So I'm a single mum again...

miaplus2 · Apr 4th, 2012, 12:01 PM

Yesterday i asked my partner to leave....
I love him very much but it became very clear he didn't love me.. Im now a 21 year old single mummy to a 3 year old daughter a 23 month old poorly girl and due to have baby number 3 june 28th...

And im scared... and alone.. and really really lost.

jemmie1994 · Apr 4th, 2012, 15:04 PM

know doesn't feel like it now but you've done the right thing staying with a man who doesn't make you feel loved will cause resentment and arguments which is not a good environment for your kids you will do just fine without him do you have other people who can support you?

whoknowsx · Apr 7th, 2012, 23:10 PM

Do you have family support? This goes without saying you are going need support from wherever you get it.

I know it sucks right now but remember, you are doing whats best for you and your children.

dustbunny · Apr 8th, 2012, 07:26 AM

As the other ladies have said, you have done what you feel is the right thing. It is pointless to stay in a relationship out of a sense of duty for your children, if no love is there or it is one sided then it will show at some stage or another. Stay strong

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miaplus2 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 240	So I'm a single mum again... Yesterday i asked my partner to leave.... I love him very much but it became very clear he didn't love me.. Im now a 21 year old single mummy to a 3 year old daughter a 23 month old poorly girl and due to have baby number 3 june 28th... And im scared... and alone.. and really really lost.

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jemmie1994 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 2,681	know doesn't feel like it now but you've done the right thing staying with a man who doesn't make you feel loved will cause resentment and arguments which is not a good environment for your kids you will do just fine without him do you have other people who can support you?

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whoknowsx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: New York Posts: 65	Do you have family support? This goes without saying you are going need support from wherever you get it. I know it sucks right now but remember, you are doing whats best for you and your children.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 07:26 AM	#4
dustbunny Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Somerset Posts: 1,664	As the other ladies have said, you have done what you feel is the right thing. It is pointless to stay in a relationship out of a sense of duty for your children, if no love is there or it is one sided then it will show at some stage or another. Stay strong

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