What a moron! - Page 2

destynibaby · Apr 8th, 2012, 09:08 AM

wow, what a loser!!
crazy people always show their true colors eventually and do something stupid to get themselves locked up!
i hope you and your son are doing okay.

tooyoung · Apr 8th, 2012, 10:36 AM

He sounds very scary. Be careful!

LJaydow · Apr 11th, 2012, 02:00 AM

Oh sweetheart! What a terribly stressful time for your and your LO. I hope now that the grief stops from him and his family - how awful

I hope you and your friend are ok and you are getting lots of support in this.

xxx

angelpkj · Apr 11th, 2012, 05:40 AM

so sorry to hear that but try see the positives

now they will see your side of the story now they will believe and listen to you and now your lo is safe away from him

xxsteffyxx · Apr 12th, 2012, 10:10 AM

You know what? I feel sorry for my boy...

At mediation it's been decided that a contact centre is now the best option, unfortunetly the contact centre has a 2-3 month waiting list. It is the safest option for both Harvey, myself and my family. But until the court date and such he cannot see Harvey (unless through a contact centre). I've been in touch with the centre and there isn't a lot they can do.

It just breaks my heart it has come to this. The contact we were currently doing, the 12hrs, was going so well... and then this happens.

Poor Harvey. :'(

judge12 · Apr 12th, 2012, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by xxsteffyxx

You know what? I feel sorry for my boy...

At mediation it's been decided that a contact centre is now the best option, unfortunetly the contact centre has a 2-3 month waiting list. It is the safest option for both Harvey, myself and my family. But until the court date and such he cannot see Harvey (unless through a contact centre). I've been in touch with the centre and there isn't a lot they can do.

It just breaks my heart it has come to this. The contact we were currently doing, the 12hrs, was going so well... and then this happens.

Poor Harvey. :'(

You are such a good mother. I do not think, actually I know I would never find it in my heart to let fob see our child again if he reported me to social worker then attacked me! You are thinking of just your son having a father in his life...I think from what you wrote that Harvey would be better off without this man in both your life. He does not sound like a good man at all or a good male role model for your son. But it is your choice

xxsteffyxx · Apr 15th, 2012, 12:14 PM

I hear so many times in my life...

'I am a dad, I have RIGHTS to my child'

But do you know what? Men and women do not have rights to their children. We as parents have responsiblity to our children, but it is our children who have the right.

Harvey has a right to know his dad, and depending on how the next 12 months goes who am I to deny Harvey a relashionship with his father? But Harvey is the only person I am thinking of, if I think that Harvey's relashionship with his father is detramental to his health and well being then of course I will have to think of other options. But unless Chris decides one month to see his son and then the next 2 months is too busy drinking and socialising to see his son... then of course, Harvey I hope will have a loving unionship with his father... and that is all that matters.

I am hoping the contact centre goes well, and that it works. But only time will tell what kind of father he is.

BrokenfoREVer · Apr 16th, 2012, 05:20 AM

Oh my gosh, what a total waste of air. I hope you & your friend are okay & that scumbag gets what he deserves! Big

stay strong

sophxx · Apr 16th, 2012, 14:38 PM

Do you have a solicyor? I'd push for a residency order to be placed in court so you have full rights. Then ask for his contact through a contact center x

MyFirstNoodle · Apr 16th, 2012, 14:56 PM

Did they actually say who reported you? My aunts Ex is always reporting her to social services but whenever my aunt asks who made the claim they always say...we can't give you that information all we can say is it's a male? What an arsehole your ex sounds. Hope it gets sorted xx

Apr 8th, 2012, 09:08 AM	#11
destynibaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 1,532	wow, what a loser!! crazy people always show their true colors eventually and do something stupid to get themselves locked up! i hope you and your son are doing okay.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 10:36 AM	#12
tooyoung Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 72	He sounds very scary. Be careful!

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LJaydow Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: London, UK Posts: 1,192	Oh sweetheart! What a terribly stressful time for your and your LO. I hope now that the grief stops from him and his family - how awful I hope you and your friend are ok and you are getting lots of support in this. xxx

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Apr 11th, 2012, 05:40 AM	#14
angelpkj Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 363	so sorry to hear that but try see the positives now they will see your side of the story now they will believe and listen to you and now your lo is safe away from him

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Apr 12th, 2012, 10:10 AM	#15
xxsteffyxx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Milton Keynes Posts: 1,333	You know what? I feel sorry for my boy... At mediation it's been decided that a contact centre is now the best option, unfortunetly the contact centre has a 2-3 month waiting list. It is the safest option for both Harvey, myself and my family. But until the court date and such he cannot see Harvey (unless through a contact centre). I've been in touch with the centre and there isn't a lot they can do. It just breaks my heart it has come to this. The contact we were currently doing, the 12hrs, was going so well... and then this happens. Poor Harvey. :'(

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Apr 15th, 2012, 12:14 PM	#17
xxsteffyxx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Milton Keynes Posts: 1,333	I hear so many times in my life... 'I am a dad, I have RIGHTS to my child' But do you know what? Men and women do not have rights to their children. We as parents have responsiblity to our children, but it is our children who have the right. Harvey has a right to know his dad, and depending on how the next 12 months goes who am I to deny Harvey a relashionship with his father? But Harvey is the only person I am thinking of, if I think that Harvey's relashionship with his father is detramental to his health and well being then of course I will have to think of other options. But unless Chris decides one month to see his son and then the next 2 months is too busy drinking and socialising to see his son... then of course, Harvey I hope will have a loving unionship with his father... and that is all that matters. I am hoping the contact centre goes well, and that it works. But only time will tell what kind of father he is.

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Apr 16th, 2012, 05:20 AM	#18
BrokenfoREVer Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Wakefield UK Posts: 1,636	Oh my gosh, what a total waste of air. I hope you & your friend are okay & that scumbag gets what he deserves! Big stay strong

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Apr 16th, 2012, 14:38 PM	#19
sophxx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 7,774	Do you have a solicyor? I'd push for a residency order to be placed in court so you have full rights. Then ask for his contact through a contact center x

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Apr 16th, 2012, 14:56 PM	#20
MyFirstNoodle Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 1,076	Did they actually say who reported you? My aunts Ex is always reporting her to social services but whenever my aunt asks who made the claim they always say...we can't give you that information all we can say is it's a male? What an arsehole your ex sounds. Hope it gets sorted xx

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