You have a magic wand and its 5 years from now - Page 2

teal · Apr 10th, 2012, 06:36 AM

As much as I would like to meet someone decent

I know I'll be happy as long as my son and I are happy.

At the moment I just want to feel better. (a long drawn out fight with PPD) xx

Lemonflower · Apr 11th, 2012, 09:23 AM

Aww I like your response Teal! :-)

As long as me and little fella are happy then that's the main thing!
I do miss big fella cuddles though!

Big hugs Teal

xxx

teal · Apr 11th, 2012, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Lemonflower

Aww I like your response Teal! :-)

As long as me and little fella are happy then that's the main thing!
I do miss big fella cuddles though!

Big hugs Teal

xxx

Thank you

xx

Cupcake Mummy · Apr 16th, 2012, 23:52 PM

*POOF* Lili is 5 and is at school! I have a new man and one/two kids. I am working in my job. I have no money problems and a nice house!!! Lili has not seen her dad for a long time because he moved overseas! *POOF*

LilDreamy · Apr 18th, 2012, 13:37 PM

I will be a nurse taking care of my two precious princesses on my own. Without much money problems. My children will be the happiest they could possibly be and never be without. And I will have time to spend time with them as much as I can.

My car will be paid off, they'll be in school doing school activities, and having little princess slumber parties with the house full of little giggles.

That I wake up everyday to see their happy little faces in a near perfect life.

Please God, help me be strong and reach our dreams. Amen!

BigZai · Apr 19th, 2012, 01:30 AM

If its a super magic wand in 5 years I would like
done with college and
married to some amazing guy who owns a farm and i can be a stay at home mom working with animals

Snowball · Apr 19th, 2012, 03:56 AM

I said something similar the other day.

I'd like to feel settled in my life (it's been a long time since I felt that!). I'd like to have found somebody and experienced what it's actually like to be with someone who truly loves you because as much as I used to think the ex did... He never would have bent over backwards to make me happy, that was my job for him.

I want the kids to be happy, again I find their relationship with the ex leads to them being bitter and I want to rip that away. I want to be a stronger person and not such a doormat who'll settle for second best because it's less hassle than saying I'm worth better.

A lot of stuff I want it more about my own personal development as the ex running off has truly opened my eyes to how weak I was. I want to change that.

dustbunny · Apr 19th, 2012, 04:12 AM

This is a brilliant idea of a thread!! - love it!!

In 5 years time FOB will be a distant memory as will his mother. I probably wouldn't have met anyone new as I am waaaayyy too busy with my business which I had started just before I found out I was pregnant. LO would be starting school this September and possibly... possibly... might be pregnant with baby numero 2 via sperm bank. Also really really happy and for the shit times to have ended.

Fraggles · Apr 24th, 2012, 12:38 PM

ooooooh settled and happy with my gorgeous boys maybe a few more added to the pot

Maybe even have a phd

Surreal · Apr 25th, 2012, 00:40 AM

In five years I'd like to be settled into a job with good benefits, and possibly the ability to advance, without sacrificing time with my son. Because, who's kidding? Son time is gonna take precedence over job advancement.

I'd like to be able to live on my own, in my own home. I'd like to be able to have more children, but at the same time... I'm not set on "needing" another man. I'm past that, atm, and am just looking forward to my son and I.

I guess one benefit I have already, is FOB has no involvement, other then paying money to ORS.

Apr 10th, 2012, 06:36 AM	#11
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 12,868	As much as I would like to meet someone decent I know I'll be happy as long as my son and I are happy. At the moment I just want to feel better. (a long drawn out fight with PPD) xx

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Apr 11th, 2012, 09:23 AM	#12
Lemonflower Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: UK Posts: 371	Aww I like your response Teal! :-) As long as me and little fella are happy then that's the main thing! I do miss big fella cuddles though! Big hugs Teal xxx

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Apr 16th, 2012, 23:52 PM	#14
Cupcake Mummy Press/Research Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 141	POOF Lili is 5 and is at school! I have a new man and one/two kids. I am working in my job. I have no money problems and a nice house!!! Lili has not seen her dad for a long time because he moved overseas! POOF

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Apr 18th, 2012, 13:37 PM	#15
LilDreamy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Germany (American) Posts: 2,980	I will be a nurse taking care of my two precious princesses on my own. Without much money problems. My children will be the happiest they could possibly be and never be without. And I will have time to spend time with them as much as I can. My car will be paid off, they'll be in school doing school activities, and having little princess slumber parties with the house full of little giggles. That I wake up everyday to see their happy little faces in a near perfect life. Please God, help me be strong and reach our dreams. Amen!

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Apr 19th, 2012, 01:30 AM	#16
BigZai Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 684	If its a super magic wand in 5 years I would like done with college and married to some amazing guy who owns a farm and i can be a stay at home mom working with animals

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Apr 19th, 2012, 03:56 AM	#17
Snowball Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 11,163	I said something similar the other day. I'd like to feel settled in my life (it's been a long time since I felt that!). I'd like to have found somebody and experienced what it's actually like to be with someone who truly loves you because as much as I used to think the ex did... He never would have bent over backwards to make me happy, that was my job for him. I want the kids to be happy, again I find their relationship with the ex leads to them being bitter and I want to rip that away. I want to be a stronger person and not such a doormat who'll settle for second best because it's less hassle than saying I'm worth better. A lot of stuff I want it more about my own personal development as the ex running off has truly opened my eyes to how weak I was. I want to change that.

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Apr 19th, 2012, 04:12 AM	#18
dustbunny Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Somerset Posts: 1,664	This is a brilliant idea of a thread!! - love it!! In 5 years time FOB will be a distant memory as will his mother. I probably wouldn't have met anyone new as I am waaaayyy too busy with my business which I had started just before I found out I was pregnant. LO would be starting school this September and possibly... possibly... might be pregnant with baby numero 2 via sperm bank. Also really really happy and for the shit times to have ended.

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Apr 24th, 2012, 12:38 PM	#19
Fraggles Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 7,060	ooooooh settled and happy with my gorgeous boys maybe a few more added to the pot Maybe even have a phd

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Apr 25th, 2012, 00:40 AM	#20
Surreal Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Western US Posts: 849	In five years I'd like to be settled into a job with good benefits, and possibly the ability to advance, without sacrificing time with my son. Because, who's kidding? Son time is gonna take precedence over job advancement. I'd like to be able to live on my own, in my own home. I'd like to be able to have more children, but at the same time... I'm not set on "needing" another man. I'm past that, atm, and am just looking forward to my son and I. I guess one benefit I have already, is FOB has no involvement, other then paying money to ORS.

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