Jan 27th, 2012, 00:54 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12,868 |
I agree you should tell your parents. Sending you massive hugs  xx
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Jan 27th, 2012, 11:16 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Devon, UK Posts: 958 |
My FOB did this, only he chose to give me the guilt trip, soppy, silent treatment e.g How can you do this to us?, I love you but I can't be with you anymore if you have the baby...subtle blackmail really. Just as manipulative as shouting at me to get rid. Deffo tell your parents and just immediately start adapting your life without him and prepare to be a single mum. Message - To the Men who absolutely don't want kids and then have hissy fits when you get your girl pregnant.....big bit of advice for ya...accidents can happen, wear an effing bloody condom mate  everytime and then you won't ever be a Dad will ya?. ......simples. |
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Jan 27th, 2012, 14:47 PM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Telford Posts: 637 |
Like the other ladies said tell your parents and then he can't hold it over you. It is totally your choice to keep the baby so enjoy your pregnancy  |
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Jan 27th, 2012, 15:36 PM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: UK Posts: 1,471 |
I'm sorry you're going through this . You're not a loser and what I think you have to do is talk to your parents. At the end of the day parents are there to support you whether they agree with your choices or not. Also, you have EVERY right to keep your baby, it's a part of YOU and for anyone, let alone the other person that helped create this baby, to try and force you to have an abortion is not worth your time. I had the same problem with my FOB, but he tried to emotionally blackmail me into it - he wasn't think how emotionally vulnerable I was at the time and how scared I was. I just kept saying 'get rid of it' over and over and going on about how he liked his life and didn't want to be a dad - but I don't remember him putting a condom on! At the time I felt bad for him because I could see from his POV that he was scared and he even said he was. I stood my ground anyway and am now 19 weeks pregnant. I love my baby so much and I'm so glad I didn't let myself get bullied into an abortion.My point is keep your baby if it's what you really want because YOU are the one that has to live with the consequences. I'm pretty sure that this guy won't stand by you for long if you had an abortion for him. Good luck  |
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