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Old Apr 9th, 2012, 14:13 PM   #1
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I feel like I can't handle this!

My OH and I broke up.. I found out he was texting some other girl 5 hours away he always told me they were friends but then she told me he was "trying to hook up with her". I told her about the baby and now he is completely ignoring me I'v tried texting, sending facebook messages, calling and nothing. I even have an OB appointment Friday before he told me how he really wanted to come to my appointments now he is ignoring me and won't even come!

He seemed like he wanted to be apart of his babies life so much. Now because of this he won't even speak to me and has told the girl it's not true! Is that fair never talk to me again or see your baby because I upset some girl. I feel like I shouldn't have even told her I should've just lived with the fact he was flirting with her at least he would've been their for the birth of his son/daughter.


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Old Apr 9th, 2012, 15:06 PM   #2
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will


 
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Old Apr 9th, 2012, 20:40 PM   #3
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Oh my I'm sorry that happen to me too. He still lies about his involvement with the other girl and he is now ignoring me and his baby. Keep your chin up and be proud that you found out sooner. You can always talk to me if you need to.


 
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Old Apr 9th, 2012, 20:43 PM   #4
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will
good point it might feel even worst if you have to deal with it when the baby is around. I do not want that for my child!


 
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Old Apr 9th, 2012, 21:33 PM   #5
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I just tried to reply to your pm but your inbox is full.


 
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Old Apr 10th, 2012, 05:50 AM   #6
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will
good point it might feel even worst if you have to deal with it when the baby is around. I do not want that for my child!
yeah it is worse FOB left when Evie was 6 weeks old i wasnt upset for me our relationship had been bad for ages but i cried for Evie cos she deserves so much better than him, would have been easier if he'd just of left in the beginning so didnt get false hope that things would be ok


 
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Old Apr 10th, 2012, 06:32 AM   #7
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Massive hugs I'm so sorry you've had to deal with that. You've done the right thing. I know it's hard but it's better to know these things now rather than after you have your little one. If you hadnt' have said anything it woul dhave just eaten away at you.

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Old Apr 10th, 2012, 08:27 AM   #8
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will
good point it might feel even worst if you have to deal with it when the baby is around. I do not want that for my child!
yeah it is worse FOB left when Evie was 6 weeks old i wasnt upset for me our relationship had been bad for ages but i cried for Evie cos she deserves so much better than him, would have been easier if he'd just of left in the beginning so didnt get false hope that things would be ok
Wow what a loser for sure. I can't believe he left you when the child is already born. I think the FOB would of left me anyways before or after. Yes it does make is easier having leaving you before. I don't understand why this even happens. How can anyone leave their child and not wonder every single day.


 
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Old Apr 10th, 2012, 13:33 PM   #9
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will
good point it might feel even worst if you have to deal with it when the baby is around. I do not want that for my child!
yeah it is worse FOB left when Evie was 6 weeks old i wasnt upset for me our relationship had been bad for ages but i cried for Evie cos she deserves so much better than him, would have been easier if he'd just of left in the beginning so didnt get false hope that things would be ok
Wow what a loser for sure. I can't believe he left you when the child is already born. I think the FOB would of left me anyways before or after. Yes it does make is easier having leaving you before. I don't understand why this even happens. How can anyone leave their child and not wonder every single day.
my thoughts exactly!


 
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Old Apr 10th, 2012, 16:37 PM   #10
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what an arse! sounds very much like my FOB some girl told me they'd been flirting i confronted him and he didnt talk to me for 2 days seriously hun guys like that arent worth bothering with even if you stick it out until the birth you'll just be even more unhappy when he acts like he doesnt care about your baby again and sounds like he will
good point it might feel even worst if you have to deal with it when the baby is around. I do not want that for my child!
yeah it is worse FOB left when Evie was 6 weeks old i wasnt upset for me our relationship had been bad for ages but i cried for Evie cos she deserves so much better than him, would have been easier if he'd just of left in the beginning so didnt get false hope that things would be ok
Wow what a loser for sure. I can't believe he left you when the child is already born. I think the FOB would of left me anyways before or after. Yes it does make is easier having leaving you before. I don't understand why this even happens. How can anyone leave their child and not wonder every single day.
my thoughts exactly!

I don't know that's horrible! But I hope my Ex-OH wonders everyday he is a very family orientated person and really seems like the type who would want to see his kid and he's acting like this.. I guess I have until October when my due date is to see if he even bothers.


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