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Old May 29th, 2016, 13:38 PM   11
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Thank you to everyone for their support and guidance, it was much needed. I followed what most of you said which is to tell my parents. They didn't take it so well, but I'm sure not many parents would. I decided not to disclose who the father of the baby is, as I haven't made up my mind of what I want to do. I also have not yet told the father of the baby for this reason. I have a doctor appointment booked for next week to see what's going on. Once again, thank you for your help. I'll be sure to keep you updated.
I'm glad you have told your parents. I am sure that was a very difficult thing to do. Do you have anyone around you to support you?



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Old May 29th, 2016, 15:08 PM   12
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I'm glad you have told your parents. I am sure that was a very difficult thing to do. Do you have anyone around you to support you?
My parents are supporting me, in a sense, they're just not happy about it. We're not on the best of terms but they're not turning their backs on me. It doesn't help that I'm hiding who the father is from them, which I know is quite immature but I just don't think it's the right time. The friend I have told is also great for moral support.



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Old May 29th, 2016, 16:34 PM   13
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I'm glad you have told your parents. I am sure that was a very difficult thing to do. Do you have anyone around you to support you?
My parents are supporting me, in a sense, they're just not happy about it. We're not on the best of terms but they're not turning their backs on me. It doesn't help that I'm hiding who the father is from them, which I know is quite immature but I just don't think it's the right time. The friend I have told is also great for moral support.
Glad they are supporting you. I'm sure they will come around, have you given any more thought to what the outcome will be?

Also happy to hear you have a friend that is supporting you, that always helps!



 
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Old May 29th, 2016, 16:46 PM   14
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I'm glad you have told your parents. I am sure that was a very difficult thing to do. Do you have anyone around you to support you?
My parents are supporting me, in a sense, they're just not happy about it. We're not on the best of terms but they're not turning their backs on me. It doesn't help that I'm hiding who the father is from them, which I know is quite immature but I just don't think it's the right time. The friend I have told is also great for moral support.
So glad to hear you told them and have a good support system. I'm happy to heat you have your first appointment too!! We are all here for you hun .



 
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Old May 29th, 2016, 16:51 PM   15
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Glad they are supporting you. I'm sure they will come around, have you given any more thought to what the outcome will be?

Also happy to hear you have a friend that is supporting you, that always helps!
I know how hard it is to take in, so I understand they need some time to process like I did. Telling my parents has actually made it sink in a little more, and made it seem more real so I've been doing a lot of thinking. It's still early days so I don't want to rush into any rash decisions when there is plenty of time to think things through properly. However, I have been taking in the factors of each option I have. I believe I have quite a lot of maturity for my age (even if what got me in this position was an immature action) so I've been able to convince myself I'm able to make the appropriate decisions.

It is great having that friend there, although she can't help me out much as she doesn't know about these things herself, she's someone I can get my feelings out to.



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Well hun you have us here on BnB we have lots of experience and good advice for you



 
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Old May 29th, 2016, 20:31 PM   17
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Glad they are supporting you. I'm sure they will come around, have you given any more thought to what the outcome will be?

Also happy to hear you have a friend that is supporting you, that always helps!
I know how hard it is to take in, so I understand they need some time to process like I did. Telling my parents has actually made it sink in a little more, and made it seem more real so I've been doing a lot of thinking. It's still early days so I don't want to rush into any rash decisions when there is plenty of time to think things through properly. However, I have been taking in the factors of each option I have. I believe I have quite a lot of maturity for my age (even if what got me in this position was an immature action) so I've been able to convince myself I'm able to make the appropriate decisions.

It is great having that friend there, although she can't help me out much as she doesn't know about these things herself, she's someone I can get my feelings out to.
I'm glad you have support from them. You definitely seem like you are very mature for your age. What do you think you are wanting to do?



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Old May 29th, 2016, 20:33 PM   18
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You sound like an incredibly mature lady and I'm sure that you will come to the right decision for yourself. Have you thought of starting on any prenatal vitamins? It's generally good to take those as early as possible, and they are just great for general women's health as well so it's a win win!



 
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Old May 30th, 2016, 05:06 AM   19
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I don't know exactly what I want to do yet, no, but I think I am going through with the pregnancy.

And yes, I started taking prenatal vitamins yesterday.

Thanks again for all the help, I hope all of your babies/pregnancies are doing well!



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Old May 30th, 2016, 09:33 AM   20
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I don't know exactly what I want to do yet, no, but I think I am going through with the pregnancy.

And yes, I started taking prenatal vitamins yesterday.

Thanks again for all the help, I hope all of your babies/pregnancies are doing well!
Well that is good. If you want to text me you can. I'd love to get to know you and support you. My email is [email protected] you can email me and I can give you my number



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