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Old Mar 18th, 2012, 05:25 AM   #1
george83
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feel stupid for even hoping for a card


my ex husband knows i'm really sentimental, we were still together for my birthday - my first with our baby - and i know it sounds naff but at the time i told him all i wanted was a birthday card from my son, nothing else. i know it's stupid but i actually thought he might still think of getting me a mothers day card too but he didn't. i don't know why i'm so sad about it, there's no reason he would but if it was his first fathers day i would have got him a card from the baby, it's not like it means anythng between us two has changed. i guess i'm just still devastated that he doesn't care anymore


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Old Mar 18th, 2012, 05:42 AM   #2
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bigg hugs me & my ex don't but presents for eachother off jaydeen for mothers/fathers day or even birthdays/christmas. We rarely talk & he has to contact my parents to see jooj so i don't expect anything off him. Men aren't as thoughtful as us women anyway x x


 
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Old Mar 18th, 2012, 06:57 AM   #3
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I feel the same way as you but I guess things change and ppl change it gets better with time. Happy mothers day x


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Old Mar 18th, 2012, 07:25 AM   #4
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I know how you feel hun, I told my ex (we were together at the time) that I'd love a birthday card from LO but he didn't get me one.
Happy mothers day


 
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Old Mar 19th, 2012, 02:30 AM   #5
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FOB gets me a card but I do have to admit I don't buy him one and I wont be buying him one.


 
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Old Mar 19th, 2012, 06:04 AM   #6
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i got fob a card for xmas off bump and i didnt get a card off him never mind bump

so when LO was born i got him a fathers day card but didnt go all out and i don't think i would bother,if he cant be arsed getting you one don't give it a 2nd thought because he didn't

just wait till its his birthday etc and he doesnt have naff all off lo


 
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