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Old Aug 10th, 2016, 03:00 AM   11
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All of your maternity notes will be based on your dating scan even here in the UK despite the fact you know when you conceived and you know your LMP everything is based from the dating scan

honestly neither scan is 100% going to tell you when you conceived or who the father is - the scan dating is based on how big your baby is - some babies measure ahead some babies measure behind

However, from your dates of :dtd: and when you got your positive I would say you could be fairly comfortable in it being your exes

I hope it works out the way you want it too ultimately once baby is born none of this will matter



 
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Old Aug 19th, 2016, 15:52 PM   12
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Yes, it sounds like the information you've provided confirm the baby belongs to your ex. Now focus on your pregnancy and informing him and those you need to of what has happened.



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Old Aug 27th, 2016, 22:42 PM   13
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Trying not to be stressed out. Im one of those people who likes to know things ahead of time and be certain...however thats not possible without DNA testing, which isn't an option.

Also my period from February started on like the 12th or 13th....I don't remember when I got it in march, as my periods don't come very consistent every month sometimes a week earlier or later my guess is I started my period between March 9th-14th...Because I know I wasn't on my period on my birthday weekend which was March 18-19 and I wasn't on my period Easter week (March 24-27)



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Old Aug 28th, 2016, 01:36 AM   14
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Well this baby will take away your ability to be certain and know things ahead of time. Perhaps that's why God has allowed this into your life.



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Old Aug 28th, 2016, 03:00 AM   15
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Well this baby will take away your ability to be certain and know things ahead of time. Perhaps that's why God has allowed this into your life.
Yes, but I would really like to be certain who the father is before I have this baby. All my family think it's my ex's as they don't know about the 1 night stand



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Old Aug 28th, 2016, 05:56 AM   16
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I know it's likely to be my ex's based on what everyone has said. Im too embarrassed and ashamed to talk to anyone about this, as I have already told my family, friends that the father is my ex. They don't know about his abuse and what he made me do. I've come close to telling my mom a few times, but I just can't. This pregnancy has already been VERY hard on me emotionally. I know she won't judge me as she has been supportive all through this, but I really just can't do it. If I tell her, she will tell my family and all our relatives, explaining to them because I honestly can't! And Im too embarrassed and ashamed and this pregnancy has already been very embarrassing considering the circumstances and I don't need anymore embarressment. Telling her would be hard enough. And then I'd have to explain to all my friends, and Im really not ready to go through all that. As for a medical professional, I have a mid wife but I've never been comfortable talking to anyone. Also doesn't help that my mom comes with me to every appointment and stays in the room with me while talking to her. I just can't tell anyone really.

Please God just be my ex's baby..



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Old Aug 28th, 2016, 17:14 PM   17
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Well you need to reach out and talk to someone. Is there anyone who you trust?



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Old Aug 28th, 2016, 20:04 PM   18
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Well you need to reach out and talk to someone. Is there anyone who you trust?

Not really. I trust my mom but Im not ready to tell her about what happened with my ex and his friend and how he manipulated me. Its very embarrassing for me. And I don't want people to know what happened because everyone thinks it's my ex's, and I don't want to have to explain the whole story to everyone..family..friends..etc. This pregnancy has been hard enough on me. And if the baby comes out to be a different color, being my ex's friends baby, then this is all gonna come out and I'm not ready. I just want it to be 100% my ex's because I can't deal with this. I can barely deal with this pregnancy, I don't need anymore things to deal with and have to explain



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Old Aug 29th, 2016, 02:22 AM   19
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can you find a councilor somewhere in your area? i am sure there must be some sort of a support group? and go there without your mom and just talk to someone neutral?



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Old Aug 29th, 2016, 17:33 PM   20
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Maybe start out confiding in someone in here and see if you can find some support online or somewhere you feel you can receive confidential help? There has to be a teen center somewhere.



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