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princessellie · Mar 1st, 2012, 03:30 AM

how often a week does your fob see your baby?

janinio87uk · Mar 1st, 2012, 04:48 AM

as often as he wants really, he'll have him overnight once a week and prob see him 2-3 evenings during the week as well (for an hour or two) when I am at work.

princessellie · Mar 1st, 2012, 05:12 AM

would you let him round every day? x

Mammy2Joojx · Mar 1st, 2012, 10:04 AM

once a week for 6 hours he sees him, he used to go weeks without seeing him but i said if he didn't see him regularly he wouldn't see him at all. He seems his one day a week 11-5, has him overnight about once every 8 weeks & has him fri - sun morning once every 6 months or so

if he wanted to see him everyday from when he was born i would let him but because he's never wanted to, he won't get the chance to now as i know it would last for about a week & then die down. Sorry for essay xx

Laura2919 · Mar 1st, 2012, 12:34 PM

FOB did used to have the twins every other weekend and one night and day during the week now he only has every other weekend and currently that has also stopped due to solicitor.

I wouldn't let him round every day. You have to form your own routine with your kids.

Dream.dream · Mar 1st, 2012, 16:11 PM

every other wednesday for 2 hours and every other saturday for 6 hours.

angelpkj · Mar 2nd, 2012, 03:07 AM

when LO was born i let fob see him as much as he wanted too which for 10 days was every day for as long as he wanted too

then it became fri-sunday if he wasn't going out

i think if me and fob were ok and no concerns i'd let him see LO all day sat till sunday about 3

think it depends how old LO is,my lo goes bed at 6 and fob works till 530 sometimes otherwise i'd let him see LO a night in the week aswel

Ryders_Mommie · Mar 2nd, 2012, 08:53 AM

I wish my FOB would step up and actually try to see Ryder. I mean we have been split up for like 7 months and he has probally seen him like 35 days since we have been split up. It is rediclious.

helen_beee · Mar 3rd, 2012, 05:40 AM

Whilst it is important that LO builds up a bond with their father, I think it is just as important that you develop a routine with you and your baby. I wouldn't let him round every day as that would disrupt our routine, but then again he probably couldn't be bothered with that much access anyway.

Ginger84 · Mar 3rd, 2012, 09:36 AM

Mine see's him every Sunday usually and overnight every other Saturday night. Doesn't see him at all in the week but thats his choice beacuse he moved away.

Hope you and FOB can come to some arrangement which suits you both.

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janinio87uk Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: UK Posts: 474	as often as he wants really, he'll have him overnight once a week and prob see him 2-3 evenings during the week as well (for an hour or two) when I am at work.

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Mammy2Joojx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 1,005	once a week for 6 hours he sees him, he used to go weeks without seeing him but i said if he didn't see him regularly he wouldn't see him at all. He seems his one day a week 11-5, has him overnight about once every 8 weeks & has him fri - sun morning once every 6 months or so if he wanted to see him everyday from when he was born i would let him but because he's never wanted to, he won't get the chance to now as i know it would last for about a week & then die down. Sorry for essay xx

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Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,770	FOB did used to have the twins every other weekend and one night and day during the week now he only has every other weekend and currently that has also stopped due to solicitor. I wouldn't let him round every day. You have to form your own routine with your kids.

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Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,335	every other wednesday for 2 hours and every other saturday for 6 hours.

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angelpkj Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 363	when LO was born i let fob see him as much as he wanted too which for 10 days was every day for as long as he wanted too then it became fri-sunday if he wasn't going out i think if me and fob were ok and no concerns i'd let him see LO all day sat till sunday about 3 think it depends how old LO is,my lo goes bed at 6 and fob works till 530 sometimes otherwise i'd let him see LO a night in the week aswel

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Ryders_Mommie Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Phenix City, AL Posts: 24	I wish my FOB would step up and actually try to see Ryder. I mean we have been split up for like 7 months and he has probally seen him like 35 days since we have been split up. It is rediclious.

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helen_beee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 1,134	Whilst it is important that LO builds up a bond with their father, I think it is just as important that you develop a routine with you and your baby. I wouldn't let him round every day as that would disrupt our routine, but then again he probably couldn't be bothered with that much access anyway.

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Mar 3rd, 2012, 09:36 AM	#10
Ginger84 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: UK Posts: 293	Mine see's him every Sunday usually and overnight every other Saturday night. Doesn't see him at all in the week but thats his choice beacuse he moved away. Hope you and FOB can come to some arrangement which suits you both.

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