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Old Jun 20th, 2016, 20:41 PM   41
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Hey hun just checking up to see how you are doing .
I'm still doing good, thank you!! Not much has changed or progressed yet, but I'm definitely making my way up there. Symptoms are still pretty mild which I definitely cannot complain about. Overall, I'm feeling great.



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Old Jun 22nd, 2016, 20:33 PM   42
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Just caught up on all this. Hope your feeling good. Curious if you've told the father yet?



 
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Old Jun 22nd, 2016, 20:54 PM   43
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Hope you are well



 
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Old Jun 28th, 2016, 00:34 AM   44
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Just read your story now. Just wanted to drop in with some support! Glad to hear that you have been keeping well. Nurturing a lil one inside you is so beautiful & exciting! You made a mature & admirable decision, wishing you a healthy remainder of pregnancy! Also, hopefully the father of the baby reacts well to the news Let us know what happens!



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Old Jun 30th, 2016, 21:45 PM   45
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Hi!
Thank you all, I'm still feeling pretty good on the whole!
I had my scan, it was amazing, so surreal. The baby is healthy and doing well.

As for the father, it's a difficult one. I've told him, he knows it all and to be honest, I think it went pretty well considering. The only thing is, we haven't told his girlfriend yet. I'm still really small, so none of my friends have really noticed much of a change with me and don't know about my pregnancy. We are making plans to tell her, we just don't know what to do or say.

Thanks again for all of the support.



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Great update glad scan was good



 
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Old Jul 1st, 2016, 07:28 AM   47
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I'm so happy to hear everything went well at your first scan! I'm also glad to hear that you told the father and that he seems to be taking it pretty well. I have no advice about the girlfriend issue but I bet you both are really excited.



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 04:40 AM   48
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Glad all is going well! and congrats on how maturely you acted on this, with telling your parents, getting a proper healthcare and telling the father! kudos for this!

As for the girlfriend issue, the less you wait the better. like this she is staying with him and bonding to him more and more, and the more you wait the harder it will be on everybody. plus, if they're having sex too then you know, there's a chance that they also end up like you and him. NOT a good scenario, right?

don't expect not to hurt her nor expect her to be understanding or to stay your friend and his girlfriend after all. anyone would be hurt and pissed in her situation.

if I were you i would face her in person, if possible both of you together. at some neutral place where she or you both can leave anytime. if you can't do it like that, then i would write a letter together with the FOB and give it to her. texts, phone calls, whatsapp and especially RUMORS... are the worst and defo a no go. don't forget to apologize and don't try to make excuses and justify your act.

good luck with that. it is one of those uncomfortable "ugly" things you need to go through in this journey... but the sooner you get it over with, the better. when your baby comes it will all become much less relevant and much less of a torture than it is now. with this, i don't mean to say that sleeping with your best friend's boyfriend and getting pregnant was a smart thing to do, but as you said yourself, you live and you learn, also from not such smart moves and mistakes, right?



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As for the girlfriend issue, the less you wait the better. like this she is staying with him and bonding to him more and more, and the more you wait the harder it will be on everybody. plus, if they're having sex too then you know, there's a chance that they also end up like you and him. NOT a good scenario, right?

don't expect not to hurt her nor expect her to be understanding or to stay your friend and his girlfriend after all. anyone would be hurt and pissed in her situation.

if I were you i would face her in person, if possible both of you together. at some neutral place where she or you both can leave anytime. if you can't do it like that, then i would write a letter together with the FOB and give it to her. texts, phone calls, whatsapp and especially RUMORS... are the worst and defo a no go. don't forget to apologize and don't try to make excuses and justify your act.

good luck with that. it is one of those uncomfortable "ugly" things you need to go through in this journey... but the sooner you get it over with, the better. when your baby comes it will all become much less relevant and much less of a torture than it is now. with this, i don't mean to say that sleeping with your best friend's boyfriend and getting pregnant was a smart thing to do, but as you said yourself, you live and you learn, also from not such smart moves and mistakes, right?
WSS, skyesmom always gives great advice, she's a cool lady!

I agree, don't forget to apologize and don't fall into defending yourself. She may get angry and lash out at you and you will most likely want to fight back, but just understand she is feeling a lot of emotions and doesn't know how to deal with it. Keep telling her you are sorry, we are all here now and you hope the two of you can move forward



 
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Old Jul 11th, 2016, 10:02 AM   50
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All of these messages have definitely helped and I appreciate the time you're taking to help me. Thank you.



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