New single mom :(

Ersurgeongirl · Apr 4th, 2012, 16:37 PM

So on April 2nd the fob confessed to cheating on me after I found a transaction on his credit card statement of him buying this hoe a plane ticket to go see him in omaha, where he's currently working. He met her in Virginia where he was working last month.

So here I am.. Almost 13 weeks pregnant and alone. Luckily my parents are allowing me to move back home.

What do I do from here?

Dream.dream · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:29 PM

*HUGS*im sorry he did that to you. men can be such jerks. its good to have your parents. being pregnant and raising a baby without the dad is hard. i did it for 3 years, but having other help from family is a god sent.

jemmie1994 · Apr 5th, 2012, 10:14 AM

men can be suck dicks forget about him hun and focus on your baby they are all that matters

george83 · Apr 5th, 2012, 15:39 PM

you poor thing. the best thing you can do is take all the support from your family and try to not let it ruin your pregnany - i did and now i regret not being able to have simply enjoyed being pregnant. i cry everyday about my husband leaving me and i wish it would all just go away but having your baby will give you something else to focus on and that will help but i know that seems like a long way off for now xxxxxx

Ersurgeongirl · Apr 5th, 2012, 21:54 PM

Thank you for all the advice. I'm starting to see how much of an asshole he is. I'm going to be the best mom for this baby, that's all that matters

SilasLove · Apr 6th, 2012, 00:47 AM

I am so sorry he did that to you! I wish you the best! Before you know it your baby will fill all/any of that pain you have. xx

lemontree12 · Apr 6th, 2012, 06:24 AM

My fob left me when I was 14 weeks making me homeless! I recently found out he has a new gf and I think they were together at the start of my pregnancy! It's hard and scary the thought of doing this alone, but I have huge support from friends! My family don't live around here!

The best advice I can give u is surround urself with people who care for u until u feel ready to spend time alone! I was so scared to be alone because I just cried and freaked out! Today's the first day I attempting to enjoy my own company since finding out he is in a relationship after 5yrs together we are only split for 3months

If u want to chat message me x

tooyoung · Apr 6th, 2012, 12:39 PM

I tried to post a reply but it didn't show up. Was it because I called the fob a bad word lol ???

You are better off without him. Be thankful you found out sooner rather than later! Good luck.

teal · Apr 6th, 2012, 14:31 PM

I'm so sorry

You don't deserve that. My ex broke up with me when I was 4 weeks pregnant and refused to have a termination. You'll be absolutely fine. It's hard but it's so worth it

xx

whoknowsx · Apr 7th, 2012, 23:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ersurgeongirl

So on April 2nd the fob confessed to cheating on me after I found a transaction on his credit card statement of him buying this hoe a plane ticket to go see him in omaha, where he's currently working. He met her in Virginia where he was working last month.

So here I am.. Almost 13 weeks pregnant and alone. Luckily my parents are allowing me to move back home.

What do I do from here?

Wow, I feel like we are living the same life.

We are due on the same date & both of our FOB's betrayed us and left us alone.

I know it sucks but you are not alone

With time things get better. It's been a week for me and I went from breaking down every hour to not one tear shed today.

We will be okay.

Apr 4th, 2012, 16:37 PM	#1
Ersurgeongirl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,467	New single mom :( So on April 2nd the fob confessed to cheating on me after I found a transaction on his credit card statement of him buying this hoe a plane ticket to go see him in omaha, where he's currently working. He met her in Virginia where he was working last month. So here I am.. Almost 13 weeks pregnant and alone. Luckily my parents are allowing me to move back home. What do I do from here?

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Apr 4th, 2012, 22:29 PM	#2
Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,349	HUGSim sorry he did that to you. men can be such jerks. its good to have your parents. being pregnant and raising a baby without the dad is hard. i did it for 3 years, but having other help from family is a god sent.

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Apr 5th, 2012, 10:14 AM	#3
jemmie1994 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 2,681	men can be suck dicks forget about him hun and focus on your baby they are all that matters

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george83 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 1,268	you poor thing. the best thing you can do is take all the support from your family and try to not let it ruin your pregnany - i did and now i regret not being able to have simply enjoyed being pregnant. i cry everyday about my husband leaving me and i wish it would all just go away but having your baby will give you something else to focus on and that will help but i know that seems like a long way off for now xxxxxx

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Apr 5th, 2012, 21:54 PM	#5
Ersurgeongirl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,467	Thank you for all the advice. I'm starting to see how much of an asshole he is. I'm going to be the best mom for this baby, that's all that matters

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SilasLove Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Missouri, USA Posts: 3,264	I am so sorry he did that to you! I wish you the best! Before you know it your baby will fill all/any of that pain you have. xx

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Apr 6th, 2012, 06:24 AM	#7
lemontree12 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 756	My fob left me when I was 14 weeks making me homeless! I recently found out he has a new gf and I think they were together at the start of my pregnancy! It's hard and scary the thought of doing this alone, but I have huge support from friends! My family don't live around here! The best advice I can give u is surround urself with people who care for u until u feel ready to spend time alone! I was so scared to be alone because I just cried and freaked out! Today's the first day I attempting to enjoy my own company since finding out he is in a relationship after 5yrs together we are only split for 3months If u want to chat message me x

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Apr 6th, 2012, 12:39 PM	#8
tooyoung Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 72	I tried to post a reply but it didn't show up. Was it because I called the fob a bad word lol ??? You are better off without him. Be thankful you found out sooner rather than later! Good luck.

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Apr 6th, 2012, 14:31 PM	#9
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12,868	I'm so sorry You don't deserve that. My ex broke up with me when I was 4 weeks pregnant and refused to have a termination. You'll be absolutely fine. It's hard but it's so worth it xx

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