I'm not coping

AbbynChloe · Mar 4th, 2012, 04:12 AM

And told Chloe's dad to come and take her, otherwise I would contact social services.......

i am heartbroken

he took her yesterday

and now he wont speak to me

Mammy2Joojx · Mar 4th, 2012, 04:37 AM

why can't you cope hun? Xx

kirst1805 · Mar 4th, 2012, 07:03 AM

Abby, what's happened hun? What makes you feel you can't cope?
Xxx

Laura2919 · Mar 4th, 2012, 10:19 AM

Hun

what is wrong?? You should never have to feel like that..

Let's hope whatever it is it can be worked on. xxxx

AbbynChloe · Mar 4th, 2012, 12:27 PM

I just think i have been letting things get on top of me for a while, and not venting. so had a huge meltdown yesterday, and sent Chloe off to her dad- he wasn't doing anything to help me - and een her like twice over the last 7 months.

he didn't hlpt me at all when I was in hospital for 8 days right before xmas. I'd just been feeling really lonely and depressed.

I had a good chat with my best friend today, then spoke with Ed and asked him nicely to bring Chloe home.

I was horrified to find out he had taken Chloe all the way to cheltenham to stay with his brother - this is the man who threatened to shoot me if i didn't terminate my pregnancy with Chloe.

I feel physically sick knowing he's playing puzzles with her.....

Laura2919 · Mar 4th, 2012, 12:32 PM

Is he bringing her home? It's not wrong to feel fed up, lonely, upset you do everything on your own and he is hardly any help..

You'll get through it hun.. Do you think maybe talking to a professional about how yor feeling would benefit you?

I'm always here if you need a chatter

peapod11 · Mar 4th, 2012, 12:36 PM

i hope ur ok, if u need a chat im here xx

AbbynChloe · Mar 4th, 2012, 12:54 PM

Thank you girls. I have an appointment with my doc tomorrow - i think i need to up my anti depressants and maybe try a counselling
or something.

I just got to the point where everything was too much, he was draining me emotionally, i was angry, working lots and just struggling.

its rubbish that it seems i'd be better off not working than working, financially everything is so hard!! but i know i'd only be more depressed if i didn't work, Chloe and work feel like they are the only good bits in my life at the moment.

He's bringing her home tonight - i'll collect her from the train station in a couple of hours - really can't wait to see her lol been a little over 24hr.

I think i need to come back here and start venting and chatting again :-) missed the support here xxx

Rhio92 · Mar 4th, 2012, 13:36 PM

Hope it goes ok with the doctor... Sounds like you need someone to talk to? Like some sort of counselling x

Laura2919 · Mar 4th, 2012, 13:53 PM

I know it helps talking here doesn't it? I just wish it was more private in here but this is public

its hard but you will see a light at the end of the tunnel, hope your dr can help.

Do you get nights away from Chloe? Maybe go for dinner with some friends or try and meet some new people. Sounds like you need to find who you are as well as working and being a mummy..

Mar 4th, 2012, 04:12 AM	#1
AbbynChloe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Surrey Posts: 641	I'm not coping And told Chloe's dad to come and take her, otherwise I would contact social services....... i am heartbroken he took her yesterday and now he wont speak to me

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Mar 4th, 2012, 04:37 AM	#2
Mammy2Joojx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 1,005	why can't you cope hun? Xx

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Mar 4th, 2012, 07:03 AM	#3
kirst1805 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Norfolk Posts: 2,092	Abby, what's happened hun? What makes you feel you can't cope? Xxx

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Mar 4th, 2012, 10:19 AM	#4
Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,770	Hun what is wrong?? You should never have to feel like that.. Let's hope whatever it is it can be worked on. xxxx

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Mar 4th, 2012, 12:27 PM	#5
AbbynChloe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Surrey Posts: 641	I just think i have been letting things get on top of me for a while, and not venting. so had a huge meltdown yesterday, and sent Chloe off to her dad- he wasn't doing anything to help me - and een her like twice over the last 7 months. he didn't hlpt me at all when I was in hospital for 8 days right before xmas. I'd just been feeling really lonely and depressed. I had a good chat with my best friend today, then spoke with Ed and asked him nicely to bring Chloe home. I was horrified to find out he had taken Chloe all the way to cheltenham to stay with his brother - this is the man who threatened to shoot me if i didn't terminate my pregnancy with Chloe. I feel physically sick knowing he's playing puzzles with her.....

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Mar 4th, 2012, 12:32 PM	#6
Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,770	Is he bringing her home? It's not wrong to feel fed up, lonely, upset you do everything on your own and he is hardly any help.. You'll get through it hun.. Do you think maybe talking to a professional about how yor feeling would benefit you? I'm always here if you need a chatter

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Mar 4th, 2012, 12:36 PM	#7
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Mar 4th, 2012, 12:54 PM	#8
AbbynChloe Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Surrey Posts: 641	Thank you girls. I have an appointment with my doc tomorrow - i think i need to up my anti depressants and maybe try a counselling or something. I just got to the point where everything was too much, he was draining me emotionally, i was angry, working lots and just struggling. its rubbish that it seems i'd be better off not working than working, financially everything is so hard!! but i know i'd only be more depressed if i didn't work, Chloe and work feel like they are the only good bits in my life at the moment. He's bringing her home tonight - i'll collect her from the train station in a couple of hours - really can't wait to see her lol been a little over 24hr. I think i need to come back here and start venting and chatting again :-) missed the support here xxx

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Mar 4th, 2012, 13:36 PM	#9
Rhio92 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Nottingham, UK Posts: 5,178	Hope it goes ok with the doctor... Sounds like you need someone to talk to? Like some sort of counselling x

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Mar 4th, 2012, 13:53 PM	#10
Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,770	I know it helps talking here doesn't it? I just wish it was more private in here but this is public its hard but you will see a light at the end of the tunnel, hope your dr can help. Do you get nights away from Chloe? Maybe go for dinner with some friends or try and meet some new people. Sounds like you need to find who you are as well as working and being a mummy..

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