I'm worried i'll never get a boyfriend/relationship being a single mom

Blue_star · Apr 6th, 2012, 23:14 PM

I'm 22 and 14 weeks pregnant my OH is ignoring me because I got mad at him after catching him in a lie... now he is saying me being pregnant isn't true and there is no baby.

I'm worried now after I have my baby i'll be forever alone and single while he is off in some wonderful relationship denying his son or daughters existence.

Dream.dream · Apr 7th, 2012, 00:46 AM

There is plenty of wonderful men out there who will. Try and focus on your baby and when the right man comes along he will love and accept you both. *hugs*

lemontree12 · Apr 7th, 2012, 01:33 AM

Chin up! I feel the same, I'm 27weeks pregnant and my bf of 4yrs wants nothing to do with our daughter! He is now in how I feel a happy relationship while I'm left picking up the pieces! We only broke up 13 weeks ago!
But the last few days I been thinking " do I really want someone who is that selfish around me" and to be honest I'd rather be alone than spend my life in what would now be something I didn't trust!

2men have already offered to take care me and my baby, but I'm not ready to get into a relationship, I want to find me again and get to no my new baby! So there are good men out there! And what my friends have told me is you no uv got a good man if he's able to love u and ur baby equally! I want nothing other than a good person x

Abby_ · Apr 7th, 2012, 05:05 AM

In the future, he may have some wonderful relationship, but you will have a wonderful daughter. That's worth a lot more than some relationship.
You won't be alone forever, you will find a man who will love both you and your LO, it just might take a little longer.

Jinty · Apr 7th, 2012, 05:30 AM

I would take the relationship between me and my daughter any day! I'm single at the moment only because i'm not ready to go back into that world.

It will get better

jemmie1994 · Apr 7th, 2012, 19:27 PM

there are lots of wonderful guys out there who will look after you and your daughter when FOB left i thought right thats it for me forever alone may aswell buy a cat right now but have had 3 guys say their interested and arent put off by Evie but right now just wanna concentrate on getting myself sorted and being a mum dating can come later

whoknowsx · Apr 7th, 2012, 20:57 PM

I feel the same way.....

CanadianMaple · Apr 8th, 2012, 07:52 AM

You will. The key is to get yourself into a place where you are totally at peace and feel good about you. It took me 18 months from when my ex left to when I met my now husband. I took that year and a half to really change my thinking patterns and to do a lot of soul searching, while really enjoying my son.

Someone like him will always be miserable. You deserve better and it won't hurt you to take some time away from him to really see things from the outside. I know when I finally stepped back, I felt so sad that I allowed someone to treat me like he did.

destynibaby · Apr 8th, 2012, 09:03 AM

Oh honey trust me, that is so not the case. A real man would accept you and your little one. You must first work on YOU though. Get yourself in a place where you are truly ready to move on with someone else. Someone you feel comfortable with around your child. The last thing you want is to have different men in and out of his or her life. Love yourself, Love your child and GOD will bring the right loving man into your life.

Laura2919 · Apr 8th, 2012, 14:48 PM

You wont be single forever, you'll find someone.

Maybe you and your OH can work it out if its something that might be worked on.

Apr 6th, 2012, 23:14 PM	#1
Blue_star Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 360	I'm worried i'll never get a boyfriend/relationship being a single mom I'm 22 and 14 weeks pregnant my OH is ignoring me because I got mad at him after catching him in a lie... now he is saying me being pregnant isn't true and there is no baby. I'm worried now after I have my baby i'll be forever alone and single while he is off in some wonderful relationship denying his son or daughters existence.

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Dream.dream Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,276	There is plenty of wonderful men out there who will. Try and focus on your baby and when the right man comes along he will love and accept you both. hugs

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lemontree12 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 754	Chin up! I feel the same, I'm 27weeks pregnant and my bf of 4yrs wants nothing to do with our daughter! He is now in how I feel a happy relationship while I'm left picking up the pieces! We only broke up 13 weeks ago! But the last few days I been thinking " do I really want someone who is that selfish around me" and to be honest I'd rather be alone than spend my life in what would now be something I didn't trust! 2men have already offered to take care me and my baby, but I'm not ready to get into a relationship, I want to find me again and get to no my new baby! So there are good men out there! And what my friends have told me is you no uv got a good man if he's able to love u and ur baby equally! I want nothing other than a good person x

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Apr 7th, 2012, 05:05 AM	#4
Abby_ Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,868	In the future, he may have some wonderful relationship, but you will have a wonderful daughter. That's worth a lot more than some relationship. You won't be alone forever, you will find a man who will love both you and your LO, it just might take a little longer.

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Jinty Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: UK Posts: 445	I would take the relationship between me and my daughter any day! I'm single at the moment only because i'm not ready to go back into that world. It will get better

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jemmie1994 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Manchester Posts: 2,681	there are lots of wonderful guys out there who will look after you and your daughter when FOB left i thought right thats it for me forever alone may aswell buy a cat right now but have had 3 guys say their interested and arent put off by Evie but right now just wanna concentrate on getting myself sorted and being a mum dating can come later

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whoknowsx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: New York Posts: 65	I feel the same way.....

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CanadianMaple Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 1,024	You will. The key is to get yourself into a place where you are totally at peace and feel good about you. It took me 18 months from when my ex left to when I met my now husband. I took that year and a half to really change my thinking patterns and to do a lot of soul searching, while really enjoying my son. Someone like him will always be miserable. You deserve better and it won't hurt you to take some time away from him to really see things from the outside. I know when I finally stepped back, I felt so sad that I allowed someone to treat me like he did.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 09:03 AM	#9
destynibaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 1,532	Oh honey trust me, that is so not the case. A real man would accept you and your little one. You must first work on YOU though. Get yourself in a place where you are truly ready to move on with someone else. Someone you feel comfortable with around your child. The last thing you want is to have different men in and out of his or her life. Love yourself, Love your child and GOD will bring the right loving man into your life.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 14:48 PM	#10
Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 15,770	You wont be single forever, you'll find someone. Maybe you and your OH can work it out if its something that might be worked on.

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