Single parents :(

Blue_star · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:35 PM

I just found out today i'm going to be a single parent i'm 14 weeks my OH was so nice and supportive then I found out he is trying to fool around and is flirting with a girl from up North, he has a cottage up there so goes some weekends with his family (Who he hasn't even told yet that he is having a baby). She was shocked when she found out he has a pregnant girlfriend in his hometown.

If he can act this way and lie to me while i'm pregnant my first time then I am not going to deal with him anymore.. I feel so horrible right now.

How is it being a single parent?

I feel so angry and frustrated right now!

lynn1216 · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:39 PM

i cant answer your question! but dont marry him if you cant trust him and if yall are married! work it out!!

but im soo sorry for that !

its a yuck situation just dont stress its bad for the baby! praying for you

Blue_star · Apr 4th, 2012, 22:57 PM

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Originally Posted by lynn1216

i cant answer your question! but dont marry him if you cant trust him and if yall are married! work it out!!

but im soo sorry for that !

its a yuck situation just dont stress its bad for the baby! praying for you

Thanks and no we are not married

Dream.dream · Apr 5th, 2012, 00:28 AM

I can say that you cant build a relationship if you cant trust him and it will be harder to leave if you wait until the baby gets here. And there is to many good men out there to stay with a cheater

there is alot about being a single parent that is rewarding but im not going to lie it is hard. You can do it you just need a support system whether thats family or close friends, or someone else to help out. It makes you stronger for sure

i wish you best of everything. Keep you chin up and there is tons of people here who if you need support.

Apr 4th, 2012, 22:35 PM	#1
Blue_star Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 360	Single parents :( I just found out today i'm going to be a single parent i'm 14 weeks my OH was so nice and supportive then I found out he is trying to fool around and is flirting with a girl from up North, he has a cottage up there so goes some weekends with his family (Who he hasn't even told yet that he is having a baby). She was shocked when she found out he has a pregnant girlfriend in his hometown. If he can act this way and lie to me while i'm pregnant my first time then I am not going to deal with him anymore.. I feel so horrible right now. How is it being a single parent? I feel so angry and frustrated right now!

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Apr 4th, 2012, 22:39 PM	#2
lynn1216 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 624	i cant answer your question! but dont marry him if you cant trust him and if yall are married! work it out!! but im soo sorry for that ! its a yuck situation just dont stress its bad for the baby! praying for you

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Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,373	I can say that you cant build a relationship if you cant trust him and it will be harder to leave if you wait until the baby gets here. And there is to many good men out there to stay with a cheater there is alot about being a single parent that is rewarding but im not going to lie it is hard. You can do it you just need a support system whether thats family or close friends, or someone else to help out. It makes you stronger for sure i wish you best of everything. Keep you chin up and there is tons of people here who if you need support.

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