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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 18:09 PM   1
sh0rtiee6o4
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Who's the father...?


Hello everyone!

So I'm 31 weeks and 2 days pregnant. My expected due date is on November 28th. I'm pretty excited and nervous plus all these other emotions combined!
I have a little situation though. I currently am with my boyfriend and we are sexually active. I was on the depo birthcontrol shot and still got pregnant. At some point in the relationship I did have sex with another guy, but it was only once and he didn't ejactulate inside of me. I'm just really scared who the father of the baby may be.
Who could the father be?



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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 18:35 PM   2
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It's unlikely that it's the other guy but I'd get a DNA test once baby is here to be sure. Does your OH know about it? Congrats by the way x



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 18:44 PM   3
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Thanks, but he doesn't know about it. And I know I should tell him. I'm really scared to



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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 20:52 PM   4
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Really depends. Can you use your due date as a helpful hint? Like.count back? were you having sex with both at the same time? Like within the same week i.mean? Youll need a dna test to.know for sure if.you had sex witg them.both in the same cycle, and you need to tell your boyfriend. congratulationsbon your pregnancy



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2013, 23:14 PM   5
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Thank you! I have tried to calculate when I had sex with the other guy but I really have a bad memory of when it actually happened :/



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Old Sep 29th, 2013, 04:40 AM   6
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Definitely tell your boyfriend hun. I know it'll be hard but you need to know the truth for your baby so they can know for sure who their dad is hugs hun. Must be a hard situation to be in xx



 
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Old Sep 29th, 2013, 07:51 AM   7
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Sounds like it is your boyfriends, but a DNA is the only way to know as you did have sex, the pull out 'method' isn't reliable.

Plus you do need to let your boyfriend know, like a PP said, you need to know the truth for the sake of your baby

Congratulations on your pregnancy too



 
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Old Oct 1st, 2013, 15:27 PM   8
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Congratulations on your pregnancy.

I do agree with the others though, you need to tell your current boyfriend that you slept with someone else. It isn't fair on him, you or the baby.
Does the other guy know that you're pregnant and that the baby could be his? Yeah, a slim chance but a chance none the less.

Honestly really is the best policy, not only does your LO deserve to know who the daddy is... but guilt is terrible for a relationship as well.
As soon as baby is here, you can get a DNA test done and know for sure!



 
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Old Oct 1st, 2013, 18:57 PM   9
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Is there any way you could get the other guy to agree to a paternity test without having to tell your boyfriend?



 
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Old Oct 2nd, 2013, 16:55 PM   10
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Is there any way you could get the other guy to agree to a paternity test without having to tell your boyfriend?
I think her boyfriend should know anyways. Honesty is always the key in relationships.

Good luck OP! Hope everything works out for you. And November babies are the best!



 
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