so me and my husband have had a rubbish past 16 months, he became addicted to drugs during the start of my pregnancy and kept abandoning me through it. Anyway since before christmas we were trying again and he was leaving the drugs alone and things were really good except he's out of work and we're really struggling for money. so he's been going for interviews and putting the petrol that he needs to get there on my credit card. anyway today i told him i didn't want him to do it and he begged me and begged me to let him so he could go to this interview and make it up to me how he's treated me etc etc and anyway when he didn't come home tonight i was totally worried about him so log onto his emails and what do i find? he's arranged to meet the girl he was sleeping with for drugs. i can't believe i was stupied enough to beleive him. My baby is asleep in the other room but he's so poorly and everytime he coughs it just breaks my heart knowing that his dad would rather be there with some cheap drug dealer than here looking after him. i'm sorry this is just a massive rant but i can't believe i'm sat here again like this

im so sorry, what a horrible situation to be in. And sorry to say this but what a complete ass is your oh!! You can do so so much better. Its nasty what drugs do to people and must be really hard for you to sit and watch this happen. Some times you have to be cruel to be kind and only he can make the decision to stop and change things. I hope it gets better for you. Keep your head held high. You tried and you cant do much more than that

Oh my gosh honey I am so sorry...what an asshole...Not really and advice except I think you would do better with out him....what a creep.

I agree with ilove3baby, you can do so much better for you and your LO. Some men, no matter how hard you try or wish them to change... they wont. It comes to a point where you have to put your own needs beyond his as he is being selfish. It could be that seeing you leave him might make him shape up and realise what he has done/doing is destroying everything.

oh honey im so sorry i know how you feel.where you from?im from uk if you from uk i could give you some advice reg.housing and benefits if you gonna end this relationship and i think you should for your baby.he is sucking you dry by taking your credit card and where he ending up?with some drug addict whore you should go and check yourself for any kind of STD's too.