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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 06:46 AM   21
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That Gary needs a good kick up the bum and im not being funny or anything but i think she needs one too. I know having a baby is hard but she didnt even do the night feeds and left it all to her mom. It alright if you want the odd night off, i can totaly understand that but the baby shouldnt really be sleeping in her moms room and it shouldnt be left upto her mom to feed it every night. Well that just my opinion anyway i may be wrong lol. On the other hand i think the first couple were really mature and were doing a wonderfull job

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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 06:49 AM   22
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i watch it i dont think its right the baby sleeping in her mums room and her mum doing all the night feeds
the other two caine and that girl seemed quite mature x



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 07:07 AM   23
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In the pregnant girl last night ,I think personally the mums scared of what people may think of her daughter being a mum, therefore takes charge of everything to look like the mum, i mean she even tells him what his wearing, but its her responsibilitie and sooner or later her mum will not want to do it, and when she has another child, and moves out she'll have to learn to cope so her mum doing everything certainitly isn't helping,

and her not doing anything to help her mum to, i mean her mum quit her job, but when her mum was at work she didn't even put a load of washing which no doubt had her stuff in aswell, i do all my own washing and my mums occasionally if theres not enough of my stuff to put in, but i only live with my mum so therefore its easier on us, to do our own washing, and that i cook two nights a week and i'm certainitly not going to expect my mum to find bump every night, i see that as my responisbilitie.

they show more bad then good it seems on some of these programmes, which may be good if teens who aren't pregnant watch it and think well i'll be safer, but for people like us who are having or who've had babies young, getting all put in one boat with the bad side of things makes more and more people look down on us don't you think?




 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 07:20 AM   24
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i got the impression its the mum who pushed her daughter out of caring for her wown baby, she was a little obsessive about it and needs to take a step back she is not the mum she is a nan and she should provide supoort but not interfere, how can the nan quit her job because chloe was uncomfortable at the end of her pregnancy, of course she was !!! she now claims benifits for her and her three children because she wanted to be at home to look after her daughters baby !

i wouldnt like it if it was my mum



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 08:45 AM   25
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I see what you mean and i do think that some grandparents take over when it's their teenage daughter/son having a child, not to interfere in a nasty way.. But because they feel it's their place to help as much as they can.. Probably because they feel their teenage child hasn't 'lived enough' and deserves a childhood as well as a new life as a parent.
I don't think it's Chloe's mum who's really pushing her out of being a mum.. I think she's honestly quite happy with the fact that her mum is doing alot for her. I mean.. She won't grow up as a mother saying "Yeah i used to wake up all hours with Morgan, but i wouldn't change it for the world.. It bonded us" etc etc. And i bet she hasn't argued with her mum about her doing Morgans night feeds and him sleeping in her room. When her mum was saying about having parental responsibilty, Chloe said "i don't really care if she has it anyway" i was like.. Okay, because THAT'S a mature way of dealing with it? :S



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 08:46 AM   26
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I think the way that girls mum took on the responsibilty was shocking.
If you have a baby you deal with it yourself, its your responsiblity you should be the one to wake up with it, feed and clothe it! But in all honesty i dont think that girl wanted her mum to do it all i just think she was scared to question her mum's choices, because to me it looked as though her mum decided what happened and that was it.
I also think the dad should grow up a bit more! even the one who already had a son, seemed not to do much.

Second girl and boy sounded much more irresponsible, they are the ones who make us all look bad by saying they were drunk and didnt use protection so that was it!

just my opionion anyway



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 08:51 AM   27
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I know what you mean about the drunken night and no protection.. She even giggled about it as though she hadn't a care in the world.. It really gets on my goat.
& i don't believe her and that Gary really wanted to be together anyway.. I didn't feel any chemistry between them, i think they felt as though they HAD to make it work, which is rediculous, when it just a drunken night, they were 'seeing eachother' and he had his eye on somebody else at the time.



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 08:52 AM   28
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AND he said.. "i was a bit unsure as to whether it was mine n that" GOSHHH what a palava.



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 09:00 AM   29
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me and FOB just watched in again seeing as his round, and we was shocked , i mean i know it's stupid were not together but the drunk bit was like i can somewhat happily say we was both sober when LO was concieved not that she'll ever ask but when people do they are like was you drunk, we was sober i'd been sick the day before and therefore my pill had no effect and i made a mistake thinking it would and he said that threw his point of view, the boy who took the baby out for the first time alone is a bit silly, he noticed something i didn't he didn't have a changing bag in case of emergency, and he didn't really interact with the baby apart from changing its bum.



He also seems to think, he as a dad won't be like them and that the boys they show that tend to be older, have given hiim a bad name, because they either completely off and leave like last weeks, or they just act like the boy last night uninterested and never really involved with the baby.



 
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Old Aug 4th, 2009, 10:40 AM   30
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i watch it but sometimes get a lil frustrated with some of the parents make us all look bad..



 
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