Trying not to be stressed out. Im one of those people who likes to know things ahead of time and be certain...however thats not possible without DNA testing, which isn't an option.
Also my period from February started on like the 12th or 13th....I don't remember when I got it in march, as my periods don't come very consistent every month sometimes a week earlier or later my guess is I started my period between March 9th-14th...Because I know I wasn't on my period on my birthday weekend which was March 18-19 and I wasn't on my period Easter week (March 24-27)
I know it's likely to be my ex's based on what everyone has said. Im too embarrassed and ashamed to talk to anyone about this, as I have already told my family, friends that the father is my ex. They don't know about his abuse and what he made me do. I've come close to telling my mom a few times, but I just can't. This pregnancy has already been VERY hard on me emotionally. I know she won't judge me as she has been supportive all through this, but I really just can't do it. If I tell her, she will tell my family and all our relatives, explaining to them because I honestly can't! And Im too embarrassed and ashamed and this pregnancy has already been very embarrassing considering the circumstances and I don't need anymore embarressment. Telling her would be hard enough. And then I'd have to explain to all my friends, and Im really not ready to go through all that. As for a medical professional, I have a mid wife but I've never been comfortable talking to anyone. Also doesn't help that my mom comes with me to every appointment and stays in the room with me while talking to her. I just can't tell anyone really.
Well you need to reach out and talk to someone. Is there anyone who you trust?
Not really. I trust my mom but Im not ready to tell her about what happened with my ex and his friend and how he manipulated me. Its very embarrassing for me. And I don't want people to know what happened because everyone thinks it's my ex's, and I don't want to have to explain the whole story to everyone..family..friends..etc. This pregnancy has been hard enough on me. And if the baby comes out to be a different color, being my ex's friends baby, then this is all gonna come out and I'm not ready. I just want it to be 100% my ex's because I can't deal with this. I can barely deal with this pregnancy, I don't need anymore things to deal with and have to explain
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