*POOF* Lili is 5 and is at school! I have a new man and one/two kids. I am working in my job. I have no money problems and a nice house!!! Lili has not seen her dad for a long time because he moved overseas! *POOF*
I will be a nurse taking care of my two precious princesses on my own. Without much money problems. My children will be the happiest they could possibly be and never be without. And I will have time to spend time with them as much as I can.
My car will be paid off, they'll be in school doing school activities, and having little princess slumber parties with the house full of little giggles.
That I wake up everyday to see their happy little faces in a near perfect life.
Please God, help me be strong and reach our dreams. Amen!
I'd like to feel settled in my life (it's been a long time since I felt that!). I'd like to have found somebody and experienced what it's actually like to be with someone who truly loves you because as much as I used to think the ex did... He never would have bent over backwards to make me happy, that was my job for him.
I want the kids to be happy, again I find their relationship with the ex leads to them being bitter and I want to rip that away. I want to be a stronger person and not such a doormat who'll settle for second best because it's less hassle than saying I'm worth better.
A lot of stuff I want it more about my own personal development as the ex running off has truly opened my eyes to how weak I was. I want to change that.
This is a brilliant idea of a thread!! - love it!!
In 5 years time FOB will be a distant memory as will his mother. I probably wouldn't have met anyone new as I am waaaayyy too busy with my business which I had started just before I found out I was pregnant. LO would be starting school this September and possibly... possibly... might be pregnant with baby numero 2 via sperm bank. Also really really happy and for the shit times to have ended.
In five years I'd like to be settled into a job with good benefits, and possibly the ability to advance, without sacrificing time with my son. Because, who's kidding? Son time is gonna take precedence over job advancement. I'd like to be able to live on my own, in my own home. I'd like to be able to have more children, but at the same time... I'm not set on "needing" another man. I'm past that, atm, and am just looking forward to my son and I.
I guess one benefit I have already, is FOB has no involvement, other then paying money to ORS.
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