Seriously need a break...

whoops · Mar 31st, 2012, 17:02 PM

Title says it all really. I'm finding motherhood so stressful at the moment. Part of it is Lily's age - she's getting more wilful and more active, taking less naps, needs more attention but mostly the fault is with me. I just feel so tired all the time and I'm finding it so hard to have the energy to deal with her. I keep snapping at her and getting annoyed at her, even though she's just doing normal toddler things.

I am getting time away from her - I work during the week and am slowly regaining a social life of sorts, but I really feel like I just need a proper break where I don't have to think or worry or get stressed.

Sorry girls, just really needed to vent.

angelpkj · Apr 1st, 2012, 15:02 PM

i feel like that too-have my bad days and i'm just soooo tired

how often you away from her?

whoops · Apr 1st, 2012, 18:00 PM

Thanks, hun. I work four days a week and for the past few weeks, have had at least one evening a week away from her as well, either meeting friends or going to bookclub or something.

And she goes to bed reasonably early at night, so it's not as if I'm up with her all evening either when I am here.

I don't know what's wrong with me, tbh. I can't seem to snap out of it.

angelpkj · Apr 2nd, 2012, 04:35 AM

mention it to your gp
it could be a sign of PND or it could be something as simple as you needing to eat abit more to keep your energy levels up
best off finding what you can do to help it before it gets worse and worse x
touch wood iv backed off my morning coffees
you get an energy burst but later on you pay for it feeling even more tired than you would normally :/

teal · Apr 4th, 2012, 03:21 AM

Might be worthwhile seeing your GP

I had PPD and it was awful xx

whoops · Apr 4th, 2012, 14:27 PM

Thanks for the suggestion. I will consider it - I might give myself until Easter to see if things improve and if not, I'll make an appointment.

It's like I just need an attitude adjustment, or some way of putting the little things into perspective so I can actually enjoy her more. She cracks me up most of the time, but if I'm under the slightest amount of pressure, like if I'm running late or something, then I just get so stressed out.

Dream.dream · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:24 PM

Hugs for starters. and secondly, have you tryed taking mini breaks in the day when you have her? i try and take 2 minutes or so every every couple hours to just do something small away from my son to take abreak. sometimes its even just going to the bathroom alone. or turning on some music. I also have a journal of positive thoughts i go to sometimes and make myself write down good things, like things my son does that make me happy.

Mar 31st, 2012, 17:02 PM	#1
whoops Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 2,973	Seriously need a break... Title says it all really. I'm finding motherhood so stressful at the moment. Part of it is Lily's age - she's getting more wilful and more active, taking less naps, needs more attention but mostly the fault is with me. I just feel so tired all the time and I'm finding it so hard to have the energy to deal with her. I keep snapping at her and getting annoyed at her, even though she's just doing normal toddler things. I am getting time away from her - I work during the week and am slowly regaining a social life of sorts, but I really feel like I just need a proper break where I don't have to think or worry or get stressed. Sorry girls, just really needed to vent.

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Apr 1st, 2012, 15:02 PM	#2
angelpkj Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 363	i feel like that too-have my bad days and i'm just soooo tired how often you away from her?

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Apr 1st, 2012, 18:00 PM	#3
whoops Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 2,973	Thanks, hun. I work four days a week and for the past few weeks, have had at least one evening a week away from her as well, either meeting friends or going to bookclub or something. And she goes to bed reasonably early at night, so it's not as if I'm up with her all evening either when I am here. I don't know what's wrong with me, tbh. I can't seem to snap out of it.

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Apr 2nd, 2012, 04:35 AM	#4
angelpkj Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 363	mention it to your gp it could be a sign of PND or it could be something as simple as you needing to eat abit more to keep your energy levels up best off finding what you can do to help it before it gets worse and worse x touch wood iv backed off my morning coffees you get an energy burst but later on you pay for it feeling even more tired than you would normally :/

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Apr 4th, 2012, 03:21 AM	#5
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12,868	Might be worthwhile seeing your GP I had PPD and it was awful xx

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whoops Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 2,973	Thanks for the suggestion. I will consider it - I might give myself until Easter to see if things improve and if not, I'll make an appointment. It's like I just need an attitude adjustment, or some way of putting the little things into perspective so I can actually enjoy her more. She cracks me up most of the time, but if I'm under the slightest amount of pressure, like if I'm running late or something, then I just get so stressed out.

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Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,267	Hugs for starters. and secondly, have you tryed taking mini breaks in the day when you have her? i try and take 2 minutes or so every every couple hours to just do something small away from my son to take abreak. sometimes its even just going to the bathroom alone. or turning on some music. I also have a journal of positive thoughts i go to sometimes and make myself write down good things, like things my son does that make me happy.

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