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Old Aug 23rd, 2016, 22:18 PM   1
LennaG
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Need opinions!


Ok So currently Im 24 weeks pregnant.

Here is what I need opinions on:
SO I had sex with my ex boyfriend every weekend in march. We broke up the end of March. On April 2nd or 3rd I went to a party and drank a lot and ending up sleeping with a guy. I don't remember if this was April 2nd or 3rd. Anyways, on April 7th I took both clear blue and first response pregnancy tests and they were positive. The next day I went to the clinic and took their urine test which was very faint, but positive. They wouldn't do and U/S for another few weeks. I went in for the U/S on May 3rd and they put me at 7weeks+2, making my Due date around Dec 18th and conception around March 27th (used an online calculator).

A month later I went to an actual doctor for my first OB appointment. They sent me for a dating scan the same day (approx 12+ weeks) at my dating scan on June 8th, they said I was measuring 13+1, putting my Due date forward at December 13th.

I've heard mixed things about earlier U/S being more accurate, some saying the 12 week one is more accurate than the 7 week. SO IDK.

What Im trying to figure out is if I got pregnant by my Ex or the 1 night stand on April 2nd or 3rd.



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Old Aug 23rd, 2016, 22:34 PM   2
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If you.had a bfp on the 7th it's highly unlikely that it's from sex on the 2nd or 3rd. I think it may actually be impossible. So likely.iys your ex baby.



 
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Old Aug 23rd, 2016, 22:47 PM   3
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I agree with the above poster, I have also always been told and in my own personal experience the earlier scan is more accurate, my sister says the same and she is midwife. I would be 90% sure the baby is your ex's



 
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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 03:18 AM   4
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I agree with the above poster, I have also always been told and in my own personal experience the earlier scan is more accurate, my sister says the same and she is midwife. I would be 90% sure the baby is your ex's

How accurate are the early scans VS the 12 week one? My midwife is going by the 12 week scan and Due date of Dec 13th.

Im just so confused. I hope that its my exs



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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 04:01 AM   5
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Ugh this is stressing me out so much. I cant get paternity testing done either because neither guys are in my life (or the same state) anymore.
I really really really just hope its NOT the guy from April.
Just not sure how accurate the conception dates from the two due dates (Dec 18th, Dec 13th) would be. I hear all different things. Also doesn't help that I don't remember when my LMP was for march.



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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 04:04 AM   6
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By my calculations you would have conceived in March if you go by either of the scan dates so that makes it definitely your ex's does it not?



 
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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 04:09 AM   7
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By my calculations you would have conceived in March if you go by either of the scan dates so that makes it definitely your ex's does it not?

Likely yes, but the fact that I don't remember my LMP makes me worried. And the fact that U/S aren't always correct.



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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 05:11 AM   8
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The ultrasound dates would be far more accurate then your LMP so don't even worry about that, it's probably a good thing cause that would just make u even more confused! I think u can pretty safely assume it's your ex's but the only way to know for certain is to request a DNA test



 
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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 09:30 AM   9
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It's really doubtful that you would have gotten a positive 5 days after conception. It takes that long just for the fertilized egg to travel through the tube to the uterus. I would say without a doubt that it's your exs.



 
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Old Aug 24th, 2016, 14:27 PM   10
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I would say its your exes based on the info listed, but you need a DNA to be sure!



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