. I am vulnerable and therefore I wanted to be away from him incase he comes back manipulating and promising all I could wish for - which is what he has always done in the past. I also want to be able to birth without worrying hes going to turn up. So moving away was the only option really.



 
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